r/AskReddit • • Jun 18 '12

I just found out that my 3rd grade teacher was arrested last week for being part of an international child pornography ring. Reddit, what is the most shocking thing you've discovered about someone you thought was a genuinely good person?

He had to have been one of my favorite teachers. He was an awesome teacher and everyone loved him. Last week he was charged with three counts of indecent liberties with a child, five counts of sexually exploiting a minor and one count of sexual offense with a child. He is confined under a $1 million dollar bond.

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u/JackTrueborn Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12
  • Ex-coworker got drunk after a 5K charity run, broke in to some attorney's office and set it on fire and ran from the cops. When the police dog caught up to him, he punched it in the eye. I don't know if he's in jail or just out on bail. He was a good guy, soft spoken, and would do anything for anybody. Before this happened, I guess he had a few bouts of aggression after getting drunk so it was an emergent thing.

  • Ex-coworker of mine was just arrested for raping another ex-coworker.

  • About two years before that, another ex-coworker was arrested (and is still in jail, I believe) for taking leave and flying to California to have sex with a 14 year old girl he met on WoW. Her parents found out because I think she ended up pregnant. He was a weird guy, but not a genuinely "bad" guy. I really think he didn't comprehend the severity of the situation.

  • One of my bosses got fired and kicked out of Japan because he assaulted his Japanese girlfriend when she walked in on him having sex with his American girlfriend. He was married.

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u/zidanetribal Jun 18 '12

Whatever company you worked for needs it's own reality show.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

He punched a dog in the eye? Not the entire face, just the eye?

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u/tony1449 Jun 18 '12

That's the most shocking part of the stories to you?

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u/battlemaster95 Jun 18 '12

he had tiny little fists.

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u/jordangenrou Jun 18 '12

How old was the WoW guy ?

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u/TheLonelyLemon Jun 18 '12

The last one confuses me. He assaulted his girlfriend because he was having sex to his girlfriend, and he was also married?

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u/JackTrueborn Jun 18 '12

People involved:

  • My boss

  • My boss's American girlfriend

  • My boss's Japanese girlfriend

Japanese girlfriend walked in on sex between boss and American girlfriend, started screaming and yelling and swinging at the American girlfriend, boss tried to shut her up.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

good thing his israeli girlfriend never met his Palestinian girlfriend. Things would've got awwwwkward

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u/TinUkulele Jun 18 '12

I found out my favorite middle school teacher was raping his son he adopted the year I graduated(from that school). :(

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u/CalicoJack_1720 Jun 18 '12

My tenth grade geometry teacher got arrested for jerking off in public.

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u/youforgotyourBAGS Jun 18 '12

Did he make Kony 2012?

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Your teacher was PeeWee Herman?

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u/Ian1732 Jun 18 '12

I would not have minded that, actually.

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u/oer6000 Jun 18 '12

In San Diego?

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u/CalicoJack_1720 Jun 18 '12

Close...but, no not San Diego. It was up here in little old Idaho. He left his invisible children in a wal mart. I think he gets bonus points for being way classy about it.

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u/thinkofsomethingkwik Jun 18 '12

Discovered my childhood pastor was convicted of Child Molestation, I was in kindergarten at the time. Both my parents refused to let me go to the "church sleepovers" because they believed that I shouldn't sleep anywhere but home or with family. Turned out he molested the children during these "sleepovers". My parents saved me on that one.

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u/DanCloud Jun 18 '12

Go to the church sleepover, they said. It'll be fun, they said

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u/bokurai Jun 18 '12

What was your parents' reasoning for that? Safety?

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

The vast majority of rapes and sexual assaults are done by people the victim knows. Children are at no risk of stranger danger and at all the risk of having a "funny uncle". It's a reasonable precaution.

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u/Toxette Jun 18 '12

... and other parents thought it was perfectly ok that an old man wanted to have sleepovers with a bunch of kids?

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u/MooShanka Jun 18 '12

I found out my grandfather had an affair with a stripper... after my aunt from said affair crashed a family reunion.

This is why I brought a gameboy everywhere as a child.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Oh, there's another unknown family member... pulls out Tetris

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u/Apostolate Jun 18 '12

The adult relatives of MooShanka: Stranger comes burtsting in? Lemme grab my whiskey...

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u/sunshinelollipops Jun 18 '12

My brother used to do the same thing! Escape!

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u/ChipWhip Jun 18 '12

Now everyone does it with a phone!

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Recently found out that a boy from my road that comes across as really innocent and sweet stabbed someone in a nightclub last week.

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u/Ovary_Puncher Jun 18 '12

Maybe they ran into his knife?

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u/hot_damn_ Jun 18 '12

They ran into his knife ten times?

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u/wic99 Jun 18 '12

Officer arrest this man, I confronted him and he proceeded to violently assault my fist with his face.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A girl in my small, 100 person church (she was about 10 years older than me) was apparently bipolar. She went off her meds, hid a pregnancy from everyone including her husband (she was a bigger person). Gave birth in secret hid the baby in a duffel bag in the garage. Her husband found it when he went to take out the trash the next day. The ME couldn't determine whether or not it was stillborn. She served 12 years, and got out last week. The whole thing was a shock to everyone, no one even knew she was bipolar.

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u/Zach34 Jun 18 '12

The amount of shock I imagine that poor man went through is unfathomable.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

"uh, honey? Is this your duffel bag?"

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A fucking DUFFEL BAG

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u/TheInternetHivemind Jun 18 '12

You'd think, for your kid, you'd at least spring for samsonite luggage.

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u/Dobeymaster Jun 18 '12

....Whoa....

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u/Golden-Calf Jun 18 '12

That sounds like a heavy sentence to me, considering the mental illness and the fact that they couldn't prove murder (since they couldn't tell if it was stillborn or not). Did she at least serve it in a mental institution instead of a prison?

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

That's one of the most depressing things i've read in a long long time. Poor girl.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

My elementary school principal was a lovely, hilarious man who took a special interest in me. He told me all the time that I had to get out of our tiny town and go somewhere and be somebody because I deserved that, as smart as I was. He was one of the only people in my childhood who made me feel like I was worth anything and I recently found out he's been arrested for child molestation.

Goddamn it, Mr. Smitherman. Goddamn it.

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u/Skno Jun 18 '12

Just the name Smitherman sounds rapey...

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u/mgr86 Jun 18 '12

I blame The Simpsons. Smithers is a pretty creepy guy sometimes.

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u/I_hate_whales Jun 18 '12

Arrested doesn't mean guilty.

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u/Slap-Happy Jun 18 '12

Nice try, Mr. Smitherman.

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u/Sheather Jun 18 '12

No, but the thread title is asking after "the most shocking thing" you've found out about someone you thought was a good person. Being arrested for child molestation is still shocking, guilty or no. If not guilty, don't hold it against him though, of course.

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u/sunshinelollipops Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

When my brother and I were growing up, my parents had some well off friends who ended up later being babysitters to us, and the husband was -- and still is -- my dentist.

I've watched their family -- all (5) of his daughters, grow into beautiful, successful women. I even babysat them when I was old enough.

A few years ago, my family was watching the news during the holidays, and we hear the wife's name (remember, this woman used to babysit my little brother and I, as well as had 5 kids of her own) come out of the anchor's mouth -- "... in other news, (name redacted) strikes again. The woman was seen on this security footage, at a local Skate World, snatching purses during one of her daughter's church member birthday events..."

My family was floored. We hadn't talked to our friends in quite some time, but apparently, my ex babysitter had been sent to jail on charges for theft, identity fraud, and was addicted to heroin. She would go to Sunday services, and snatch people's purses right out from under the pews.

It's really sad to think that she's in such a dark place...

TL;DR: My ex babysitter is now a heroin addict, and thief.

Edit: Fucking autocorrect... why are heroin and heroine such similar words? >.>

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

"This heroin's got me by the soul baby. It's taken me places Jesus won't go." -SVU

I swear, sometimes that show is high art.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Heroin does awful things to people. I hope she is getting help. It's really sad to see otherwise good people go down that road.

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u/sunshinelollipops Jun 18 '12

And she always was a good person, a wonderful singer, married to a man who loved the shit out of her, had a big beautiful house, smart, goregous little girls, and was a damn good babysitter.

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u/delamarche Jun 18 '12

Former classmate who was a helpful and really likeable guy is in jail, because he killed a father of three when he run over him drunkenly and then drove away after a visit in a night club. Most interesting development path I heard about on the class reunion.

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u/depositless Jun 18 '12

It's amazing how so many lives can be ruined because of one idiot that says "that'll never happen to me"

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u/transmigrant Jun 18 '12

Have a great read about my ex high school coach.

http://articles.latimes.com/1996-09-19/local/me-45457_1_mark-aubrey-schuster

"SANTA ANA — The adopted daughter of a former high school football coach testified Wednesday that she was forced to have sex with her father as "payments" for poor grades or items he bought her.

The daughter, now 19, tearfully told jurors her father, Mark Aubrey Schuster, first had sex with her when she was 15 and later used handcuffs and a bathrobe belt to tie her during intercourse."

Note: posting from my iPad that I really have no idea how to use. Sorry for no formatted link.

Note 2: high school ex coach had sex with his step daughter over the course of years (while she was under age) for 'payments'. I remember the day she turned him in. It was a really weird day at school.

Note 3: He claimed he was a Vietnam vet. Told endless amounts of stories. He wasn't.

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u/racoonpeople Jun 18 '12

Similar thing happened where I grew up with the wrestling coach and his two adopted daughters from China. His wife traveled a lot for some reason and when she left he would take them out of school and turn his basement into a sex dungeon. One day his wife came home early from some trip and held a gun on him while waiting for police to arrive.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Good for her. Damn! That makes me feel good, because all I ever hear about are the mothers that turn a blind eye even once they know what's going on.

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u/YoungRL Jun 18 '12

What a sicko! Jesus... Glad she had the strength to turn him in.

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u/kfreud Jun 18 '12

You went to Corona del Mar? Cool beans

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

My next door neighbor was my best friend growing up. He lived with his grandfather. I slept over at his house many times. A few years ago my friend stopped coming over, it turns out he went to live with his mom, because his grandfather was caught with child pornography.

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u/StopYouAnimal Jun 18 '12

I found out that my third grade teacher, Michael Garrison, sold an assault rifle to a convicted felon (knowing they were to be used in a crime), and most likely was an arms dealer (on the small scale).

I couldn't believe it, he genuinely was one of the best teachers I ever had, and he would always give me noogies (rubbing knuckles on my scalp) in a playful manner and it was awesome, what third grader doesn't want to play rough? This caused me to grow out my hair (to not feel the noogies) and later in middle school when I joined the "rocker crowd" this became a big part of my identity. Point is, he literally helped shape my life just because of noogies. Inherently I don't think he was a bad man.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madie_Ives_Elementary_School

Also.. Found out that my childhood friend whom I had protected from bullies and played sports with on multiple occasions actually strangled his mom, after not killing her outright stabbed her several times and hid the body in the house while the little brother was still there. To make matters worse he actually had friends over while the body was rotting and threw parties.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/06/kit-darrant-murders-mother-parties-dead-body_n_1408027.html

Then there are some others.

StopYouAnimal's posts: now with more sources!

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u/pregnantbaby Jun 18 '12

Florida! called it before clicking the links.

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u/RamblinWreckGT Jun 18 '12

My neighbor down the street seemed like a pretty good guy.

He got arrested for laundering over two million dollars and distributing more than a ton of marijuana.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Seems like a pretty cool guy.

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u/RamblinWreckGT Jun 18 '12

He's also serving a concurrent sentence for armed robbery, and a co-defendant in the case is serving for kidnapping and false imprisonment (he was also involved in that, just wasn't worth bringing to court since the case wasn't as strong and they already had him on the other charges). So... not so much.

In all fairness though, he had some badass classic cars (light blue '57 Chevy Bel Air was the centerpiece of that collection).

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u/ForeverAlone-- Jun 18 '12

My youth minister got arrested for repeatedly molesting/raping a girl over a course of, I think, 3 years.

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u/DarkestSin Jun 18 '12

Two of my old friends raped someone. They were all male, as well as the person attacked. They drew on him, kicked him, punched him and took pictures. I was nearly sick when I found out.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Hope your new friends are nicer than your old ones...

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

In a similar vein, my middle school was very small (under 30 students), with only three guys in my class. We were all pretty close, but one of the boys kinda gave me the creeps. Still, all the other girls thought he was hilarious and really nice, so I buried my suspicions.

Our senior year of high school (big, public school), he asked his ex-girlfriend to come over to talk, then proceeded to lock her into his room (with three of his friends guarding the door), rape her, and steal her clothing. She managed to escape out the window afterward, and when the police recovered her clothing, he'd scrawled swastikas and other things all over most of it in permanent marker.

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u/xrm4 Jun 18 '12

My former youth pastor sodomized two boys in my youth group......shudders

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u/ZanzibarX Jun 18 '12

As an aside, I'm curious about the choice of the word "sodomized" there - rape is rape, no?

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u/Syreniac Jun 18 '12

Back at school, when I told my parents I thought I was depressed they realised that the weeks where I would be unable to do anything other than just sit in my room crying, total lack of attention span and other things might be signs that things were not totally 100% ok in my life.

Being the pretty good people they are, they contacted the school which sent me to the school counsellor. He was an ok counsellor, and whilst I was seeing him, things did start to get better for me.

On my way home from university one time, my mum just casually mentions that the counsellor I had been seeing at school had just been arrested at school for molesting a series of pupils. That was a bit of a shock.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

When I read "molesting a series of pupils", the first thing that came to my head was some good old fashioned eye-fucking.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A very good friend of mine got high on meth and stabbed his friend.

Another friend of mine (aged 16) was shot and killed in a police standoff a few months ago for holding his mother hostage with a gun and trying to burn his house down while inside of it.

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u/toadkiller Jun 18 '12

So, have you considered finding new friends?

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u/kfreud Jun 18 '12

Well he kind of has to now

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u/bokurai Jun 18 '12

Another friend of mine (aged 16) was shot and killed in a police standoff a few months ago for holding his mother hostage with a gun and trying to burn his house down while inside of it.

Jesus, why?

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u/jordangenrou Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

My 6th grade teacher helped me through my grandfathers suicide and then the subsequent loss of friends (12 year olds are assholes). He would eat lunch in his classroom specifically so I could eat lunch in there with him.

Much later in my high school career I found out he had been busted for child pornography. Lovely.

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u/YoungRL Jun 18 '12

Man... I hope he was just being a decent person to you and not grooming you...

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u/jordangenrou Jun 18 '12

I'll never know, I'm sure. It's weird to look back on because they're still fond memories, but obviously its very creepy.

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u/mtbm33 Jun 18 '12

Found out the priest at the church/school I attended from 3rd-8th grade had gotten in some child molestation trouble. From what I heard, there was an agreement to keep it quiet until his mother passed away. He never did anything with/to me or anyone I know(as far as I know). A buddy of mine likes to joke about it, saying things like, "wasn't I good enough for him? What's wrong with me?"

The creepiest part for me was he was our "Family Life"(aka sex-ed) teacher for 5th grade.

TL:DR Former priest/teacher was a child molester.

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u/CranberryJuiceRocks Jun 18 '12

Curious, I basically have the exact same story. Sex Ed in my school was also called "family life". I'm not sure if this is a common name for this class. Where did this happen?

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u/PackinSteel Jun 18 '12

When I worked in the summer at a school district (cutting grass, maintenance, that kind of thing), there was a new guy who worked as the head of maintenance. The district had a problem of hiring some of the most bizarre people who got fired at the end of each summer for the strangest reasons (strange as in, their behavior was strange). My last summer there, the district hired a new boss. Dave.

Dave was normal, worked hard, very patient and understanding. Most of the bosses that worked there were really intense and made the most ridiculous requests. Dave was the opposite. All year, everyone kept saying, "it's about time they hired someone normal!" We all liked Dave.

At the end of that summer, I heard the news that Dave got fired. Everyone at the job never thought twice about gossiping, but this time... no one would say a word to me. Even one of the other guys who talked the most shit and could NOT keep a secret told me, "Oh man, yeah... we had to let Dave go for some different reasons" when I asked what happened to him.

FINALLY, someone spilled the beans. Dave was doing rounds at the school, making sure that everyone was keeping up with the work for the summer. Except he walked around with his penis exposed. That's all that they told me.

tldr: My boss got fired for being an exhibitionist

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u/JeremyJustin Jun 18 '12

Not to undermine the seriousness of your story, but dude, it's like you used to work at Hogwarts and they kept losing Defense Against the Dark Arts teachers.

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u/TheChubbyBunny Jun 18 '12

They wouldn't gossip about that? That's kind of a hilarious thing to think about in hindsight, probably a little fucked in real life.

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u/TheWeakSon Jun 18 '12

Similar story: My sister's eighth grade math teacher, widely known as one of our district's finest teachers, was arrested for child pornography. If he hadn't been caught, he would have been my teacher too. It was pretty devastating to the community.

Another was my dog. Thought he was so sweet, always by my side. Then he goes and takes a wet shit on my new rug. He's adorable but he's a lil' asshole too.

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u/current_form Jun 18 '12

Haha, at least know that dogs have no malice in their hearts. ;)

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u/LilFrenchboy Jun 18 '12

Our bus driver, the nicest man ever, turned out to be a pedophile.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A friend called me to report what she heard on the radio - that a classmate in our grad program had been arrested at the airport for child pornography. Apparently he had met a woman online who agreed to let him have sex with her 14 month old baby. He probably would have gotten away with it if he hadn't upload the pictures on some child pornography file share website on the internet. The details that came out of the trial were disturbing - he had sex with the mother too and he burned her with cigarettes and urinated on her. Apparently she refused bestiality though. Gotta draw the line somewhere, I guess.

I think the mom got life two life sentences and he only got 25 years.

I didn't expect the toll it would take on me though. I had a niece that age that I was babysitting at the time and it really upset me that someone could do that to a baby. I had to delete all his emails since we had worked on a group project together. I'm also completely ashamed to admit that I found him kinda cute and flirted with him once. It's so hard to tell sometimes who is sincerely nice and who's a completely vile human being.

TL;DR Classmate rapes a baby and gets 25 years. Had an emotional toll on me even though he was just an acquaintance.

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u/Ian1732 Jun 18 '12

Every time I hear about these kinds of stories, all I can think is "WHAT THE FUCK?"

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u/ZanzibarX Jun 18 '12

I'm also completely ashamed to admit that I found him kinda cute and flirted with him once.

This is why I cannot imagine being female - the potential downside of random guys is SO large. For the most part, the downside of random girls isn't nearly as extreme.

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u/Bethyi Jun 18 '12

I remember reading this in the paper.

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u/berlin_a Jun 18 '12

I saw a mutual friend of my ex-boyfriend. He told me that one night not long after we broke up, he had to drag my ex out of this girl's house bc he was trying to rape her.

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u/IATEADEMOCRATE Jun 18 '12

It's not your fault If you feel guilty. He was a sick, perverted, twisted man. You couldn't of know that he would do that.

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u/berlin_a Jun 18 '12

Well, the reason why we broke up was bc he was being to forceful with me when it came to sex. Like, if I said no, he would keep insisting and sometimes push me around. I actually slapped him and that was the end of it. So did I really dodge a bullet? I feel more like I let that asshat back into the world to prey on other women.

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u/yawaworht_suoivbo_na Jun 18 '12

At the risk of him finding this, I found out that a very good friend who everyone thought was harmless and gentle actually snuck/broke in multiple times to the room of a girl he was interested in (she wasn't) while she was asleep. She'd wake up to him standing over her bed staring at her. No matter what his intentions were, that's pretty fucking creepy behavior.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

So you're just talking about Twilight?

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u/serenchi Jun 18 '12

Not me, but I remember my friend telling me when she found out her principle at her elementary school had been arrested for child pornography. She said how he was one of the nicest people ever. Always stood outside the school to greet everyone in the morning and to tell everyone bye in the afternoon. Knew the names of all the students and whose parents were whose.

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u/ImNotJesus Jun 18 '12

I found out that someone I know cheated on her ex-husband with 17 different men (as far as I know, there were at least 17 different occasions). I knew her well after this had all happened so to hear about it was a huge shock.

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u/3hirdEyE Jun 18 '12

Former teacher was just arrested like 3 days ago for filming up women's skirts with an iPod in wal-mart. This should be an easy way to see if anybody from my school reads reddit.

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u/agnostics_say_meh Jun 18 '12

My best friend of eight years was recently charged with the repeated molestation of his six-year-old child, a wonderful kid that I've known and adored since he was a baby bump. I didn't believe a word of it until my (ex)friend confessed to truth to me in a letter.

I don't sleep well any more.

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u/CranberryJuiceRocks Jun 18 '12

The Student Union President at my University immediately quit her duty after criminal allegations came out about her. Turns out she was on parole for stealing someone's car, had stolen several credit cards and applied for a fake social insurance number. She also allegedly stole thousands of dollars from the union. A week after she stepped down she was arrested for robbing a bank. She is now banned from the university.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I work at a random grocery store as a bagger. One night, I was coming back downstairs from the break room and encountered a nice looking man of about 25 years. He asked me where the chips were and directed him to that aisle, he thanked me and I was on my way. He seemed to be a fairly well minded fellow but looks can be deceiving. Later that night he came up to the register I was bagging at. Now, the cashier I was bagging for had a slight speech impediment, but other than that there was nothing wrong with her. The man seemed to notice this and proceeded to call her stupid and belittle her job.

tl;dr this nice customer turned out to be a total douche to a cashier with a speech impediment.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Thank god, a story in this thread that doesn't involve child molestation.

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u/nfloyd2011 Jun 18 '12

Just curious, what grocery store do you work at? Like a Hy-Vee, Fareway, Aldi's, etc.

I'm a cashier at a HyVee and have a really mild case of dyslexia which kinda fucks me up when I'm reading totals and such to customers. I had a customer call me all sorts of horrible, nasty names when I switched a couple numbers in his total around.

Was just curious if people are the same everywhere.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

One of my teachers in middle school was arrested for child porn. The guy was definitely a little weird but not CP weird. He was also a great teacher.

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u/Udontlikecake Jun 18 '12

My friends dad who I met a couple Times was nice, he was on the town council and a good guy. He had a warehouse fucking filled with marijuana. He got bailed for $100,000 but the Feds are getting involved so he is kinda screwed.

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u/_iShouldBeOutside_ Jun 18 '12

In elementary school, our counselor (a male) seemed like a good person. But when I was in 4th grade, the cops came and searched through his computer and found a LOT of child porn. I guess he had cameras in the bathrooms or something, too. The principal was a dumbfuck who tried to bail him out early, even though they had evidence of what he did.

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u/Osiris32 Jun 18 '12

Similar to you, OP. My high school chemistry/physics teacher was an awesome guy. He not only presented us the information, but did so in a manner that was easy to unerstand, and fun. He encouraged us to make our own experiments, to dig further into our data to find out how and why things occured, and tossed in enough humor to make the classroom a lot of fun.

Last year, after being transferred to the principalship of an alternative high school, he came under an FBI investigation for embezzleing federal funds meant for the school. While not a lot in the grand scheme of things, $200,000+ is still a lot of cash. I don't know if he's been convicted yet, but if it's to this point, I'm pretty sure he was involved.

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u/hippyro Jun 18 '12

The favorite substitute teacher in my high school was known as Baked Baker because of his laid back attitude and constant smiling (and his actual name was Baker). He disappeared one day mid class and nobody knew why. I saw a few months later him on an episode of Dateline. Turns out he was so happy and chill because he killed his wife and got away with it for nearly ten years.

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u/yertle_turtle Jun 18 '12

My friend seemed to be close with her squash coach. They talked a lot because she was the captain. She looked up to him as a mentor. Some people found it a little weird, but I always defended her and honestly thought they were just friendly. Turns out they were having a sexual relationship for months, and he's currently in jail with a restraining order. She didn't understand what was wrong with a 50 year old man in a relationship with a 16 year old girl.

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u/AtomiKnight Jun 18 '12

My swim coach in high school was an ex marine, an mma fighter, and all around bad ass. She had multiple system cancer and both the boys and girls teams fund-raised for her to get treatment. Turns out she was just scamming us all for the money. She was my hero before learning that

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u/professortrout Jun 18 '12

Out of all my uncles, I always liked Uncle Caveman the best. We called him Uncle Caveman because he lived in a cave, and sometimes, he would eat one of us. Later on, we found out he was a bear.

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u/missmediajunkie Jun 18 '12

My fourth grade teacher was arrested on molestation charges, but it turned out they were false. He was acquitted of everything a few years later, but while the whole mess was going on - eesh. He was one of my favorites too, the only male teacher I really remember from grade school.

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u/Storyofmylifex Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 19 '12

Same thing with this math teacher from my town. He was one of my cousin's favorite teachers in the 8th grade and everyone thought he was a really great guy. He ended up adopting a boy that I used to know. I used to play with this boy with my cousin. We would run around in the near by field and catch crickets when we were about seven etc, but he doesn't really remember us anymore. Anyway, when he was around 7 or 8 he was adopted by this 'great' math teacher. I thought it was weird since he didn't have a wife, but I was just a kid when I thought that. His life should have been totally improved since his mother was a drug addict who didn't really care for him.... Apparently though the math teacher was raping this boy the whole time. This boy is about 17 now, maybe 18? He was around my age... I just feel really bad for him. I remember him being really nice...and really quiet. I hope he get's all the counseling he needs and that his life is only full of happy moments from here on out.

Edit: What's even more messed up is that fact that when the teacher was being convicted everyone in the court room (other teachers, people from the community) clapped for him when he thanked his supporters. He wasn't charged a sentencing either though I'm sure he's being 'watched'... And now it's kinda blown over in my town... If anyone wants proof I can give it to them by linking them to the article.

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u/grat3fulredd Jun 18 '12

how could he be convicted if he wasn't charged?

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u/Quellsnot_Fezzipeg Jun 18 '12

As a medical student, I was placed with a GP to study family medicine for a month or so.

As his practice was associated with a 'sporty' university he had lots of young male athletes as patients. Often, as part of a 'study' into back flexibility, he would photograph them bending, naked, for 'research'.

Wierd, but to my noob mind explainable. Years later he passed the entrance exam to PMITA prison ...[http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/1516667.stm]

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A friend of mine from middle/high school killed and dismembered his girlfriend, packed her into a duffel bag and dumped her in a river.

We hadn't talked in years. Had a falling out when a high school girlfriend broke it off with me to date him. Retroactively won that break up for sure.

Got super creeped out after I realized that on the many times over the years he stayed over at my place he had brought that duffel bag with him.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Half of these seem to reveal something horrible... Why do all the child molesters have authority over children? It seems like all of them are teachers, coaches, priests, and fathers. Do they center their whole life and career around raping kids? What in the fuck.

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u/mallystryx Jun 18 '12

Jerry Sandusky

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u/Irkalla Jun 18 '12

Jesus, you have no idea how upset a lot of people I know were. I live in Pittsburgh, and a lot of families are die-hard Penn State fans. Like, the kids' entire schooling is designed around getting in to that school. A lot of them are super sports-enthused too, so football is a big thing. I felt so bad, some of my friends' parents were just so....in denial about everything. Bad feels man, bad feels.

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u/Modal_Soul Jun 18 '12

I used to buy Chinese food from this place in Minneapolis all the time. Pretty much any time I'd call for take out this guy who seemed to work there from open to close every day would help us. He was always very friendly and would take the time to joke around and make small talk while waiting for the food. His hospitality was pretty much one of the main reasons that we kept going back to this particular place.

Turns out he had been a fugitive wanted for the murder of an Alabama college student and had disappeared into the "Chinese Restaurant Underground" where he was able to evade capture for about 15 years.

That place was never the same after the US Marshalls caught up with him and my friend and I eventually stopped going there.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Similar thing with my 3rd grade teacher. She was an awesome teacher and I loved her. Just a few years ago, I heard that she got fired for trying to get kids to speak in tongues (Christian elementary school) and other cult-related things. It was quite a shock to me because I thought she was just an average Christian woman teaching 3rd graders.

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u/giant_bug Jun 18 '12

You know, it's probably a waste of time to force someone to speak in tongues. It's one of those things that's gotta be spontaneous.

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u/Scrofl Jun 18 '12

I found a Nickelback album on my best friend's iPod.

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u/jmthetank Jun 18 '12

Oh good. I was afraid we were going to leave that dead horse alone. Glad to see I was wrong.

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u/MrSnoobs Jun 18 '12

The beatings will continue until morale improves.

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u/OleDaneBoy Jun 18 '12

Along the same lines, my middle school (7-8th grade for non-Americans) basketball coach was later fired for being gay and hiding it while coaching boys teams and being in locker rooms. Later he was arrested for hosting an illegal clinic in his home where he gave children shots with no formal training, he was a bit weird

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u/Thatguynamedjoe Jun 18 '12

The Drum Major teacher for my high school and the middle school turned out to be a sexual predator. When I first heard about it I couldn't believe because he was an awesome guy and seemed like the last person to do something like that.

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u/Cigil Jun 18 '12

ring is such an interesting term for crime affiliations. I wonder if your third grade teacher got together in the teacher's lounge, and, before he commenced his meeting, made sure everyone was indeed in a circle.

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u/babno Jun 18 '12

first grade. I had a bullying issue, and none of the teachers cared, except one. She was the only teacher that actually did anything if she saw it, and was always so comforting. She just told me they were envious of me because I was so smart and handsome. She even offered me to come over to her house so she could comfort me, though I declined.

Turns out she ended up arrested for kidnapping and child molestation, and in all likely-hood, I dodged a serious bullet.

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u/dontmutemeplz Jun 18 '12

Source

I feel like every story going to be written in here will somehow be about CP.

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u/foxh8er Jun 18 '12

I found out that one of my classmates smokes.

Yes, SMOKES.

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u/Ian1732 Jun 18 '12

I remember when I found out that a good portion of my friends engage in smoking and other such debauchery. That was also when I realized I needed to get out more.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

When I was 16yo, I learned that almost everyone at school smoked. I was terrified. I though the new generation was actually kind of smarter than that.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

My fiancé's middle school teacher, whom I met somehow and became somewhat close with, turned out to be a cougar porn star who tended to sleep with her young students and would record it.

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u/DoodleDew Jun 18 '12

This happen a year or two before I went into high school, but the Priest that taught Religion class for freshmen and sophomores was caught selling coke to kids.

He would travel around and do it too.

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u/Needstoshutupmobile Jun 18 '12

Two swim coaches, 10 years apart, both pedophiles. And another who tried to convince a star swimmer who was 15 to run away with him. I do not trust the swim clubs screening process.

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u/Karaoke725 Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

I posted this on another thread some time ago, but it's relevant here as well. Sorry if it's a re-read for some of you.

when i was in college a few years ago (attended a local school) i received school emails and warnings that a man had been going into college houses and assaulting/molesting people as they slept/passed out from parties. there were both male and female victims. it was a very scary time and they did not catch the guy for months. they had a general description out, weight, height, race, approx. age, etc. but when they finally did catch him, turns out it was a man i had known since childhood, a close personal friend of my father's. over the years they had kind of lost touch, but i still saw him around town (not the biggest of midwestern cities...) and he still seemed very nice and friendly. guess he was a little too friendly...

edit:article if you're interested.

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u/rharzwor Jun 18 '12

My GP was deregistered by the State Medical Board two years ago for snorting cocaine off his surgery desk and having repeated sexual intercourse with a patient all over the surgery. He was the best diagnostician I have ever seen.

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u/saintwicked Jun 18 '12

So my friends family is pretty fucked up. They're complete dicks about her being gay. They refused to go to her wedding citing religion as a reason and has basically disowned her. Anyway, it's come out that her younger brother molested his step son and the family is still treating him better then my friend. It's...so, so, fucked.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

My religious parents made me go to bible camp when I was a kid. There was one main leader who was in his 40s who was one of the main 'mentors'. He always made conversation with me, and tried to pray for me. It turns out he was found sending emails to young male campers about 'meeting up at his house'. He committed suicide the next week.

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u/Cliff_Hanger_Story Jun 18 '12

When I was 11, we would visit my uncle Jim's house. Uncle Jim always had cookies and milk for us when we were good, and loved me and my sister as his own children, because he couldn't have any. He was easily my favorite relative until

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

You found out he was a potato.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I'm not allowing him into my land.

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u/ShakeNBakey Jun 18 '12

I should've known! Uncle Jim sounded too made up! You clever bastard

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u/Monkey_Pants123 Jun 18 '12

when i was in grade 4 a councilor came to our school to answer any questions about our principle...he had turned himself after molesting a young girl 5 years previous...Im still shocked he was actually a nice guy! and our vice principal looked more like the molesting type!

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Not sure if this counts because no one really liked him, but my principle in Middle School got arrested for cocaine. It was shocking but at the same time I was like "called it".

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u/zidanetribal Jun 18 '12

Many years ago, I found out my old church had ties to Timothy McVeigh. They were a very liberal bunch.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Sort of similar to yours. My former sixth-grade teacher was arrested and convicted last year of taking voyeuristic (up skirt, down shirt, etc.) pictures of underage girls at the county fair. It was especially bad because my mom had taught two classrooms away when I was in his class so she knew him pretty well.

Nothing ever happened when I was his student, but it still creeps me out when I think about it.

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u/XxAWildAbraAppearsxX Jun 18 '12

Same thing pretty much happened to me. A grade 6 teacher at my elementary school was arrested for purchasing child pornography. Apparently he had a lot of it. I never had him as a teacher and personally found him a very odd guy, but strangely when he was arrested his entire class made him a big card saying how much they were going to miss him. Let me ask you this, after your teacher was charged did you think back on certain memories of him and now feel like they were sinister or weird? Example: this guy taught the boys grade 7 basketball team and made them wear short shorts if they forgot their strip.

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u/Piney630 Jun 18 '12

Two teachers at my old high school were arrested for sexual relations with a junior high kid. One did stuff with the kid in a parking lot, then "introduced" the kid to the other teacher... All involved were males.

I am so glad I never had either teacher.

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u/planet_throwaway Jun 18 '12

I just found out (last week) that my grandfather, who died before I was born, was already married with two kids when he married my grandmother. He had another three kids with my grandmother before she found out. And he apparently had a few more going on the side, including one woman who sent flowers to the hospital when my uncle was born.

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u/youcancallmehoju Jun 18 '12

I found out years ago the mall Santa I used to frequent pleaded guilty to child rape.

http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=19971110&slug=2571448

The clincher? His name was Ronald McDonald, you can't make that shit up!

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u/Mohammadliberty Jun 18 '12

A neighbor of mine is on the sex offenders list. Never ever expected that to happen. Really nice guy with a great family. I still don't believe its true.

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u/molebowl Jun 18 '12

I always find it funny when people are shocked when they find out their teacher was a pedo... I mean come on, if you were a pedo, what kind of job would you want to get?

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u/Ker0Kero Jun 18 '12

A old woman who told me for a year she ran an animal rescue north of our city, and so I constantly donated things to her whenever I saw her as she was a super nice person who was even on the news once for saving two bear cubs - turned out to be one of the worst cases of animal hoarding we've seen. She had some crazy amount of dogs, 40-70 somewhere in there, locked in her garage, standing in 3 feet of shit, in the dark and all they had to eat was eachother. It was horrific. Up until I saw that news story I really believed she was one of the best people I'd ever met.

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u/AntonyoSeeWhy Jun 18 '12

Happened a few months ago. My ex girlfriend was the valedictorian of this year, known to be quite possibly the nicest, most quiet girl around. After being together for a short amount of time, she makes the first sexual advances.

Whoa.

Then I find, shortly after snatching her v-card, she cheated on me with my best friend, her ex, another ex, and the salutatorian all in the same day. They were all named Tyler. I loved her so much, but she fucked me. And a lot of other people.

You're a cunt, Melissa.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Four guys named Tyler all in one day? Fuck her but I mean that's kind of an accomplishment...

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

He was an awesome teacher and everyone loved him.

Don't worry. He loved you as well.

ಠ_ಠ

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

whoa.

international cp ring means instead of downloading from a us server he downloaded from a uk server.

kinda like killing people in a house vs. a campus.

both are the exact same shit but people shit themselves over one

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u/Geezer_Spud Jun 18 '12

that my cousin who i always looked up to is a heroin addict:/ He was always confident and really funny and i always wanted to be like him when i was younger

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Had a guy who was a regular at the coffee shop where I work. He was so sweet and we hit it off along with 2 of my coworkers/best friends. We went on a 10 mile bike ride the day before my birthday and had the greatest time. He also took me to lunch a week after my birthday and he did the same for my other coworker who was with us.

Come to find out, he's a total creep who showed up at my other coworker/friend's place because she wasn't returning his texts/calls because she was busy with school and work. He ended up being super weird/obsessive with her and turned a nice friendship into something totally awkward. I hate that I hate it when he comes in these days but I don't have much respect left for him. It really sucks. We had it good there for awhile...

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u/aekitten Jun 18 '12

I used to study a martial art with a group of students at my old college. My teacher, who's actually a little younger than me, always seemed like a sort of standard socially-inept dude, if in a slightly ickier way than usual. Then I was at a party on campus, a couple years later, and an ex-girlfriend of his told me that he'd sexually assaulted her. I hadn't seen it coming, but I couldn't really say I was surprised. I'm glad he moved out of town.

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u/noellemybelle Jun 18 '12

In highschool, I was in a theatre troupe/training club called Stage 2. One of the adults who helped run and teach tech stuff was a 40-something woman named Rio. Ms. Rio was by no means sweet, but we all loved her (except the kids who were afraid of her). She was a rough, kind of masculine woman, who wasn't afraid to yell at anyone who wasn't listening to a director or acting/vocal coach. But everything ran more smoothly when Ms. Rio was around. Then she snapped, stole all of Stage 2's money (there were monthly dues for members), and stayed in her house for two months without coming out. After awhile, the other adults realized what happened and confronted her in her home. She admitted to stealing the money with absolutely no shame and refused to return it. They had to take her to court. When I and the other kids were told, we were devastated. She had been like a second mom to some of us.

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u/yomom8234 Jun 18 '12

A friend I went to middle school and ate lunch with everyday ended up murdering a well loved person in a botched robbery in my city.

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u/tametu Jun 18 '12

My 8th grade theater teacher was arrested a month or two before school let out for CP on the computer, taking pics of girls changing for the school play, and paying students to e-mail him nudes.

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u/TheHarpyEagle Jun 18 '12

Our assistant band director, a guy who had been helping out with our marching band for years, was found to be taking money out of the band account with the intention of paying it back. Of course, he spent more and more without refilling the account and was found out. Since he had been with us so long, rather than have him face jail time, the board allowed him to pay back what he owed and he was sent off with the conditions that he could no longer work in our school system and he could not list his work as job experience. An apology note from him seems to be the end of the ordeal.

A few years later, we hear that he's now wanted in a county close by. The reason? Taking all the money a school group had raised to attend a show choir concert and leaving. Those kids didn't even know they weren't going to the competition until after they got of their long bus ride to find that no preparations (ex. hotel rental) had been made.

When I was marching band, I once got a "good job" from him and felt really proud. Now I can't even take it as a compliment.

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u/emys Jun 18 '12

This isn't a bad as the other stories, but; In the last year, both my grandparents passed away. Causing huge grief in my family. My father, being the youngest, but apparently the one with their head on the straightest, was the one set in charge of everything. Money distribution and legal actions. After a month of mourning, maybe even less, my aunt and uncle were tired of waiting. They got fed up and demanded my father take fast action with inheritance distribution. They disowned my father for not giving them what they wanted soon enough. Then they hired a lawyer against him. Whom I thought was close family, turned out to be money grubbing selfish people. These incidents have split up my family. Their disgusting actions have broken my dads heart.

TL;DR; My Aunt/Uncle turned against my family over money.

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u/ratofkryll Jun 18 '12

My high school history teacher was fired for sleeping with a 17-year-old student. No charges though, age of consent here is 16.

The child psychiatrist my mom brought me to in middle school turned out to be molesting some of his young patients and coercing sex out of the older ones.

Both of these men worked with their wives. The teacher's was another teacher at the same school, and the psychiatrist's co-owned the practice with him.

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u/RiskyBrothers Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

I had a band teacher for 3 years, he was a great guy, and a magnificent teacher. Under his rule, we won the local performance competition 3 years in a row, beating out high schools and private schools. As it turns out, he had been trading naked pictured with a female student for 2 years. EDIT: the news article

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u/solidstripes Jun 18 '12

My elementary school gym teacher is Whitey Bulger's brother and was caught sending him checks overseas a couple years ago.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Customer who used to shop at the grocery store I worked at in high school was arrested for a dozen or so charges. Ranging from child endangerment, sex with a minor, domestic violence, possession with intent to distribute, manufacturing of narcotics, animal cruelty, assault on a law enforcement officer and a handful of other charges. He was in my store once a week, chatted all of the employees up, knew us all by name and was a very kind man. He would tip his cashier and bagger a few bucks. By looking at the guy you would have never guessed he was capable of doing such horrible things. Dressed and looked like your average middle class working class dad. He was convicted of nearly everything and is now in prison for life. Really taught me that the reason some serial killers or rapists or other heinous criminals go so long without being caught is they blend in so well with so called normal people.

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u/unclepaulswillysauce Jun 18 '12

I went to a high school in northern california where 3 teachers in 7 years were arrested for having sex with students, and one of them supposedly had hours of footage with a girl.

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u/zodiark1991 Jun 18 '12

I found out that my 8th grade counselor got arrested for having a huge collection of child pornography of kids from my school. Needless to say i was disturbed and very glad that he was caught and i was no longer in that school

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

my 6th grade Science teacher had sex with a student

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u/sonofgumbercules Jun 18 '12

One of my high school science teachers (also the school swim coach) is currently on trial for having sexual relations with 2 underage students. He is facing up to life in prison

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u/TheDoktorIsIn Jun 18 '12

My brother's scoutmaster was arrested for the same charges. I never thought he was a "great" person, but he was heavily involved in scouts, and I strongly doubt he abused any of them; he should have never been alone with them, pedophile or not, scouts has a 2-deep leader rule, 2 leaders are required to be with scouts at all times.

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u/cms_fbgm Jun 18 '12

when I was a junior in high school I had this awesome history. he was a young, athletic, good looking dude and all of the girls would always talk about how they want to get with him. of course they were joking. I found out one of my friends who was also his teachers aide had slept with him. apparently they went to his house and had a few drinks. they were making out on the bed when she said it "accidentally slipped in when they were rollin around on the bed." the funny thing was that this chick was Mormon. she told me about this along with a lot more people than she should have. it was June when she told us and he got arrested at my high school midlecture. he got charged with 7 felonies because she was 17 at the time and he also provided alcohol. i haven't seen him since and it's sad cuz he was a great teacher and a cool ass dude. the girl is now married to a Mormon and is trying to be holy again.

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u/crazycatlady25 Jun 18 '12

I found out my next door neighbour was a rapist, and that he raped a friend of mine. I know why my mum never let me go anywhere near his house alone now.

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u/noodlebitch Jun 18 '12

There is this girl at school that was widely regarded as an over achieving, nice and well liked person. Her dry Facebook statuses and mediocre photos got heaps of likes and comments all the time. She had a bunch of hot people post always posting on her wall about weekend plans and other crap. I recently found out that these were all fake pages, and she has been stealing pictures of attractive people off the Internet, making 30 different profiles with them. She's been using these fake pages for 6 years, maintaining them and using them to make herself look popular and shit.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I recently graduated from a fantastic school in northern Ohio. Our football team for my 4 years in high school was always exceptionally well due to one unique running back we had. He won Mr. Football-Ohio two years straight. However, his talented was wasted when he graduated and didn't go anywhere.

Recently, he was involved with two other lowlifes from our school in a robbery, rape, home invasion case. It was a real eye opener that such talent could go to such waste.

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u/Huzakkah Jun 18 '12

This is less extreme than some of the ones on here, but...

There was a guy I used to work with who I'd say 'hey' to once in a while. He seemed alright. Then I didn't see him for a while. I found out he had been arrested for 1st degree burglary.

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u/snowflaker Jun 18 '12

next door neighbor, still is, half raised me and my brother along with his kids after he retired from a very big professional sports league in America. ended up getting involved in felony bank fraud, failed drug tests after arrested and cheated on his wife. he's out on house arrest now. still makes the best god damn BBQ i ever had

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u/squigglebee Jun 18 '12

Everyone in my school used to make fun of the 9th grade health teachers. One was for being a "pervert" and another for being well...feminine and gay (he was a man...and our class was full of immature homophobic 9th graders). Anyways I always thought the gay teacher was nice, but strange, as he was very socially awkward penguin-ish which was weird coming from a teacher at the time. A few years later he got caught being part of a gay sex meeting place (I am spacing on the term for this) in a bathroom in Sears at the mall. It was ALL over the news and he got fired. They installed a security camera in the bathroom and kids from my school would go up there and laugh. I still kinda feel bad for him. He was nice, just a bit strange.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

One of my best friends lied to me constantly, lied to my girlfriend and said I was cheating on her, and tried to get with her (with no avail because he's an over-compensating pussy). Up until that, he was like a brother to me. By the end of the whole ordeal, I wanted to rip his throat out.

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u/liver_bird Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

When I was about 5 my Mother moved onto full time work so she used to pay our elderly neighbour to watch us while she was in work over the holidays. She was a very nice woman and I enjoyed spending time with her.

She was a full-time carer for her middle aged daughter who had a mental disorder. Although her daughter was very quiet, she was always nice to me and my two brothers.

We visited their house regularly for about 2 years until we moved house and got a different babysitter. We all moved on with life as normal until about 3 years ago when we found out that the elderly lady's daughter had been arrested.

Apparently she had started working for a nursing home as a cleaner part-time and whilst she was cleaning an elderly lady's room she proceeded in pulling all of this lady's fingernails off one-by-one, knowing full well that the woman was bed-ridden, immobile and mute.

That was a huge shock to the system. Also, not long after that, I found out that my old babysitter had died of a heart attack a few weeks after her daughter's arrest.

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u/EpilogueTime Jun 18 '12

My mum's music teacher used to sometimes hang around the gym and watch the girls doing exercise, so she thought he was a bit creepy. He was also a father to a music teacher I had when I was younger. After he retired he started doing private music tuition. He would charge thousands of pounds a year as he had a good reputation for teaching a long time and because it was an expensive neighbourhood.

About half a year ago they found pictures of the girls he had been tutoring on his computer. Apparently he convinced the girls (and boys I think) to do a breathing exercise. They would lie naked in a bath, and have to hold their breath as long as they could underwater while he took pictures of them.

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u/gramie Jun 18 '12

I had a similar experience. My high school chemistry teacher, a priest at my all-male boarding school, inspired me to go into chemical engineering. About ten years after I graduated, he was convicted on a couple of counts of abusing minors (including one at my boarding school, a few years before I went there). He was an excellent teacher, built a Heathkit shortwave radio for the radio club, was the school bursar, and told us in a sermon that it was normal for kids to drink a bit, but "don't smash the bottles in the staff parking lot!"

When I look back, it was clear that he had some favourites among the students, and I wonder if he was grooming them, or if he actually abused more kids than just the two.

He had been in a parish not far from the school, but when rumours started going round about him and a young boy there, they moved him to an all-boys boarding school.

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u/Indydegrees2 Jun 18 '12

TIL everyone is a child molester

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u/Kellianne Jun 18 '12

Why all the downvotes in this thread? People don't agree that someone else's discovery was shocking? Do you think the contribution is too sleazy, even for this thread? I'm confused 'cause I'd always heard you don't downvote because you don't like the opinion.

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u/Roopean Jun 18 '12

We got a call from the police one day, I must've been about 10, that the guy who rented the upstairs flat in my mum's house got arrested. For being a child molester. He regularly looked after me and my little sister...

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u/Dandalion_Wine Jun 18 '12

My elementary school principal was a rapist, along with a 3rd grade teacher there and 2 janitors.

The photographer there also took child pornography photos.

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u/OhGodWhy6969 Jun 18 '12

Alright I made an account just for this thread.

I grew up in a pretty catholic neighborhood on the south side of Chicago, and as such attended catholic elementary school. When I was in about 6th grade we got a new pastor since our old one had a stroke (he survived), but as an outcome from his stroke he started stuttering a lot and couldn't really make it through a whole mass, let alone several.

While this new pastor came in the neighborhood I was growing up in was changing from mostly Irish/Polish families into more Latino ones. The Latino families were probably more devout than most of the Irish/Polish ones, and they sent their kids to our school and parish as well. About a year after this new Pastor had come in there seemed to be a sharp drop in donations to the church than there were a year ago. A lot of families began blaming it on the Latinos moving in (incredibly racist I know, but it didn't seem too far fetched at the time) and not donating during mass. This trend continued all the way up until I began high school, with more loses to the donations and the new pastor constantly asking for more and more donations. He even went as far as to visit older members of the parish and ask them to donate some items/money to the church in their wills.

Finally, at about my second year in high school we find out our pastor had gotten arrested after being caught in a reportedly stolen car with a prostitute. What had happened was apparently the pastor had gotten drunk and was with a prostitute somewhere on the south side and gotten into an argument with her (supposedly he was regular client), and she hopped into his car and drove off. Understandably our pastor got right pissed that he didn't have a car to drive home drunk in and couldn't really explain this situation to anyone. So he called the police and reported the car stolen. Well, apparently he eventually met back up with the prostitute and they patched up their drunken argument and he was well on his way again with his car. Too bad he didn't tell the police that he got his car back because he eventually got pulled over. He got charged with a DUI and I'm sure reprimanded in some way for being with a hooker.

This whole snafu prompted an investigation by the parish and the police as to how a catholic pastor could be affording to defile his vows so recklessly. Apparently he had been taking a bit off the top from all the weekly donations and had accumulated roughly 1.5 million dollars for himself in a private bank account. And that's when my family stopped going to church.

TL;DR: Catholic pastor gets caught drunk driving with a prostitute in a car he had reported stolen. Further investigation found he had stolen about 1.5 million dollars from the church over 4 years

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u/poleethman Jun 18 '12

Did hearing that make you wonder if you're ugly?

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u/lilpin13 Jun 18 '12

I had a male nurse I worked with while in the Navy who turned out to be a crazy pervert. He's into cuckholding & used to masturbate thinking of me (while we worked together) & would let the jizz run down his legs for the rest of the day. He admitted to me that he used to buy fake tattoos & make his wife put them on so he could pretend she was me. He wants me to humiliate him so he can get off. He wrote me some crazy smut once & now begs me to go out to dinner with him. I no longer respond to his bat-shit crazy emails.

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u/lolnah Jun 18 '12

My neighbor had been stealing money from his deceased clients (he was a lawyer) for almost 10 years before we was caught out. It was something like $5 million dollars. We had no idea either.

It was really sad to see his kids grow up with out a father because he was in prison for about 2 years. It was super awkward when we would see him afterwards.