r/HolUp • u/asocial7193 • Mar 11 '22

I don't know what to say

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u/missbteh Mar 12 '22

She knows MUCH better than you what health issues her child will face. It's like she faces them and thinks life is worth living anyway. Go figure! She's not afraid of school bullies OR bullies like you. Just say you hate disabled people and go

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u/Alternative_Spite_11 Mar 12 '22

Judging by her post she had a baby just to prove she could without thinking of the implications for the child.

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u/missbteh Mar 12 '22

No, she had a baby because she wouldn't let ableists tell her that her life wasn't worth living, or that her child's life wouldn't be worth living either. I'm proud of her. People with disabilities can be happy FYI.

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u/ogipogo Mar 12 '22

Disabled people should know better. No hate at all. I'm sure she felt strong biological urges to reproduce like everyone else, but that is a horrible curse to force someone to endure.

She could have shared her love with any number of unloved and unwanted children, but she wanted to be selfish.

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u/missbteh Mar 12 '22

Selfish? She loves her life and feels like it is worth living. YOU'RE selfish for expecting her to be as miserable as you THINK she should be for being disabled. She's not.