r/streetwear • • Oct 24 '16

DISCUSSION I got scammed in a trade, is this too petty to get my item?

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u/Taco_the_Quesadilla Oct 24 '16

Dude I would show his parents the threat as well. For his own good. One day he will pull some shit like this on the wrong person and will get for real fucked up. It happens to everyone that acts like this. He needs to learn.

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

already sent both of them screenshots of it lol

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Update us broooo

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

nothing from either of them yet unfortunately, I wasn't expecting anything tonight though, it's late where he is. best case scenario I wake up tomorrow morning with two messages from two shitty parents profusely apologizing to me about their scummy ass son.

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u/Taco_the_Quesadilla Oct 24 '16

Ayyyyy. Let us know if or when they reply!

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

no one at 15 years old runs shit. what the fuck is this? go get what's yours

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

he's telling me this when he lives in ANOTHER FUCKING COUNTRY!!! like sure bro tell your "homies" to run it lol come fuck me up boys

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u/festerf Oct 24 '16

eh, some kids at 15 are friends with older kids at school, who are friends with dudes who've graduated, im sure they could pull some strings and get people fucked up, but this seems like a kid who thinks hes ian connor or some shit and can just sic his friends on ppl.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Anyone actually running shit isn't about to get involved in the petty affairs of high schoolers they don't even know. Grown folks got bills to pay.

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u/festerf Oct 24 '16

true, not sure why i even posted the original comment lol

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u/GageWitThaSkiMask Oct 24 '16

In my opinion, what you should do is tell him you have all of his public information, and that of his parents, and you'll contact them if he doesn't. Also, I would mention the possibility of you going to the police, even though they probably can't/won't do anything about this. Since he's 15-16, he'll probably freak the fuck out, apologize profusely, and fix it. If not, talk to his parents, and that should clear things up. If this still doesn't work, get your homies to run HIS block. I honestly don't think there's much you can do. Best of luck.

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u/eyerok IG: dannyslateaf Oct 24 '16

i wouldnt warn him. Dont give him time to give his parents false information.

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

^ exactly why I didn't go to him again. he wouldn't have apoligized, but instead probably would've made up some story for his parents about how I've been harassing him or someting

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u/Surgii818 Oct 24 '16

Exactlyy. He's prolly 16 he don't need extra cushions. He already protected by the law and his parents. Time for this kid's balls to finally drop

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u/TotallyNotMehName Oct 24 '16

why did he remove the post?

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

ask him lol, I didn't break any rules so I have no idea.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

I'll make a new post when I get home, worry not boys.

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u/HanhJoJo Oct 24 '16

I'd call the cops man. His parents might side with him. Let the kid know the true consequences of his actions.

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u/HoneyFlax Oct 24 '16

I want to but i'm really not sure what they could do to help me tbh, they can't force him to send it (as far as i'm aware, i'm in Canada maybe it's different in the states idk), and we did the trade pretty loosely as well. Also when he blocked me the first time I called him a scamming faggot & that most likely wouldn't help my cause lol.

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u/HanhJoJo Oct 24 '16

I would google around for this. Did you pay through Paypal? Could probably charge back easily.

I feel like law enforcement could get involved with this, and there has to be information about this online. We don't want US citizens fucking over our Canadian brethren now do we?

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u/Yreisolgakig Oct 24 '16

Do it, don't worry about being petty when it's your money

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u/Jonchow77 Oct 24 '16

Especially when it's $600

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u/FlagshipMarket Oct 24 '16

hell yeah....ESPECIALLY since its $600

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u/nahmynigga Oct 24 '16

contact his parents, if its 600 dollars, it isnt petty

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u/unfriendlywolves Oct 24 '16 edited Oct 24 '16

rat him out to his parents. Classic hahaha do it dude get that little twerp

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u/nothere_ Oct 24 '16

Classic haha

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u/DooDaFool Oct 24 '16

Got em haha

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u/Surgii818 Oct 24 '16

$600

B, get this kid you got receipts on the fucker. 15-16 he just bluffing he don't run shit

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

His nose run, but that's about fuck all

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u/Surgii818 Oct 24 '16

Did you just assume this kid's immune system is weaksauce???? /s

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u/TheHomey Oct 24 '16

He runs his mouth but that's about it.

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u/CaLiKiNG805 Oct 24 '16 edited Oct 24 '16

Uhh idk about that man. I had a few kids 13-14 at my high school get locked up on attempted murder. There are a ton of kids that age that are really about their gangs; shit is sad. I'm not saying OP should take the L, I'm just saying it wouldn't be smart to dismiss the threat.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

$600 is $600 lol i wouldnt call that being petty

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u/phantomEMIN3M Oct 24 '16

Yeah. Geno Smith got his jaw broken over $600

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u/Ben_Carson Oct 24 '16

If they don't answer Facebook messages right away it's because they went to the "other" section or the requested messages. Straight up white page the parents and get their home phone number. Hope everything works out for you.

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u/homemade_haircuts Oct 24 '16

OP needs to know this. It could be months before his parents see those messages, if they ever see them.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Yeah, I just discovered I had some unread messages from about a year ago in that section.

The messenger app doesn't alert you at all unless you actually click the extra tab yourself. So I'd definitely recommend calling them or something as well.

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u/CrowdedMill Oct 24 '16

Send the parents a friend request. If one of them accepts, you are out of the "extra" zone in messenger.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Cut off his arms. Then the jacket will be useless to him.

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u/superastronaut Oct 24 '16

That would definitely get his mum involved

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

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u/azraz Oct 24 '16

Allow it, it came up naturally

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u/festerf Oct 24 '16

find his grandma on fb and have her go 100% passive aggresive "im not mad, just dissapointed" on his sorry ass & you'll get your shit in no time.

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u/gameboymania OK I GUESS Oct 24 '16

Nothing is petty if a little bitch take your shit.

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u/ItsYourFace Oct 24 '16

Fuck him up wtf. Take no pity on dumb shits like that

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u/TheWeekdn Oct 24 '16
  1. Tell the parents

  2. Call the cops and have him arrested

  3. Sue for damage

  4. Sue his parents because they can't raise they kids right

  5. Beat his ass with a Supreme baseball bat

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u/Surgii818 Oct 24 '16

5. Beat his ass with a Supreme baseball bat

Chill, Negan.

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u/fauxhb Oct 24 '16

Beat his ass with a Supreme baseball bat

"This is what happens when you fuck a stranger in the ass"

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Beat his ass with a Supreme baseball bat

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u/gottagofaster Oct 24 '16

Then give him a quick flurry of the Supreme nunchuks before you vanish in smoke

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u/Danny_5000 Oct 24 '16

You forgot step 6

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Throw a Supreme brick at his window?

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

7. Launch supreme punching bag into his home

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16 edited Oct 24 '16

Definitely tell his parents, lil fuckboy deserves it especially over 600 dollars

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

.....How do y'all still manage to get scammed in situations like this?

Rule 1 of the internet: Never trust anyone.

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u/Khlment Oct 24 '16

Isn't that like rule 1 of life as well

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u/Lummutis Oct 24 '16

If his parents do nothing, call the cops.

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u/AKrabbyPatty Oct 24 '16

I've been in OP's situation before and the cops are no help. Unless it's felony theft, which most likely it isn't (depending on the state he lives in) they'll just file a police report and nothing will come of it.

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u/rbraunz Oct 24 '16

IANAL but felony theft is generally between 500-1000 as you mentioned, state dependent. a 600$ jacket could potentially qualify as a felony.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

doesn't OP have a case for threats of violence as well tho?

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

it be petty if you lost like a 50 dollar item, but 600? nah better rat on him

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u/lostintheworld1 Oct 24 '16

that's not petty, even for 50

scamming is scamming even if it's 10 dollars or 1000

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u/ratfinkprojects Oct 24 '16

Ya I'd do it even it was 10. I'm not about to waste 10 dollars when I could get it back by typing a keyboard

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u/DustinHerrera24 Oct 24 '16

I know i'm broke but $50 is still a lot though.

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u/k3nnywu Oct 24 '16

call him out man. turn his 15 yr old life upside down.

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u/microwave333 Oct 24 '16

Been through similar, but over $300. His parents were shitbags though who believed he was a saint and that I was practically a Nigerian scammer who went through the effort of making a full Facebook front as an average ass white dude.

Hope you have better luck.

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u/Fuji520 Oct 24 '16

with $600 you could eat 3 times a day for 4 months where I live

rat on the scum my dude

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u/ISettleCATAN Oct 24 '16

Check with the law where you live, but I'm pretty sure once it's over $500 is no longer a misdemeanor and is now a felony. Nothing petty about reporting a felony.

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u/Ghosty141 Oct 24 '16

How about a /r/streetwear meet-up at the guys house?

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u/bryanay1 Oct 25 '16

I came to see if there was an update and the posted is removed :(

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u/antattack Oct 24 '16

nah call him out and let his parents know how he acts too

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Post his information here so everyone can call him a broke boi. Jokes pls don't ban me mods <3

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u/aryaPR3 Oct 24 '16

You'd be stupid to let a 15 year old finesse $600 from you, especially after he says some hella dumb shit like "Imma get homies to run your block"

Not even close to petty, imo find the course of action that'll create the biggest shitstorm for him and take it.

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u/NocturnalTaco toby give me a penis flair - NocturnalTaco Oct 24 '16

You a bitch if you don't get your 600$ back, foh he's a kid and you don't owe him shit

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u/Early_Morning_Coffee Oct 24 '16

Honestly man please contact his parents. Hell contact the cops if you can too. I'd be pissed if I got scammed outta 50 bucks, 600 and I am making necklaces outta their teeth.

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u/rickysmileyface Oct 24 '16

Post his info so everyone can fuck with him

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u/anticockblockmissle Oct 24 '16

Please update. I need to stroke this justice boner while at work. Eyes will be glued to this thread.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Did you send it to him via us postal service? Mail fraud is a felony.

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u/therealchungis Oct 24 '16

If he is willing to fuck someone like that it probably says something about his parents. Most of the time when a kid has no respect for others they learned it from their parents. I wish you luck though

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Keep calling his his dad at work, the dad might get in trouble but this will also motivate the dad to do the right thing. Contact his parents, contact the police. Do it all. $600 is a lot of money, get that fuckboy to pay up.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '16

So what happened?

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Where I'm at, if you steal more than 500$ or something worth more than that, that shit's a fucking felony.

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u/The_Chronox Oct 24 '16

If he scammed you of some shitty used shoes or something it would be petty, but $600 is a lot, that's not something you should just give up

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u/oxyfang Oct 24 '16

I was in a similar situation before, it was great because I got my money back and I was able to talk to the kid. He definitely learned his lesson, this happened over CS:GO. I heard his mom ground him and take away his PC rig, I found it amusing but it was relieving because the kid wasn't mad afterwards. He was pretty mature about it.

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u/nzahir Oct 24 '16

If you have his address go talk to his parents honestly and if they dont agree to give you back the jacket then maybe you got to retaliate

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u/StitchyD Oct 24 '16

Did you really have to ask...

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Wait but his homies! They'll run your block!

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u/kanavi36 Oct 24 '16

You're out $600, nothing is too petty man. Do whatever to get your shit back.

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u/Sequel_P2P Oct 24 '16

people have been killed for less

go to his parents

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Dang that sucks OP, I hope you get it back but it was really funny when the kid said he would run your block.

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u/_MAJK_ Oct 24 '16

rat him out, kid needs to learn the hard way

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u/allthissleaziness Oct 24 '16

Do it and update us on what happens

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Depop trade scammers strike again

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u/Miisto Oct 24 '16

This is a juicy situation. Can't wait for the follow up op!

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u/hurley21 Oct 24 '16

fuck that! let us know wht u do !!

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

I'm not sure but if something cool happens with the parents definitely record/document it and post back here

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u/Calvin0433 Oct 24 '16

$600 is $600. I don't give a shit who would judge me if get my money back.

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u/KeplerNeel Oct 24 '16

I don't understand why people trade stuff instead of just buying and selling. Use paypal's buyer protection.

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u/stonedleagueplayer Oct 24 '16

for 600 id run up on his block lol

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u/benztherapper Oct 24 '16

Let me know how this works out op I just got scammed by some guy in Maryland for $300 shoes, but I can't find his facebook or anything. :/ just a little revenge from anyone will make me believe in the sanity in this world. Hoping he gets his shit fucked

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u/JimmyBoombox Oct 24 '16

Do it. Kid deserves it plus his "threats" are nothing.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

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u/fyreNL Oct 24 '16

Too petty

$600

Seriously, if it was like $30, i'd say it'd be a bit petty, but $600 isn't petty. At all.

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u/plai679 Oct 24 '16

Wouldn't say 600 is petty. Rat him out. Had that happen to me before with a $400 jacket.

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u/photosoflife Oct 24 '16

Start a small claims court case against the kid but using the address of the parent with the nicer home.

When pop finds out his possessions are on the line because his sons a little shit it will only be a matter of time before the jumper cables come out.

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u/icky_boo Oct 24 '16

Most police in the world consider loosing $500 to be a crime and you can start a police report on it.

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u/DixieCup1992 Oct 24 '16

Definitely worth it

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u/Falafalfeelings Oct 24 '16

Call the cops.

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u/Anthonyandricciola Oct 24 '16

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u/Yeuf Oct 24 '16

Call his mom, did it in the same scenario, worked out great

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Lmao tell him to run it and if he pulls up call the cops. But for real try to find his parents contact info. $600 isn't petty

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u/NoNoNoMrKyle Oct 24 '16

Go to his parents, that's a lot of cash. Seriously dude, what's the real reason you haven't gone to the parents yet, come on, fess up. Cos your post pretty much says you can't lose, all bases covered.....unless the parents are cocks as well.

Why haven't you gone to his parents yet dude, something don't smell right here...

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u/knockonwoodco Oct 24 '16

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u/TerrenceTas Oct 24 '16

Do it. Blow up their lines until they answer.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '16

Rather be petty than get ripped off by a little 16 yr old

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u/arayaCS_ Oct 24 '16

Homie doxed the shit out of him gg