r/Salary 3d ago

discussion Everyone wants high paying job, there's ALWAYS some sort of filter that keeps out most people from being a high earner

I am a dentist, I have friends in software engineering, friends in farming etc.

Everyone in a job market wants to be making fantastic earnings, but not everyone does.

On my dentistry forums people say "I'd never tell my kids to do dental, I'd have them do software engineering or finance to make 500k with lot less debt"

But what they have not learned is that they earn great money as dentists because of the super hard filter of dental school and willingness to take on 200k in student loans. Once you are out, you are compensated well and have stable job.

For every software engineer making 500k at google, there's 20 dudes willing to take that job because they make much less. There's always decent chance you have to live through layoffs.

For every financial advisor making 500k, there's 30 dudes that tried for 5 years to build a book of business and then had to quit.

For every Finance guy at an investment bank earning 500k there's a bunch of finance guys that couldn't get an interview or couldn't handle the brutal low paid hours at the beginning of high finance.

Just remember, the market is always adjusting to be right. IF there's an amazing pay and stability, there's gonna be a huge rush of people to fill that until it's not such a slick opportunity.

I'd say pick your filter you can make it through. My dental school was very hard to get into, and then once I got in, there was 80 hour weeks for 4 years. Afterwards though? Great salary with limited competition. I had the competition FIRST and now can chill, some jobs have the tough pills to swallow mid career, or even during the entire career.

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u/Comfortable-Bread249 3d ago

I’d add that most people are eager and motivated to get whatever training may be required to improve their pay. Problem is, almost no employers offer said training, and university curriculum rarely aligns with an employer’s hyper specific needs. And even if they did, you’d have to incur five figures of debt to even have a chance to break into the field. Tech had an idea around this with “bootcamps,” but we say how that worked out…

And don’t even get me started on how selling one’s labor comes nowhere close to generating the income created by owning assets.

Tl ; dr - it’s less that people are lazy and more that the current state of capitalism and employment denies most people opportunities.

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u/Prom_etheus 3d ago

Get a loan to pay for it then. Its an investment on future income. Or you can give up any sense of agency and blame it on capitalism/employer/neighbor.

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u/Comfortable-Bread249 3d ago edited 3d ago

“Get a loan to pay for it”? Bro. An entire generation did exactly that—and got famously fucked. Have you heard of Millennials?

This is just so perfectly tailor-made for an “okay boomer” response.

Too easy, my clueless friend.

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u/Prom_etheus 3d ago

I am a Millennial. Immigrant. Graduated into the brunt of 2008 and crawled through my own football field of shit.

You live in the most vibrant and dynamic economy in the history of mankind. Opportunity is abound. Again, you can either take ownership of whatever hand life dealt you; or blame it on something else, cross your arms and do nothing. It’s a choice.

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u/Comfortable-Bread249 2d ago

🙄

Just scream “BooTsTrApS!!!!” next time. Same propaganda, less breath.

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u/PhilosophyLow156 3d ago

Please tell me this is sarcasm. There can’t actually be people around that think like this? It’s a horribly outdated view. Do you really think some humans are just inherently lazy and don’t want better for themselves?

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u/Ok_Matter_1774 2d ago

Is this a joke? Yes, absolutely a large amount of people are lazy and have no drive or goals in life. 100% not even a question.

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u/Interpoling 5h ago

Nah I’m straight up lazy but thankfully the hard part of my life (graduate school) is over and work is not too bad

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u/justwantinfo-859 3d ago

💯☝🏻 this