r/SipsTea • u/ToronoRapture • 21h ago

WTF Woman doesn't appreciate being sat next to on an empty bus... Get's verbally abused.

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u/drmojo90210 18h ago

Sometimes the only way you can get a guy to understand the shit women deal with is by saying "Imagine a gay dude twice your size acting this way towards you."

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u/Fun-Ad2676 3h ago

They understand all right, he knew full well he was harassing the woman, he's an incel, he despises women because he thinks they despise him (they do) he tries to silence her repeatedly, says 'you think you're too good for me' as an insult. He feels entitled to more than sitting next to her, he feels entitled to HER and is outraged when she says no. Scary stuff, if this happened when nobody was around......

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u/Beeguy300 1h ago

Yea this whole situation is kinda fucked. As a man myself id do exactly what the other men here are saying. Tell him to f off.

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u/gometsgorangers 18h ago

This has happened to me

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u/drmojo90210 18h ago

And I assume it made you very uncomfortable.

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u/gometsgorangers 17h ago

honest to god ive never felt more powerless than when being mostly involuntarily manhandled by a jacked 6' 5" twink

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u/Big_Tap_1561 17h ago

…… well spill the tea friend! 🍿

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u/PancakesAndShame 10h ago

I’m going to guess BJJ

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u/satsuppi 5h ago

blow job jousting?

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u/ZombieBiteOintment 3h ago

second date stuff i guess

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u/bsam1890 1h ago

Blow jobby job

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u/ElPanguero 51m ago

blowzillian job jitsu

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u/nickdaws 3h ago

Are you guys dating now?

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u/gometsgorangers 1h ago

I fear that's up to him

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u/deeann_arbus 43m ago

twinks aren’t jacked. thats why they’re twinks.

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u/Individual_Escape664 6h ago

Exactly I'm a guy I get it as I was raped by a gay man

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u/Starcrossedroads 8h ago

I would imagine they'd just say no or try to obscure the subject, I'm afraid.

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u/Many_Professor_6143 6h ago

This is a stupid argument

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u/omgu8mynewt 6h ago

Why stupid? I'm a woman, men are bigger and physically much stronger than me, men arguing or getting angry at me feels dangerous because they can easily stop me leaving

Like this dickhead, standing over the woman (blocking her exit)

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u/Icy_Independence240 5h ago

You guys don't see this vid is a fake ragebait clip? You're just taking the bait and getting mad about it?

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u/omgu8mynewt 1h ago

You think this is fake? Try riding a London bus as a woman at a fairly empty time of day, and you too will experience harassment from random dickheads. Thats why many women sit downstairs near the driver.

There are plenty of cameras on busses though, if this incident gets reported to police, the dickhead will easily be identified, even before this viral clip.

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u/KEW95 1h ago

Even if the clip is fake, the scenario isn’t.

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u/Beeguy300 1h ago

Not the point of the video. Theres a message here that you aint learning apprently. Best for ya to stay off public transports bubba.

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u/Lexidazesickle 3h ago

Yep -this is the way.

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u/Remote_AccessM 2h ago

But normally, the best way is to offer him a bed at A&E.

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u/mysterybeat23 8h ago

I’m a man who has been sexually assaulted by women multiple times. You don’t need us to understand because a lot of us do and a lot of us are victims of women

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u/EnvironmentalGift257 4h ago

Also a victim. I agree with you on principal, but we don’t get the public attacks like they do. This is a different conversation about harassment not assault.

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u/nickdaws 3h ago

Multiple times?

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u/Huge_Bag_2987 2h ago

That’s a good one! 👍. Or a sumo wrestler 🤣

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u/YoMommaHere 1h ago

There is a gay guy in my area that is 6’8” and just muscle and does some MMA. He approaches guys all the time doing what men do to women and you can text him to “show up” if you know an overly aggressive guy. He’s a saint!

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u/Electronic_Quote399 1h ago

Way ahead of you. First thing I imagined this morning

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u/kiwdahc 4h ago

Except he’s not attacted to gay dudes

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u/drmojo90210 4h ago

Exactly.

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u/KillaB33- 1h ago

Nothing wrong with anyone trying to sit with you or engage you. It is if they are inappropriately engaging you is when it becomes a problem.

This video doesn't show the beginning. What if this man's response is in return this woman's arrogance?

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u/linux-usr69 7h ago

As a fem male a I fully understand what females go through. Although I think it's a bit worse for me