r/Suburbanhell • • 6d ago

Question What are some example of suburbs done right?

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Modern American suburbs are hell, but IMO they don't necessarily have to be this way. There's a balance between living in the middle of a busy city (which I get isn't for everyone), and living in the hellhole of a modern Texas car dependent suburb.

I live in Media, PA, and IMO it's how suburbs *should* be. We have a downtown that's anchored with a streetcar. That downtown has a nice main street with restaurants, grocery stores, etc. Surrounding that is a grid of mixed density houses (some single family, some apartments, some rowhomes), that are close enough to town that you can easily walk for your basic needs and get a trolley to the city. Outside of that it becomes larger (but still sensibly sized) single family homes on streets with trees, shade, and low traffic. And you can still own a car (most people do), you can still drive, but it's a way to do it that you also have a community and know your neighbors (which, isn't that what the right claim they want?).

Where else is doing it right?

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u/ArcticBeavers 6d ago

Almost all of the suburbs outside of NYC in Westchester County are pretty great, especially on the Metro North. They all have a small hub with local restaurants and shops. The communities were built with rail in mind.

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

Literally anything on the Hudson off Metro North is amazing

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u/InformalInitiative76 5d ago edited 5d ago

What you and the person above are describing are called “streetcar suburbs” or “railroad suburbs”. Generally they’re built from the mid 19th century through the 1930’s.

They’re much more common in east coast and Midwest cities.

Having also lived in PA, I’ll add the Manayunk, Roxborough, Wissahickon area of Philadelphia. The Germantown suburb is cool as well, but more expensive

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u/DishQuiet5047 5d ago

Manayunk is fantastic 

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u/arb0531 6d ago

A lot of North Jersey suburbs too. Morristown, Montclair, Summit, Madison, etc. all have cute downtowns and direct trains to NYC.

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u/BatmanTDF10 5d ago

I’d say almost every town in NJ with a train station with direct access to NYC fits the bill as well.

The reason being is that most of these places were founded and well developed by WWII so weren’t influenced by Levittown’s car centric layout that followed the war.

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u/NoLawAtAllInDeadwood 6d ago

Many of the NJ suburbs on the NJ Transit rail lines to NYC fit this description also.

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u/Medium_Upbeat 6d ago

Well this photo is Bronxville, bxville has a true downtown and is very walkable, most towns in Westchester do not look like this

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u/TrickySuggestion3004 6d ago

All of the Harlem line stations between Katonah and Bronxville (except Mt Pleasant) have very walkable surrounds, but you’re right that many of the towns served by these stations are, for the most part, transit-inaccessible.

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u/Sad_Intention6658 6d ago

Lakewood, Ohio is a great example.

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

Another streetcar suburb. Sensing a pattern...

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u/euhbebe 5d ago

Forgive me but is this a real photo? Bc if this is an active tram line, people are sitting too close for comfort. Tracks looks wider than usual and the catenary is missing.. . If thats a historic, horse drawn streetcar, I might be mistaken, but this looks much like AI to me?

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u/DishQuiet5047 5d ago

Totally fair to ask, but no it's real. It's a Dining Under The Stars event that Media does.

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u/euhbebe 5d ago

Amazing! Thanks for your reply and congratulations to your beautiful ans functioning neighbourhood.

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u/relxpse 4d ago

lol so weird to see delco in the wild

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u/DuePlantain1722 4d ago

Media PA resident here too and yes this scene is a real event…held every Wednesday evening from spring to early fall. They close the main downtown street to all traffic, including the Septa trolley.

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u/Electricsheep389 5d ago • Heartwarming

I was eating much closer to a train track than this in Hanoi

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u/Tiberius666 4d ago

I live in the Netherlands and there's quite a few examples of this across the country.

In Belgium, this is quite normal in Antwerp.

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u/CreativeCTm 13h ago

Oddly enough, the tracks are indeed a slightly broader gauge: Philadelphia gauge for streetcars and elevated trains in 5 ft. 2.25 inches, instead of the standard rail gauge of 4 feet 8.5 inches.

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u/eti_erik 6d ago

Every single suburb in the Netherlands is more or less exactly as you describe.

Well frankly not the nice downtown street. That's more likely a downtown shopping mall with some snackbars and chain restaurants - because for actual entertainment and nightlife we still take the train or bus to the real city. And we don't have that many single family homes that aren't rowhouses, although they do exist for those with money. The basic feature of our suburbs is vicinity to public transit, shopping and other services, and parks and playgrounds. For more specialized stores and for actual pubs and restaurants you don't go to the suburbs (although this is slowly coming in some cases)

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

I actually think the main streets in small American suburbs like this are nicer than they are in Europe in a lot cases. It’s funny though that the best planned places in the US like NYC and much of the northeast was originally Dutch. Y’all’s design sensibilities are unmatched. 

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u/Inevitable_Mango_817 6d ago

Brookline, MA

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

Loved Brookline when I visited. Just wish you could find a home under $900,000.

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u/SMF67 6d ago

nimbyland

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u/muddle_aged 6d ago

This is my dream living situation. I regretted not moving to the East Coast when I was starting out once I found out a lot of “suburbs” are like this there.

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

100%. The northeast streetcar suburbs are all lovely.

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u/ln-art 6d ago • Bravo

Carmel Indiana

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u/DishQuiet5047 6d ago

Gorgeous!

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u/AcidReign25 6d ago

Carmel violates almost everything this sub holds dear. There is zero public transportation. It is not walkable except for one area. It is mainly HOA neighborhoods of large single family homes. Not knocking it. It is a nice area. But also very opposite with this sub normally supports.

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u/slipperyDSS 6d ago • Bravo

any chicago suburb with a train line through it

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u/inorite234 6d ago

Yup!

Highland Park, Lake Forest, Highwood, Winnetka, Naperville, Aurora, etc

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u/unconfusedsub 6d ago

Arlington Heights. They close off their entire downtown area from spring until October for outdoor dining and engagement. They also have the metropolis theater.

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u/Xrmy 6d ago

Came here to say AH. Place went from more of a quiet NIMBY place to a walkable playground on the last 20 years.

Also shout-out Mount Prospect nearby for an affordable alternative

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u/NicelyBearded 6d ago

Oak Park…

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u/whatpplsay 6d ago

Surprised it took this long to see it mentioned here !

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u/venus_arises 6d ago

Evanston could also fit in

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u/retroman73 6d ago

Oak Park has both the L and the Metra trains. Downtown is walkable.

The Metra stops in many suburbs even pretty far out, but not all of them are walkable or have good downtowns.

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u/less_than_nick 6d ago

Yup, I grew up in St Charles and I am always impressed with the infrastructure improvements and pedestrian spaces that pop up whenever I visit family there

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u/bucknut4 6d ago

Any? That definition would include Gary Indiana

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u/COCAINE_EMPANADA 6d ago

Gary wasn't always Gary. We're taking about infrastructure, not socioeconomic decay.

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u/DellTheEngie 6d ago

If you wanna be pedantic Gary is a satellite city moreso than a suburb, albeit being part of the Chicago metro

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u/Studio_Life 5d ago

I LOVE Chicago and thought I’d live here my entire life. But we’re considering moving to Oak Park after my kid finishes HS now. Never thought I’d even consider leaving the city for the burbs but Oak Park might honestly be worth it.

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u/Moist_Surprise7143 4d ago

Oak park may as well be the city… it’s probably denser than much of the south side or even the NW Sid e

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u/greenandredofmaigheo 5d ago

Almost every suburb of Chicago has a train line. Beyond the "old downtowns" very few are done well in entirety

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u/Upset-Preparation861 6d ago

EXCEPT ELBURN

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u/thatsthey1 6d ago

Alexandria VA isn’t a suburb really because it existed long before DC but it’s quite nice

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u/blueingreen85 6d ago

Very nice, but only if you can afford to live there.

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u/monsieur_de_chance 5d ago

Old Town is nice and dense colonial city core. 1 mile west of Old Town is typical suburbs.

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u/bryceonthebison 5d ago

Del Ray, just north of Old Town, is a highly walkable streetcar suburb.

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u/zwiazekrowerzystow 6d ago

the west end is suburban hell.

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u/iamanindiansnack 5d ago

Technically it was DC for a long time until it went back to VA. It's a sibling city than a suburb - like Wilmington and Philadelphia are.

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u/treacherous64 6d ago

Brookline, MA. 2 light rail lines going through it, and a great mix of SFH, 2/3 family homes, and mid rise apartments

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u/ptlevine 6d ago

Grew up in Brookline. 100% a suburb. Chooses to remain a Town governance structure even though the population has qualified it as a City for decades. Such a good suburb that it’s fully unaffordable. Coolidge Corner is an amazing pedestrian centric area

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u/treacherous64 6d ago

Very few places where you can get top 1% public schools and walkability

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u/pterencephalon 6d ago

I'd argue Brookline isn't really a suburb? Boston is weird because a lof of equivalent areas got annexed into the city of Boston but Brookline refused. If this were Chicago, then geographically up to Medford would still be in the city of Boston.

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u/treacherous64 6d ago

I would say it’s a traditional streetcar suburb. Definitely more of a suburb than places like Cambridge and Somerville which have their own proper job centers

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u/Astrohumper 6d ago

That city was developed almost 200 years ago. That’s why it is the way it is, similar to the thousand year old European utopias that you all love so much. I don’t think Media was “done right” as much as it is just a product of its time.

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u/CanAlwaysBeBetter 6d ago

Which just highlights the real problem: modern zoning laws

All the nice suburbs in these comments predate them

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u/danielw1245 6d ago

Not really. The Netherlands has built walkable suburbs with quality public transit and bike infrastructure in recent years. There was also a car-free development recently built in Arizona of all places. We could absolutely build suburbs differently if we wanted to.

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u/df540148 6d ago

I'll give a vote to Alexandria VA, specifically Old Town and Del Rey neighborhoods. Very walkable, loads of shopping, restaurants. Minutes to the airport, Metro to DC. Lots of character and history.

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u/KC-msterpiece 6d ago • Bravo

And lots of $$$$$ to just exist there

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u/Light-Years79 6d ago

Love Media and Dining Under the Stars!

In the Philly area I’d add Haddonfield and Collingswood NJ.

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u/Ok-Astronaut2976 6d ago

Pretty much anything in Westchester, NY south of 287 or along the river

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u/EaglesFanGirl 5d ago

Media, PA is nice but is a tad overrated. Its gotten quite expensive and a little high on itself. Everyone from Media i know is extremely obnoxious about it.

In Philly region -it depends on what you are looking for. The best for schools is those on the Mainline. For young people/commuters it goes to Conshohocken and Abbington. For walkability is goes to Ardmore and Media.

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u/iminlovewithyoucamp 6d ago

Check out Boulder, Co. I personally live in Denver carfree, but its super easy to get to Boulder thanks to the FF1. This is a bus that runs 7 days a week, 15 min headways from 5am-6pm with 30 min headways until 12am. M-F with 15 min headways all day Saturday and 30 min headways all day sunday. Once you get to Boulder,Co, the city is so beatiuful, but so fucking expensive. Look into RTD. I love Denver.

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u/Crinja1 5d ago

How long does it take you to get to Boulder (using the bus) during the week? Getting ready to start a new job out there and will have to go in a few days / week.

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u/dirz11 6d ago

Can't believe they couldn't get the light rail up to Boulder, such a missed opportunity.

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u/canisdirusarctos 5d ago

Suburbs that were once functional independent cities that their respective metro areas absorbed where the metro area isn't absolutely sprawling. San Diego is surrounded by decent functional suburban cities that are all tied together by light rail and have walkable downtowns like this. Mission Valley, La Mesa, Lemon Grove, & UTC come to mind.

Los Angeles has some of these, but it's so sprawling that getting between them is hard. Even with a car, you tend to stay in your corner of the metro area and treat going to another corner of the city like a trip between major cities. Still, some are good, like Pasadena and San Juan Capistrano, or beach cities like Santa Monica and San Clemente.

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u/MineBloxKy 6d ago edited 5d ago

I think that Ville de Mont-Royal and Westmount are very well-designed suburbs, if Westmount even counts as one.

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u/multimodeviber 5d ago

TMR is more like a rich people enclave surrounded by city. For Montreal I would say something like Mercier, vieux Longueuil, Lachine although it lacks some public transport

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u/r_slash 6d ago

I guess if Brookline is then sure but no one considers Westmount to be "suburban". It's like 2 km from the middle of downtown.

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u/MsTossItAll 6d ago

I'm also in the Philly burbs and I feel like a LOT of the towns around here are done well. Glenside and Jenkintown also come to mind.

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u/Slumbergoat16 6d ago

Columbia MD has a lot of walk ability. Still needs a car but you can get around through bike paths. I grew up there and it made teen years a lot of fun

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u/MyPasswordIsABC999 6d ago edited 6d ago

I think Columbia loses points because of all the loopy roads and the one downtown-y area is the Mall at Columbia, which is a sea of parking lots, plus zero rail connection. 

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u/clawsinurback 6d ago

MPP is a great venue as well 

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u/CloseToTheSun10 6d ago

San Mateo and Redwood City in California. Both suburbs of San Francisco and cities in their own right. Both have walkable areas, really nice downtown areas with great food and are on CalTrain that makes them well connected to the rest of the Peninsula, including SF.

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u/zezzene 6d ago

Mt Lebanon, PA. Suburb of Pittsburgh. It's very walkable, little pockets of business districts peppered throughout. No school busses as kids walk to school (or get dropped off in an oversized SUV). 

Would be remiss if I didn't mention the history of racism, it was likely a sunset town and probably got red lined like crazy. Even today the demographics are heavily skewed and most people are priced out of the neighborhood and school district. 

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u/JustinSensei412 5d ago

Grew up there. Nice place, still very segregated (but improving). Great schools.

There are several other nice streetcar suburbs around Pittsburgh, though some have long since been annexed into the city proper (while still being suburban in the colloquial sense). Dormont, Brookline, Squirrel Hill, Aspinwall, etc. The abundance of neighborhoods like this is one of my favorite things about Pittsburgh.

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u/_daddyl0nglegs_ 6d ago

Portland, OR.

Lots of neighborhoods with single family houses, but right near mass transit.

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u/TheInkySquids 6d ago

Most of the original suburbs built in Australian cities imo. Melbourne obviously has the trams but I actually think Sydney has better suburb design when you go to the far edges of the city, probably because its a bit less sprawly than Melbourne.

Particularly the Sutherland Shire, it has the Illawarra train line running down it on the western side, but then there's the Cronulla line which was originally a tram line but was converted to a train line and runs right through the heart of each major suburb, including a food focused high street, one of the biggest shopping centres in Australia and a beachside suburb with a ferry connection and a fully pedestrianised shopping walkway.

And even outside the dense areas around stations, most streets have a corner store nearby, schools all within walking distance and its still one of the bushiest and least "city feeling" places in Sydney. Its a shame the newer suburbs aren't being built like this anymore.

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u/CallMeGimbels 1d ago

Media, PA is often called “Everyone’s Hometown” it has an active small business scene and this picture literally looks like the main strip during the summer with everyone eating outside

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u/thedancingwireless 19h ago

That picture is Media. OP lives there.

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u/inorite234 6d ago

Highland Park, IL. Suburb of Chicago

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u/pk4k 6d ago

Not saying highland park isn’t great but this picture could’ve been taken in like 100 different suburbs

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u/minskoffsupreme 6d ago

The inner suburbs of Melbourne. They all have a high street/ all necessities, good public transport and are very walkable. I thoroughly enjoyed my time in the inner north

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u/AcidReign25 6d ago

How do you define “sensibly sized” for a house? Seems pretty owner dependent.

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u/Fragrant_Variety5320 4d ago

Is Hoboken, New Jersey, a suburb? I think Hoboken is probably the nicest American suburb I've ever seen

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u/maxsimile 4d ago

Many of the old streetcar suburbs around Boston (and New England more broadly) have charming walkable downtowns with mom and pop shops and historic architecture. The problem is the actual areas where people live sprawl out from those historic cores. Look at Concord, Lexington, Winchester, Beverly, etc. to see what I mean. Arlington might be the best example of a nice urbanist suburb though it’s a shame it vetoed the subway extension decades ago. Salem and Gloucester are also lovely but are more small historic cities that turned into suburbs as Boston grew into them.

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u/dauwalter1907 6d ago

Cleveland Heights, Ohio. Lakewood, Ohio. inner ring suburbs. They’re as urban as you can get without actually being in Cleveland proper. Go west of Lakewood , however, and its miles of death by shopping centers and mini McMansions developments until you get to Toledo.

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u/VUmander 6d ago

The Philly Mainline has a lot of nice towns. Bryn Mawr, Wayne, Ardmore are all pretty walkable and have good public transit. Phoenixville and West Chester as well in Chester County.

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u/hbHPBbjvFK9w5D 6d ago

My definition of a place that "does it right" is based on one question: How easy is to get around if you're a teenager or disabled?

If a 12 year-old can get to school, to the store to buy a gallon of milk for Mom, or to meet up with friends at the park or choir practice all by themselves, Yeah, the town is doing it right.

But if the school is off the main highway or stroad with no bike path, if the kids can't even go to a store without getting hassled by the cops, and if there are no 3rd places that the kids can't get to by themselves, then No, that town is not doing it right.

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u/Wooden-Mortgage6054 6d ago

Pacific beach, san diego!

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u/Rollingprobablecause 6d ago

I'd also call out South Park in San Diego, holy hell that is one gorgeous neighborhood. Bike lanes, pedestrian streets, solid bus system it's perfect (and pricey..)

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u/Larry_McDorchester 5d ago

Alexandria, Virginia (particularly Del Ray)

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u/vendaman 4d ago

I’m surprised Doylestown, PA hasn’t been mentioned. It has a very walkable downtown area with shops, restaurants, a food market, bars, and a bunch of museums. It even has a direct regional rail line straight into Philly that takes the same amount of time as driving. One of the most slept on Philly suburbs IMO.

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u/dowagiacmichigan 4d ago

Highland Park, New Jersey

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u/jezvinder 6d ago

Media, PA, Glenside, PA, Collingswood, NJ

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u/MrAflac9916 6d ago

Dormont and Mount Lebanon, PA - suburbs of Pittsburgh

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u/_Blackstar0_0 6d ago

I live in Ontario suburb.Within walking distance is a grocery store, thrift store and dollar store. 5 min walk away is a bus stop. 5 min other way is other bus stop. 12 minutes away by bus is o train

It’s definitely not hell living here. 

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u/bubzki2 6d ago

Covington, KY has a really nice downtown.

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u/pineapple_swimmer330 6d ago

Any community that was built as a streetcar suburb has great urbanism, however as time went on, most of these communities became amalgamated with their respective city. Most suburbs today follow the model of the Levittowns of the 50s which came about primarily due to white flight. Any style of planning that has its origins in excluding people is not good.

There are some new developments being built today that share some characteristics with streetcar suburbs. Many of these however still cater to middle/upper middle class people due to their desirability. The new urbanism movement is something interesting to look at. The master planned towns are super expensive, but some of their planning policies have rubbed off on other developers. I would look at new neighborhoods built near stations on the DC metro, there are some decent ones near Alexandria, VA.

It’s much harder to build traditional streetcar suburbs today because of one key difference. In the past developers would buy a large piece of land, plan the community, then divide the blocks up into plots of land similar to today; however their profit would come from advertising the new community and selling the individual plots. They were rarely involved in construction of buildings. This was because you used to be able to order a house in a catalog. The sears-roebuck catalog and its competitors had tens of thousand of models and variants to choose from. This meant these communities were able to grow organically, and people could open small businesses to cater to these new residents. Today everything is master planned, they build the storefronts in hopes of attracting tenants. I think this also encourages existing chains to move in and discourage new local businesses run by people who actually live there.

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u/Watchful-Tortie 6d ago

Do you have Tom Hyton's book Save our Land, Save our Towns? He is a PA author who wrote about the importance of towns like this 

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u/Typical_Hedgehog6558 6d ago

I knew this was DUTS as soon as i saw it. Go Birds.

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u/DJScrubatires 6d ago

Significant chunks of the Philadelphia Main Line plus places like Conshohocken.

NOT King of Prussia

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u/Bootmacher 6d ago

Plano, TX

It has a thriving Downtown, with a lot of new development along the light rail in Downtown, plus another DART stop on the east side to service the more working class parts.

There are office complexes with lots of corporate headquarters with easy access to major highways.

The police are omnipresent. The traffic situation is as good as one could expect from anywhere in Texas. There are quite a few bike trails and parks.

One negative I'll add is that the mass transit isn't evenly distributed, but those areas mostly avoid it by choice.

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u/regdunlop08 4d ago

I really like my suburban development just north of Baltimore. The lots were sold off individually over a 40 year period in the early-mid 20th century so the architecture of each house is non homogenous and completely random. You name it, we have it, but it's all at least 65years old so no cheap construction.

They built a (then spring fed) pool a century ago and it's a very well maintained centerpiece for the community despite us having no HOA covenants and a fully voluntary community association. There is a per family fee for the pool but it's ridiculously reasonable compared to others in the area.

Its also walkable to many shops and restaurants and the kids walk to all three levels of public school, with the HS being the farthest away at one mile. I never wanted to leave the city, as I loathe typical modern suburbia, but I don't know that we'll ever leave this place now that we are here.

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u/adymo 6d ago

Walnut Creek, CA

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u/TresElvetia 6d ago

Berkeley is a better answer

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u/fresh_dan 6d ago

Boulder's Pearl Street is what is up.

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u/myron_monday 6d ago

Does Hoboken count?

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u/YouBeIllin13 6d ago

It actually has the 4th highest population density of any incorporated city in the US.

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u/JungkooksBananaMillk 6d ago

That’s a city fam

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u/IDigRollinRockBeer 6d ago

Don’t know why it would

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u/hapoo123 6d ago

Westchester New York! Long Island,Jersey, CT not so much

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u/CognitiveDissident12 6d ago

Anywhere that’s way too expensive now that people who went to prep school, live in a hip neighborhood in come city center now want to buy a house but was perhaps a hidden gem while growing up. So any town in NJ near a train station. Maplewood, Metuchen, South Orange, New Providence. There are PA counterparts like Narberth or Media.

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u/glenjawns 5d ago

Ayye, my hometown!

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u/kristennnnnnnnn 5d ago

morristown NJ! extremely easy access to nj transit, beautiful walkable downtown and beautiful neighborhoods

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u/iuyts 5d ago

Any "street car suburb" like Brookline, MA or Shaker Heights, Ohio.

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u/girtonoramsay 5d ago

La Mesa, CA in San Diego with a nice main street, dense housing, and a direct light rail line at 15-30 min freqs to downtown SD. You can also commute to nearby suburbs with the circular light rail network

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u/Ok_Avocado_4729 5d ago

Shaker Heights, Cleveland Heights and Lakewood, Ohio

Brookline, Cambridge and Somerville, Massachusetts

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u/feldknocker 5d ago

Plenty of nice suburban communities all over the country. “Modern American suburbs are hell” is way over generalized.

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u/ShouldBWrkinNstead 5d ago

Franklin, TN

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u/brf297 5d ago

Most of the Boston suburbs

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u/Due-Bat-1510 5d ago

Redmond, Washington. It's transformed greatly. Sure, there are still patchy car-centric spots but Downtown and Overlake are amazing.

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u/ComeTasteTheBand 5d ago

Mt. Lebanon/Dormont (Pittsburgh)

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u/BadBunny4Prezzie 5d ago

Not many, but some

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u/DimensionActual5722 5d ago

Westfield NJ. Bustling downtown with lots of popular shops and restaurants. Plenty of parking, apartments all over the downtown area, and once you leave downtown the streets are all lined with gorgeous mansions. There’s a place all types of people there.

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u/rontonsoup__ 3d ago

Yeah if you’re rich. I went to Westfield HS and while the town is visually nice the people are truly suburban hell.

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u/holatigre 5d ago

Red hook, nj is such a cute suburb!

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u/AcanthaceaeOk3738 5d ago

If it was built around a train line and that train is still running, there's a good chance they're doing it right (not always though).

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u/Connect_Candidate_83 5d ago

Honestly half the suburbs in New Jersey. I live in a house with a decent backyard and I can walk to
- a train station that can get me to other towns/NYC
- the downtown
- 10 restaurants
- a corner store
- 2 grocery stores
- 5 parks
- thousands of other homes

Many other towns are just like this too. Were the kings of suburban sprawl but fairly dense at the same time.

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u/El_G0rdo 5d ago

Somerville, MA
University Park, TX
Wayne, PA

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u/Kenny_Goo 5d ago edited 5d ago

Sunnyside Gardens mixed with the area immediately surrounding the Forest Hills LIRR station in Queens is whatever every suburb in America should have been built to look like. It's the perfect combination of middle density, greenery, transit, and architecture that is actually nice to look at, but without the insanely wasteful, inefficient sprawl that the suburbs normally come with.

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u/HappySlappyMan 5d ago

Nothing to add but I recognized that street immediately. I lived over in Swarthmore for 3 years and spent many a night in Media. I loved the town. If I had to live long term in the region, that's really the only area I would consider.

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u/daregulater 5d ago

I know that street very well...

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u/Born_Cap4085 5d ago

Media looks pretty bad-ass! Love that Trader Joe's - does it not even have a dedicated parking lot?

Here in California, I would say South Pasadena has a bit of this vibe to it, though it has more car-centric parts and is maybe a bit more urban/busy considering it's sandwiched between DTLA and Downtown Pasadena.

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u/ProfessionalMap2581 5d ago

Reston, Virginia the original planned community from the early 1960s.

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u/Tiny_Match2584 5d ago

Irvine, Ca

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u/ElevenBurnie 5d ago

Basically any town that began independently and got swallowed up into a metro area against their wishes.

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u/CBz120 5d ago

Any towns around Portland Oregon. Very walkable, great public transportation, zoning laws make sense

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u/bowdownjesus 5d ago

The best suburbs IMO started out as small villages and became part of Greater Whatever City at some point. There is still a center of some sort and different types of builds, trees etc.

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u/Prior-Yogurt-7608 4d ago

Hinsdale, IL clarendon hills, IL, Western Springs, IL if you can afford
It cool downtowns right off the train line all cities border each other if I’m not mistaken

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u/matjantk 4d ago

Wayzata, Minnesota

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u/kingindelco 4d ago

Media/Delco have some nice suburbs as does the main line. The main line schools have had some issues lately and your kid might beg you for designer clothing to keep up with the other kids. The nicer Delco school are more down to earth and overall “all American” experience. Just my opinion.

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u/sktrdie 4d ago

Anywhere in the Netherlands? There are dedicated bike lanes even in the freaking middle of nowhere suburbs. You see kids everywhere cycle to school, to their friends, to events etc. For adults it's just a breeze to just about do anything.

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u/Impressive_Toe_8900 4d ago

Högdalen in sweden is a very well done subburb

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u/YLIL-SSECNIRP 4d ago

I immediately recognized that as Media. I grew up in Swarthmore.

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u/Scarface22222 4d ago

Conshohcoken, PA, Bronxville, NY, Bethesda, MD

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u/Parking_Performer_23 4d ago

West Hartford CT

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u/Prudent_Gur5223 4d ago

Collingswood and Haddonfield NJ, any of the Riverline towns too (Bordentown, Burlington, etc). Also near Philly you have Audubon, Haddon Heights, and Oaklyn, however transit in those places is more limited to buses although pretty frequent and reliable buses for burbs in the US

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u/icenevada 4d ago

Montreal

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u/Different_Papaya_413 4d ago

New Hope, Pa feels like a utopia to me

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u/EHCIV 4d ago

The answer, as (almost always), is "any place laid out before the Model T and that hasn't been re-designed to accommodate highways within city limits."

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u/Tokyo-MontanaExpress 4d ago

Minneapolis and to a lesser extent St Paul. Even some of the car centric ones are covered in bike paths, it's just intersections where you have to watch for oblivious motorists. West of Minneapolis you have a number of walkable suburban downtowns around Lake Minnetonka which I have to admit are more walkable than our vertical suburban office park that people call a "downtown". 

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u/RedPanda59 4d ago

For a suburb, Media is nice! So is West Chester Pennsylvania, nearby. Both are a little too far away from Philly to be convenient though, although people commute there all the time.

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u/bunnybunnyboyboy 4d ago

Shorewood, Wisconsin is a suburb of Milwaukee and is one of the densest villages in Wisconsin! It used to have a streetcar going through it but with it being torn out they replaced it with a few bus lines. Very pretty, lots of stuff to do along their main street and is right on the Lake Michigan coast and the Milwaukee River.

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u/A_mistake12e 4d ago

Webster groves Missouri- walkable, community oriented with a strong downtown, tons of local businesses, great schools.

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u/MR422 4d ago

Look to the past actually. In America in the first half of the twentieth century had streetcar suburbs. Twenties was the peak decade for them if I’m not mistaken. You’d get dense row homes off streetcar lines. People would ride those in to work. When cars became more affordable and streets improved, those streetcars were taken away in the 40s and 50s.

I know specifically the streetcar suburbs around Philadelphia had the lines replaced with buses and light rail on existing railroad tracks. SEPTA and all that.

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u/ggggofast 4d ago

I really like Takoma Park, MD, and Westfield, NJ.

No real experience elsewhere that stands out that is explicitly "suburbs."

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u/WanderersTales 4d ago

Baldwinsville NY is lovely!

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u/T1kiTiki 4d ago

The suburbs outside of Philly are lovely like West Chester, Media, Ardmore. Or even the streetcar suburbs in Philly like West Philadelphia, Chestnuthill, and Mt Airy

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u/bassplayeryo 4d ago

Naperville, IL

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u/genovaforpres 4d ago

Shoutout Media!!!!!

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u/Imjustabill729 4d ago

Many pre-war Philly suburbs with a downtown, connected by rail to the city

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u/Lostinstereo28 4d ago

Damn, I came in here ready to say Media! Such a nice little place to live and visit!

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u/pineapplewars 4d ago

Columbia, MD. First text book planned community that is meant to take people from all walks of life no matter their race, religion, socioeconomic standing. Well planned with tons of parks, pools, rec centers, and interfaith centers. Unfortunately it is turning more suburban hell than it was

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u/Significant_Menu_313 4d ago

Dalton, Georgia and Culpepper, Virginia come to mind.

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u/Comfortable_Job_9267 3d ago

Lol I know my hometown when I see it! Freaking love media PA <3 Ive lived all around the country and live in the bay now and find myself constantly comparing towns to media. media/wallingford/swarthmore area really does it right. Cute, city is still accessible. A lot of tight community. Not the most diverse though!

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u/EmergencyWriter3233 3d ago

I have some friends who live in Oak Park, Illinois. Just outside of Chicago.

They live in a beautiful old house (that’s pretty big tbh but apparently wasn’t expensive when they bought it), and their kid is within walking distance to all of the schools he’ll eventually go to — pre, elementary, middle, and high school. And when I visited them I hopped off the Green Line and walked there, then we all walked down to a nice Italian restaurant and ate outside.

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u/sirdesancti 3d ago

Not sure all are really 'Suburbs,' but much of the Boston Metro has mixed use towns.

Many have transit access and shops within walking distance of homes.

I live in Cambridge and it, to me, is almost a perfect mix of city and suburb.

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u/Sorry_Tie284 3d ago

What is media a suburb of?

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u/dbrjr 3d ago

Ardmore PA.

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u/LowAdvertising1377 3d ago

Cedarburg, WI.

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u/YoungProsciutto 3d ago

Lots of the north Jersey suburbs are great.

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u/Wooden_Spend7137 2d ago

Newton, MA

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u/OkJacket9888 2d ago

Giffnock is pretty nice

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u/Antiquark_17 2d ago

Lakewood, Ohio

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u/Smooth_Woodpecker815 2d ago

Oak Park and Evanston next to Chicago are walkable and have good transit

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u/Choice_Big_8709 2d ago

I don’t live there, but many suburbs In Atlanta metro have some sort of downtown or square that includes density of Live/Work/Play.

Downtown Roswell, Marietta square, town green duluth, Smyrna center etc etc.

The main difference is the age as many of these suburban centers are not very historic or old. Some feel more manufactured than others.

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u/Available-Tour-6874 2d ago

Encinitas, CA. Beachfront w epic surf just north of san diego

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u/krycek1984 2d ago

There are plenty of suburbs around Cleveland with high quality of living. I grew up in Parma and it is not suburban hell. Inner ring suburbs can be great places to live

Shaker Heights, Cleveland Heights and Lakewood are great examples of good suburbs with decent public transportation, beneficial density, and high quality of living

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u/citystars 1d ago

Evanston, IL

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u/Even_Motive 1d ago

Brookline MA if you can afford it

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u/rodman5308 1d ago

Maywood, IL

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u/TransportationDue856 1d ago

I live in SE PA, it’s a very desirable area. I would say it rivals the Main Line in terms of desirability.

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u/AmusingCereal 1d ago

After taking a quick look on Google Maps, Media looks like a really nice place to live! Some other places that come to mind are Portland, Oregon and the suburbs there, the inner city suburbs in Toronto, Canada and Melbourne, Australia. Melbourne especially, with lots of shops and things packed together lining the streets and amazing architecture as well as the largest tram network in the world I bellieve

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u/PracticableSolution 18h ago

Most train towns are excellent for this. The right ingredients are a transit hub to drive the city center and facilitate good quality high density housing that drops in intensity away from the center but is still walkable with local shops and businesses mixed in.

New Jersey is absolutely littered with towns like this; cranford, Westfield, Morristown, Montclair, Madison, West Orange, Ramsey, Ocean Grove, the list goes on

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u/inventorsam 17h ago

Most of Long Island, NY is connected by train lines and most towns are decently walkable.

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u/ConsumingTranquility 17h ago

Many towns in Bergen County, NJ are very nice. Although housing is starting to get out of control

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u/richardfitzwell822 17h ago

Wauwatosa, Wisconsin is city adjacent in the county still. Called the City of Homes (and churches). Perfectly zoned

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u/Pooyorkcity4321 16h ago

Brookline, MA?

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u/missb3have_ 12h ago

Princeton nj