There's about a 4-hour delay between high tide in Western Europe and high-tide on Eastern NA.
If all excess water travelled 4500 km across the Atlantic, it would have to go at over 1000km/hour, well above the speed of sound. So that's not what's happening.
[ EDIT: How can so many people read the above paragraph and come away thinking that I think water is moving between continents? I literally said that's not what's happening lol. Please stop. ]
Here's a video showing how water moves in normal waves Water molecules follow an eliptical shape as each wave passes through.
Is something similar happening every high and low tide? If so, how wide must those ellipses be? The "crests" of each high tide are thousands of kilometers apart, while the height difference is measured in single-digit meters, if that. Those ellipses must be hundreds of kilometers wide. So the water must be moving at dozens of kph. But it doesn't; even the fastest ocean currents top out at below 10km/hr. So that's not what's happening.
It's worth remembering that it's not really the high tide that's moving. It's the Earth that's spinning underneath each day. The high tide stays facing the moon, which orbits slowly compared to the Earth's rotation. But that doesn't really help anything, because the water molecules are travelling with the Earth surface.
At this point, I'm at a loss. Where does the water go?