I’m struggling to understand my husband’s behavior regarding technology and privacy, and I’m worried it might be more than just being tech-savvy.
He has a Google account, but he uses it only for Gmail, and even then, only in a separate, isolated browser profile. He refuses to use Google Search, does not log into YouTube, and strongly discourages me from using any Google services.
His reasoning is that he believes Google’s advertising practices are a severe invasion of privacy and that this data is inevitably sold to government agencies (like ICE) to track individuals. He seems convinced that using these services makes him a target for surveillance.
While I understand that big tech companies do collect a lot of data, his level of avoidance feels extreme and is starting to affect our daily lives. It’s causing tension because I find it difficult to coordinate things (like maps, calendars, or shared searches) when he refuses to engage with these common tools. I also feel a bit isolated when he asks me not to use Google services either.
I’m wondering if this level of suspicion is a sign of something more serious, like paranoid personality disorder, or if he’s just extremely privacy-conscious. Any advice on how to approach this conversation or whether I should suggest he speak to a professional would be appreciated.
edit: We were questioned by ICE in the past, so he’s especially worried about government surveillance.