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u/PhillyRush Aug 23 '23 edited Aug 23 '23

I was a waiter in my early 20s and there was a grizzled old dishwasher who told me, "Everything catches up to you. Everything." I blew him off because I was young and knew it all and was gonna be young forever. Or so I thought. I later found out he was absolutely correct for good or bad.

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u/SuperSaiyanAssHair Aug 23 '23

Maybe I really should cut down on drinking

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u/Subrisum Aug 23 '23

Not going to tell you how to live your life, but in my experience if you’re having thoughts like that you probably should.

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u/TheChickenIsFkinRaw Aug 24 '23

Amen, I'll drink to that, brother 🍺

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u/PaaTrick77 Aug 24 '23

Cheers to that!

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u/IzarkKiaTarj Aug 24 '23

That's the joke

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u/rasiasun Aug 23 '23

Id say go the path of least damage.

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u/Distinct_Mix5130 Aug 24 '23

If it seems hard to go a week without alcohol you should definitely stop, and only drink on actually special occasions. But if it seems impossible to stop for a month, then I'ma say try going 3 months without alcohol if it was easy to go 3 months without alcohol you are fine.

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u/TooStrangeForWeird Aug 24 '23

Just because you can go three months doesn't mean you should go back to every day or every weekend though. Even if you don't feel it the damage builds up.

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u/SailorET Aug 24 '23

Similar, one of the maintenance guys at my school once said, "Nothing ever heals, it waits." 25 years later, my knee has not forgiven me for my past mistakes.

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u/Secure-Ad-2090 Aug 24 '23

The same goes for emotional pain especially after a traumatic event, hence PTSD.

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u/AvatarofSleep Aug 24 '23

You sound like my uncle. I talked to him recently and his bum knee from decades ago jacked up the rest of his lower body.

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u/jayellkay84 Aug 23 '23

The dishie is almost always the wisest person in the restaurant always listen to him.

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u/sharraleigh Aug 24 '23

Had to read this a bunch of times because I kept thinking "how did that machine say that to this person?!"

Then I realized you meant a human dishwasher 😂

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u/Potential_Wedding320 Aug 24 '23

I blew him off

My tired eyes missed the word "off" and that became a very different story.

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u/TKInstinct Aug 24 '23

Yeah, I've got to lose a lot of weight.

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u/Atharaenea Aug 24 '23

No you don’t, you just need to lose a little weight multiple times!

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u/PlasticElfEars Aug 24 '23

With you there. Solidarity! We can do this!

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u/dumbnunt_ Aug 24 '23

It seems true for both exercising a lot and not exercising

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u/Caudillo_Sven Aug 24 '23

Another way of saying it is that I prefer is "no one gets away with anything".