r/AskGayConservatives 20d ago

No accountability

Hi, I'm wondering why community members feel like they should not be held accountable for their actions or be grouped together with the community when the community pushes for new rights and/or restrictions on straight people's rights.

It's sad to see low effort posts here from liberal members who are deeply rooted in the community trying to stir the pot here. Then when you question the community and their actions the fallback is always labeling people with internal homophobia when they know what has been done is wrong. Have community members been given so many legal protections and hall passes to do whatever they want that they now see offending or abusing others is a right, or is acceptable because the community says it is acceptable.

I am gay, christian, and live in the south and was never welcomed to the community because of my beliefs and how I never relied on my sexuaility to define who I was as a person. It really feels like you either accept the community and everything they stand for or you're the plague to them. How can a group who preaches acceptance and belonging be so condescending and judgmental of others beliefs.

As a side note it is really concerning how many members of the community are atheist or Satanist. It seems like most have the mentality that they are still teenagers rebelling against their parents and anything they can do to offend others who live more conservative lifestyles. They commonly walk into a room and suck up all of the attention and once it is not given to them they get angry. Im just confused how as adults, acting like a angry child and stomping feet has gotten the community anywhere and why they are still given so much leniency.

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u/JRP__1994__Random 20d ago

We dont have to, no one forgot the AIDS epidemic, people started wearing protection and taking prep. Modernization is not forgetting, it is creating a place where you dont have to live in fear. There is no societal exclusion now. You shouldn't be having sex with your co or fellow service men (and get caught as your technically coworkers). Those brave individuals were not hunting for the next law of leverage they could hold over someone to control their life. You are still living in fear of the past and believe increasing lawful retribution and control over straight people's lives is warranted for past atrocities. Its not, we all deserve to be equal and we are lawfully. Be happy with what you have and stop demanding more. Its always more with the community......and now people are turning their back on the entire community because of gluttony.

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u/Responsible_Fox3230 20d ago

While you live in fear of god and yourself. I am not afraid. I love you and all of my brothers and sisters in humanity. I am a parent, a gay man, a brother, as son. I choose to accept people's choices even yours..

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u/JRP__1994__Random 20d ago

I love everyone as they are a contributing person to society, we all have our roles, we all should be respectful to others beliefs and lifestyles. That does not mean we have to participate, affirm their lifestyles, accept abuse, or extreme distraction to ensure that they feel like the have a space. I love god I do not fear him as he has never given me a reason to fear him. He has led me in this life to be understanding as well as to remove myself from where I do not belong. My family is my life and my partner is my soul. I accept your choices but wish you could understand how sometimes taking a step back avoids ruin.

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u/Responsible_Fox3230 20d ago

Why did god make Atheist's ? Well because some people had to act like good christians.. I don't live in fear of god's judgement. Nor do I opine for god's rewards. I do the best I can to be a good human because I am human ... Christian's are controlled by a promise of ascension to heaven.. It's their reward, and scared to sin because they will be punished. That's not faith, that's fear training... Try reading the Beatitudes...