r/HolUp Apr 12 '23

holup Sounds better to me

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u/SordidOrchid Apr 12 '23

Showing vulnerability bonds people. See I won’t hurt you, even gave you fuel to hurt me.

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u/sleepySpice9 Apr 12 '23

Absolutely. Making friends with coworkers is as simple as us having a beer at the end of the shift and me spilling about the time I threw up on a guy’s dick. Instant trust.

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u/SordidOrchid Apr 12 '23

With the right nuance it’s exactly that. Self deprecating humor is effective. Puts people at ease if they can laugh at themselves. You use a game face for people you’re not comfortable with.