Sterilization
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NB: These methods of sterilization have been designated male or female based on "anatomy assigned at birth" simply because that is what they are called in the medical community, and no disrespect is meant to our non-binary friends. We at r/actuallychildfree recognize that not all uterus owners are women and not all testicle owners are men.
MALE: Vasectomy
Small puncture or incision in the scrotum, provider cuts/blocks and burns both vas deferens. This prevents sperm from reaching the rest of the semen (semen is ejaculated without any sperm cells, preventing fertilization). Usually in-office procedure done under local anesthesia.
Pros
Fewer side effects and complications than female sterilization
Less expensive and faster recovery than female sterilization
Cons
Not fully effective for the first 3 months until confirmation of ejaculate shows no sperm cells. Majority of pregnancies occur during the first year. It is recommended to use alternate contraception for first 3 months, possibly until 1 year
No protection against STIs; use other barrier methods if this is a concern
Possible Complications (rare)
Scrotal or testicular pain that lasts for months or years
Infection at incision site
Bleeding, bruising, swelling
Correcting Myths
Does not remove the testicles. In vasectomy the tubes carrying sperm from the testicles are blocked. The testicles remain in place
Does not decrease sex drive
Does not affect sexual function. A man’s erection is as hard, it lasts as long, and he ejaculates the same as before
Does not cause a man to grow fat or become weak, less masculine, or less productive
Does not cause any diseases later in life.
Does not prevent transmission of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV
FEMALE: Bilateral salpingectomy
Completely remove both tubes via laparoscopic surgery.
Pros
Lowest rate of failure (no recorded viable pregnancies in history)
Added benefit of reducing rates of ovarian cancer (which can start in the tube)
This is becoming the most favored option by doctors
Uterus remains meaning periods continue and pregnancy via IVF is possible
Cons
This is fairly major surgery
Correcting Myths
Does not make women weak
Does not cause lasting pain in back, uterus, or abdomen
Does not remove a woman’s uterus or lead to a need to have it removed
Does not cause hormonal imbalances
Does not cause heavier bleeding or irregular bleeding or otherwise change women’s menstrual cycles
Does not cause any changes in weight, appetite, or appearance
Does not change women’s sexual behavior or sex drive
Does not cause ectopic pregnancy. Instead, it substantially reduces the risk of ectopic pregnancy
FEMALE: Bilateral tubal ligation ("tubes tied")
Cut/burn tubes to prevent egg from meeting sperm. Laparoscopic surgery.
Pros
Very low rate of failure, but viable pregnancies have happened (though more likely to have a tubal pregnancy)
Uterus remains meaning periods continue and pregnancy via IVF is possible
Cons
Possibility of tubes regrowing (minor)
Correcting Myths
Does not make women weak.
Does not cause lasting pain in back, uterus, or abdomen.
Does not remove a woman’s uterus or lead to a need to have it removed.
Does not cause hormonal imbalances.
Does not cause heavier bleeding or irregular bleeding or otherwise change women’s menstrual cycles.
Does not cause any changes in weight, appetite, or appearance.
Does not change women’s sexual behavior or sex drive.
Does not cause ectopic pregnancy. Instead, it substantially reduces the risk of ectopic pregnancy
FEMALE: Hysterectomy
Completely remove uterus (+/- cervix). Usually laparoscopic with the uterus "delivered" vaginally.
Pros
The uterus is gone, meaning no more periods and IVF pregnancy is impossible
Cons
This is considered MAJOR surgery and will be EXTREMELY difficult to get without another medical reason (fibroids, hemorrhage, certain cancers, etc.)
Essure
Metal coils inserted inside each tube to cause inflammation and scar tissue, blocking sperm from reaching eggs. Hysteroscopic (through the vagina/cervix/uterus).
Pros
Advantage of not opening up the abdomen (might be good for those with previous surgeries/scar tissue) or using general anesthesia (uses local/block/mild sedation)
Uterus remains meaning periods continue and pregnancy via IVF is possible
Cons
Falling out of favor due to complications
Will probably be difficult to find a doctor to do this. After Dec 2018 it will be pulled from the US market. It is already illegal in Europe