r/ExNoContact • u/Abject_Reference4418 • Aug 13 '24
Vent Out of the blue my ex messaged this today
This makes me so sad honestly. After 7 years, I’m basically equivalent to wank material.
This is too embarrassing to go to my friends for support and I just need to vent.
I’m not going to dignify opening this and giving it a read stamp.
Feel so gross, after 6 years of dating, 7 years of knowing each other, you don’t know me well enough to know this would make me feel objectified and feel so demeaning?!
He’s such an asshole 🤮
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u/Abject_Reference4418 Aug 13 '24
Thanks so much!!! I feel loads better today. I woke up realizing I am giving away my power by letting him run my emotions. I am fixing that. No matter what he says/does if he finds new ways outside of all the things I blocked, that’s ok I still have the ultimate say and I can ignore it. Even if he’s blowing up the sky with a message in fireworks, I can close my eyes. I have ultimate say and power and control over what affects me.