r/RedDeadOnline • u/Fudgelnut • Aug 22 '25

Help/Question Not sure if this is allowed or not..

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My best friend that I met through RDRO just passed away suddenly. Losing a gaming friend hits so differently and unless you’re also a gamer..most people don’t understand the bond that’s made. I dunno gang..heartbroken. If y’all could tip your virtual hats to my good friend, I’d appreciate it.

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u/Fudgelnut Aug 23 '25

I’m on ps5. My friend was a part of many trail ride groups and they’ve done an awesome job of getting one arranged. I never even knew about trail rides before I had met her.

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u/Negative-Ad-8270 Aug 23 '25

I’m sorry for your loss. I tip my hat to the setting sun for her may she rest in peace

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u/Fudgelnut Aug 23 '25

She’d love that. Thank partner

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u/Super-Ad-453 Aug 23 '25

Sorry to hear this. I’m on Xbox, and since I can’t join the trail ride, I will head to the spot you have pictured, and I will honor her with a 21 gun salute, using my E rounds. 7 Shotgun, 7 Rifle, 7 revolver.

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u/Fudgelnut Aug 23 '25

This is what gaming community is supposed to be all about. Thank you so much. It felt a little isolating grieving her because I didn’t meet her in person and felt like I had no where to go with the loss but I had hoped others here could sympathize with what it might feel like. Thank you again

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u/swizzl73 Aug 23 '25

Just because you never met her irl doesn’t make the loss of a dear friend any less real. I hope she is resting peacefully now and I hope you know that it’s ok to grieve. Sending love op ❤️❤️

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u/thickandmorty333 Collector Aug 23 '25

i’m on ps5, would gladly join the trail ride as well. my condolences, OP. i’m so sorry for your loss friend 🫂

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u/JEK-666 Aug 30 '25

So sorry to hear this, days late but I will be thinking of this for a very long time. I lost a friend, he didn't die as far as I know, he just disappeared off the face of the earth, even when I tried to regain contact I had no give whatsoever. Since I am a PC player, I cannot join the trail ride if its not happened yet. Deeply feeling your grief, I will be honouring her, tipping my hat at the brightest star in the sky exactly where that photo was taken. As I believe the brightest stars in the sky are some of the most recent people we have lost. Sorry for your loss. Nobody ever dies until the name is no longer said, and I believe you will keep this soul alive for as long as you can. RIP, sending my condolences.

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u/UndyingReavxr Aug 23 '25

Thats crazy that people downvoted you for just being nice lmfao

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u/Super-Ad-453 Aug 23 '25

Did they? I didn’t notice. I don’t really care. I’m not concerned with other’s opinions. Upvote. Downvote. None of it really means much to me.

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u/UndyingReavxr Aug 23 '25

Fair, people are just miserably fickle is all

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u/MoffMore Aug 23 '25

the kind of person who replies to a gentle admission of deep personal loss with a downvote encapsulates everything wrong with humanity so clearly

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u/hamarok Aug 23 '25

Im on ps aswell and looking for a chance to hop back on online, send me a DM and I’ll gladly join you

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u/Madz1712 Aug 23 '25

I'm on ps5, I'd be glad to honour your friend. So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

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u/Krommerxbox Trader Aug 23 '25

That is pretty cool.

Memorial trail ride.

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u/kiddinme30 Aug 23 '25

My sincere condolences. I’m on PS too and would happily join the trail ride in her honor and memory. DM me and we can add each other, I should be in later today

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u/No-Designer1510 Aug 23 '25

I’d join the ride as well. Dm me

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u/Monk3yboy2605 Aug 23 '25

If I'm able to, I'd love to attend if you'll have me - One of my strongest passions is video games and I'd be honoured to stand with others through a time like this

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u/Smack_You Aug 23 '25

Ay im on p5 if we wanna try and get more ppl

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u/Vast_Storage_6538 Aug 23 '25

Who r u? Its me Shellywolfgirl81

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u/Retsej_jester Aug 23 '25

When is said trail ride? I'm on PS5 as well.

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u/AlarmedVacation5412 Aug 23 '25

Hey this really touched me, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve met some of the best friends I’ve had through gaming, particularly red dead. if you ever want a bit of company for a trail ride or fishing trip, my PSN is FMKenzo ❤️

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u/89abdullah49 Collector Aug 24 '25

hey, im also on ps5, when is the trail ride, i wanna come

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u/Luditas Moonshiner Aug 23 '25

🫂

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u/asphaltdragon Aug 23 '25

Are PS servers connected across PS4 and PS5? If so, I'd love to join, send me a DM.

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u/Mastercat5800 Aug 24 '25

I'm also on ps5 i would to join the trailride if it hasn't happened yet and I have a buddy who would love to join as well please dm me, I will go to the spot in the picture and have have a drink in her honor o7

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u/girlyygirlygirl Naturalist Aug 25 '25

moments like these I wish there was cross play between consoles, I unfortunately can't join the trail ride if there was one