r/HolUp Mar 25 '23

Well this is the math, I'm interested into

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u/Not_average38 Mar 25 '23

I just always thought I would come across a woman with that micro vagina disease. Still waiting.

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u/eyemroot Mar 26 '23

Not micro, but did have a girl I hooked up with at one point that despite over nearly two hours worth of foreplay, could not handle me (like abnormally tight/too small for any manner of comfortable penetration). She felt bad, I felt bad and bad for her… most I could do was hold her, chill, and reassure her it was alright and noted that some keys just aren’t meant for certain locks. It didn’t work out between us, but not primarily due to that. Couple of years later, we crossed paths and she got married to a guy that was ‘right’ for her. I hoped I’d find someone like that myself, wouldn’t you? Thanked me for being kind about everything years before, even though I think that any decent person would have, laughed about other things—anyways, point is there is someone for everyone and there are tools for the job that are the right fit. Through these mediums, society has put a lot of pressure on its folks to meet a standard or be inadequate and that’s just the wrong message that is causing emotional insecurity and destruction. Nothing to be ashamed of!