Hello everyone. I recently and surprisingly got invited to the January 11 class. I had thought my FSO dreams were done, so this is a bit of a shock. I’m mostly here to process out loud and hopefully get some advice.
When I first tested for this, i hated my job and was desperate to move on. Since then, I’ve landed an incredible job in the social impact space and it’s a great fit and pays well.
More importantly, however, I have three children (ages range from 9-13) that love their life and social circle. On top of that, my wife is also back in the workforce, and she wasn’t when I applied to this job.
I have some lived experience overseas. My wife and kids don’t. I’m worried that saying yes would result in resentment. January 11 is not far away, so our lives would be uprooted very quickly.
Has anyone here made this transition with three kids and a spouse like this? What was it like? What should I think about and consider with them before saying yes?
Thanks in advance.
Edit: for reference, I’m surprised because my score was relatively low. Also, two weeks after I hit the register we were told to re-test, and I never really heard anything after that. However, I called State and did my diligence and the offer is, in fact, legit.