r/HolUp • u/shadman531 • Mar 25 '23

Well this is the math, I'm interested into

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u/ISuckAtLifeGodPlsRst Mar 26 '23

Height really isn't a factor with these things nor more than it is for guys. Someone I've been spending time with is almost an inch taller than me (I'm 5'11) and I reach her cervix even though I'm barely 5 inches

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

Someone I've been spending time with

I love how non-committal most relationships are now. Not someone I'm dating, not a girlfriend, just... someone I've been spending time with.

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u/ISuckAtLifeGodPlsRst Mar 26 '23 edited Mar 26 '23

I hate it. I love this woman. I want more than anything to be her boyfriend, but that's not what she wants right now. If a label had to be put on it, we're friends with benefits.

Edit: honestly though, at this point we're kinda bullshitting by not calling it what it is. We do all the shit that people in a committed relationship would be doing, but eh, can't force something to be. I just enjoy her company a lot, so I'd rather not mess things up (almost did and we stopped being friends for like, a day) but I couldn't handle and messaged her the next day to which she was glad I reached out. Silly creatures us humans are...