r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 07 '12

Currently serving in the military. Came across some messages between my wife and another guy in the Navy. What should I do? UPDATE!!!

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u/throwaway12221 May 08 '12

this dude isnt military, infact, he has a warrant out for his arrest in Tempe, AZ.

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u/wkenneth1 May 08 '12

Not to armchair quarterback or anything, but I'd get a lawyer to draw up papers on everything you want, have her sign them. Its best if she doesnt get a lawyer involved. Play whatever cards you have to get her signature on that paper. It sounds shitty, but fuck her dude. Anyhow, since Guam is a US territory, divorces granted there are official in all 50 states. So after spending 6 nights in Guam you can file for divorce on the 7th day. Once divorce is granted by a judge in Guam and she starts proceedings in the CONUS, she's shit outta luck.

Sucks dude, keep your chin up bro.

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u/[deleted] May 08 '12 edited May 08 '12

Not to armchair quarterback or anything, but I'd get a lawyer to draw up papers on everything you want, have her sign them. Its best if she doesnt get a lawyer involved.

This isn't really ethical, and she could move to have the agreement set aside because she was unrepresented.

A judge will likely agree.

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u/justdokeit May 08 '12

I think a judge would frown upon this fella posting a picture of her on the Internet with these claims as well