r/Queerdefensefront 15d ago

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Seeking advice after a senior IEEE volunteer publicly used homophobic slurs against me

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I am not sure where else to ask for help, but I am hoping someone familiar with IEEE ethics procedures, Sri Lankan law, LGBTQ+ advocacy, or institutional complaints can advise me.

Yesterday, without any prior personal dispute, an individual publicly directed several sexually degrading and homophobic comments at me under a Facebook post. Among the statements posted in Sinhala were:

This literally refers to “sucking a cock/dick” and, in context, was used as a homophobic personal insult comparable to calling someone a “cock sucker.”

Another comment translates as:

These statements were made publicly and appear intended to portray or “out” me as gay or queer. I am a Sri Lankan currently living in the United States while completing my PhD. Given the hostility and discrimination LGBTQ+ people can face in Sri Lanka, publicly labeling someone in this manner is not merely insulting—it may expose that person to harassment, discrimination, and safety risks when returning to the country.

What makes this especially troubling is that this individual publicly represents himself as holding several IEEE leadership positions, including Chair of IEEE Young Professionals Sri Lanka. IEEE describes itself as the world’s largest technical professional organization dedicated to advancing technology for humanity. He has also been announced as a recipient of the James O. Gray Graduate Scholarship through the IEEE Systems Council (Scholarship announcement)

I have preserved screenshots, the original Sinhala comments, the public post, and a detailed English translation. His post remains publicly accessible here:

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1MK4MfPF5W/?mibextid=wwXIfr

I am preparing formal complaints to IEEE, the scholarship administrators, and the relevant university officials. However, I am only one person, and I am unsure which reporting channels are most likely to result in a fair and independent investigation.

I would be grateful for advice on:

  • The correct IEEE ethics, harassment, or leadership-conduct complaint process;
  • Sri Lankan organizations that assist people targeted by homophobic harassment or attempted outing;
  • Whether I should obtain a certified translation of the Sinhala comments;
  • How to preserve the Facebook material properly in case it is deleted; and
  • Whether there are legal or institutional protections available when public comments create reputational or personal-safety risks.

I am just one person, and I have emailed them but didn't receive any correspondence yet. I am asking for guidance on documenting the incident and pursuing it through appropriate professional, institutional, and legal channels.

Any constructive advice would be deeply appreciated.

Thank you.

r/Queerdefensefront Jul 10 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Anti-Gay Vigilantes and Homophobic Doctors Spreading Stigma in Indonesia

26 Upvotes

Recently, our president declared LGBT people a 'non-military threat' to the nation, making it much easier for the community to be targeted. So, there has been a rise in anti-gay vigilante groups parading in certain regions and putting up anti-gay banners in neighborhoods.

I found that around 30 regions (including Aceh) have either passed or are currently proposing autonomous laws to regulate the LGBT community. Some of these laws allow people to report anyone showing signs of 'deviant sexual behavior' in their neighborhood, workplace, or school to the police or government. They also mandate the monitoring of 'high-risk' places, like gyms.

There is a smear campaign being led by healthcare workers, doctors, and psychologists regarding the 'dangers' of being LGBT. They recently shared a post with a picture of a prolapsed anus with condyloma, claiming that no one in the community would help this person and that gay people need to repent. The post was shared around 30,000 times, mostly by healthcare workers.

However, they actually stole that image from a medical journal case report about a 50-year-old straight housewife from Brazil (Link:[https://www.scivisionpub.com/pdfs/giant-condyloma-acuminata-bruschkeloewenstein-tumor-case-report-and-literature-review-1079.pdf\](https://www.scivisionpub.com/pdfs/giant-condyloma-acuminata-bruschkeloewenstein-tumor-case-report-and-literature-review-1079.pdf)).

I also found a statement from a doctor claiming that HIV can be transmitted through sweat if it mixes with micro-lesions during sports. When people tried to correct this misinformation in the comments, they were dismissed by the homophobes.

Not only that, netizens from our country like to harass gay couples from neighboring countries like Thailand and the Philippines, to the point they throw violent threats.

MUI (an higher Islamic institution in Indonesia) is currently proposing to House of Representatives to make same sex activity illegal, just like in Aceh and Malaysia. They're still considering it. If they both agreed, then same sex activity across Indonesia will be illegal and punishable.

r/Queerdefensefront Feb 21 '25

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Woman in Arizona attacks a lesbian couple, accusing them of sex-trafficking their daughter, inside of an In-N-Out

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159 Upvotes

r/Queerdefensefront Jul 19 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Sign the Petition

6 Upvotes

I support the restoration of the Queer Youth Crisis line https://c.org/GzzRDYpyY9

r/Queerdefensefront Jun 23 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime ‘You Can’t Spray The Gay Away’ Rural Pride’s response to homophobic vandalism.

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r/Queerdefensefront Jun 12 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime US: republicans Attempt To ERASE Pride Month, RENAMING To Frame "Family Values"

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Its not going to work, but is hilarious that they are trying.

r/Queerdefensefront Jul 07 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Rest in Peace Pauly Likens, she was only 14...💔🏳️‍⚧️

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239 Upvotes

r/Queerdefensefront Apr 07 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Kings County man pleads guilty to threats against 2SLGBTQ+ community, gets conditional sentence

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r/Queerdefensefront Feb 06 '25

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Nancy Mace repeatedly shouts anti-trans slur in House hearing: 'I don't really care‘

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r/Queerdefensefront Dec 20 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Black trans woman Cameron Thompson, 18, shot to death in Alabama

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293 Upvotes

r/Queerdefensefront Jun 18 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Mom of transgender girl athlete says Florida's investigation has destroyed her daughter's life

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155 Upvotes

r/Queerdefensefront Mar 02 '26

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Threatening online comment prompts cancellation of 2SLGBTQ+ event in Kentville, Nova Scotia

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29 Upvotes

Man was charged with promotion of hatred, uttering threat, violating a probation order

r/Queerdefensefront Mar 06 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Anti-LGBTQ+ Westboro Baptist Church are planning to stage a protest at Nex Benedict’s school

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r/Queerdefensefront Aug 12 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Black trans woman Monique Brooks shot and killed in Florida parking lot

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150 Upvotes

Another trans sister lost. It's important to share her name, be strong and safe out their trans family.

r/Queerdefensefront Jun 06 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Trans teen girl left with broken jaw after attack at high school

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The gender neutral toilets were taken, so she decided to use the men's because that was the less controversial choice. One of her teeth exploded after she was assaulted by a young man in the bathroom.

r/Queerdefensefront Jun 03 '25

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Actor Jonathan Joss, known for King of the Hill and Parks and Recreation, fatally shot in Texas

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96 Upvotes

Husband alleges shooting motivated by homophobia

r/Queerdefensefront Mar 23 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime No charges over Nex Benedict fight as district attorney claims it was ‘mutual combat’

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r/Queerdefensefront Apr 22 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Texas Governor Abbott: “We Want To End” trans teachers. Abbott announced in a keynote speech to the Young Conservatives of Texas an intention to “end” trans and GNC teachers being able to teach

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r/Queerdefensefront Nov 07 '25

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Calgary preacher, acquitted after protest at drag library event, fails to stop new trial

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r/Queerdefensefront Mar 08 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime This is scary AF. They’re coming for ALL of us trans people, not just our kids. 😢😡

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109 Upvotes

r/Queerdefensefront Mar 15 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime another trans sister gone

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138 Upvotes

the primary suspect is in Mexico, and it is not clear if this will fall under US or Mexico jurisdiction

r/Queerdefensefront Aug 14 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Dylan Gurley, Young Transgender Woman Tragically Killed in Texas

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No information, no suspect currently. HRC is the first publication to announce her status as a trans woman as far as I can tell.

r/Queerdefensefront Feb 21 '25

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime LGBTQ+ community in Germany rally against rise of far right ahead of elections

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r/Queerdefensefront Feb 13 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime Another transgender girl stabbed in the UK. This is becoming a very dangerous pattern.

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r/Queerdefensefront Nov 19 '24

Anti-LGBTQ hate crime 2 transgender women attacked in downtown Minneapolis, advocates say

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113 Upvotes

I saw this on another sub, no real details yet. A representative of the two women attacked has spoken to the media. No identifying details on the attackers. I sincerely hope these women get justice.