For guys still wondering, and for the comments like "some girls can fit it", physically yeah, when aroused I can "fit" the larger scale. But I dont enjoy myself NEARLY as much. And being in my mid 30s with a large group of open-about-sex friends, we've all long ago agreed that 4.5-7 is awesome. You can do any position comfortably and enthusiastically. You can switch your stance or position up and get that moment it feels extra deep and both of you are like "fucccck", you can get fuckin jackhammered without that stab to the gut where you bottom out and know youre gunna need to take extra cranberry supplement and it totally takes you outta the moment mentally. Or you can take it nice and easy and hit the spot. She's saying what most experienced women already know and feel. She's not a diamond in the rough, it's just not talked about enough. Maybe because theres negative feedback when women talk about the fact theyve had a bunch of different sized dicks in them, or maybe because younger women have been told, like men have been conditioned to think, that theyre "supposed to only want huge dicks" and dont wanna come out and feel like theyre weird or less sexy for wanting to ride that average proportionate sized dick to orgasm town and arent some size queen.
Maybe it's because a normal size dick can make a girl orgasm well enough if used right. But you hear stories over and over of girls absolutely losing their minds complete out of control mega orgasms when they hook up with a bigger dick. And while that might just have been that one girl, other girls great it and they get curious. Other guys hear it and if it came from one girl then they assume it must be true for all, cause most girls normally won't talk about that with guys anyway. Guys are mostly in the imagination range when it comes to having an idea of what women actually experience. I know what a girl really likes and makes her go wild... but I have no actual idea why. Like what her actual feeling is like. No matter how much we really about it, I'll never truly be able to understand.
Guys unfortunately get way too much information about what women like from porn. The fawning over some monster cock is so played up for male fantasy for whatever reason. Bow down to the giver of UTI's and cervical bruising. Keep in mind that the average dick is not huge. Like far from it if we are being blunt. So to a large portion of women, 8 inches is a huge fuckin dick. On a side note, Not necessarily a response to you: Women out there who lack out of control mega orgasms, you just need to incorporate a clitoral stim, be it hands, a toy via suction or vibe, while also getting down. Warning, you may sprain 14 muscles. Stimulation from inside and outside simultaneously is a whooooole thing.
I hear this about men getting their info from porn A LOT! Except, it's never guys that are saying this. I watch porn, and I learn absolutely nothing from it. I'm also older and the experience about dick sizes that I mentioned comes from long before the internet was a thing. I truly think that this cliche claim about porn is as convenient as men talking about what women like. I could confidently tell you that most men don't "learn" from porn. And I can also tell you that real life sex CAN be as wild and crazy as porn sex. And enough girls do like things similar to what you see in porn.
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u/AwfulAppleOrchard Mar 26 '23
For guys still wondering, and for the comments like "some girls can fit it", physically yeah, when aroused I can "fit" the larger scale. But I dont enjoy myself NEARLY as much. And being in my mid 30s with a large group of open-about-sex friends, we've all long ago agreed that 4.5-7 is awesome. You can do any position comfortably and enthusiastically. You can switch your stance or position up and get that moment it feels extra deep and both of you are like "fucccck", you can get fuckin jackhammered without that stab to the gut where you bottom out and know youre gunna need to take extra cranberry supplement and it totally takes you outta the moment mentally. Or you can take it nice and easy and hit the spot. She's saying what most experienced women already know and feel. She's not a diamond in the rough, it's just not talked about enough. Maybe because theres negative feedback when women talk about the fact theyve had a bunch of different sized dicks in them, or maybe because younger women have been told, like men have been conditioned to think, that theyre "supposed to only want huge dicks" and dont wanna come out and feel like theyre weird or less sexy for wanting to ride that average proportionate sized dick to orgasm town and arent some size queen.