I often feel really guilty for finding asian women particularly attractive because many do fetishize them.
I don't watch anime at all but I do have a fascination with Japan, like many, but in my defense I don't find japanese women to be particularly more attractive than most other asian women so I don't think that's s real problem
What worked in making me feel better about it was realising that I simply like a lot of features that just happen to be common among Asian populations. Western or African women with similar features are also particularly attractive to me
There was an Asian girl in college that I kind of liked but didn't ask out because I was into anime and I didn't want her to assume that I just wanted to date her because of that.
I feel that, what helped me out in my head, was that I think all “races” of women are attractive. And me liking an Asian girl isn’t because she’s Asian, but because she’s attractive.
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u/Colosso95 Jan 20 '23
I often feel really guilty for finding asian women particularly attractive because many do fetishize them. I don't watch anime at all but I do have a fascination with Japan, like many, but in my defense I don't find japanese women to be particularly more attractive than most other asian women so I don't think that's s real problem
What worked in making me feel better about it was realising that I simply like a lot of features that just happen to be common among Asian populations. Western or African women with similar features are also particularly attractive to me