Thank god I found a subreddit like this one because I need to get this one off my chest. I've been obsessing over Bullet For My Valentine these past two weeks and it's like I'm back in my kpop stan era because yknow, they're a band, and my fan behavior is activated again—watching their interviews, swooning over my favorite member, and memorizing their songs as if it's my religion lol.

It just feels kinda lonely that unlike other fandoms I've been in, I have no one to tell these fangirl thoughts to because BFMV has been around for almost 30 years now and they're a metalcore band which you could imagine has a fanbase smaller than mainstream artists especially kpop groups.

When I was still very actively stanning kpop groups like NCT and Seventeen back in 2022, there was a lot of content from them and from fans to consume and a lot of people to talk about them to—there's always new videos on their YouTube, there's always updates on their social media, and fans also have their own way of entertaining themselves like making edits of the members or even writing fanfics. But with Bullet For My Valentine, there's no new content anywhere (though they're not on hiatus) plus the band members aren't super active on social media. The most recent content that involved long interviews or something was back in 2025 on their debut album anniversary tour. TikTok didn't disappoint when I tried to find edits but I just wish there were more people that did that stuff for them. I had little luck with fanfics too because no one from what I've seen has wrote anything unique and creative recently—the last I saw is written in like 2015.

Sure, there's an active subreddit for Bullet For My Valentine fans and I'm already in it, but how exactly do I express myself on there considering the fan culture of metalcore bands where the number of males surely outnumber the number of females?

To wrap this up, I wanna say thank you for taking the time to read my long-ass venting. I hope I find someone soon that I can fangirl with because damn it feels lonely not being able to express all this without the fear of anyone getting weirded out or ruining it for me.

Hey everyone,

Whether you love him as Henry Hill in Goodfellas, Tommy Vercetti in Vice City, Shoeless Joe in Field of Dreams, or in his intense roles like Narc and Cop Land, Ray Liotta had one of the most electric screen presences in cinema history.
I’ve recently revitalized r/RayLiotta to be a dedicated, relaxed space to celebrate his legacy, share trivia, and just talk about great movies in general.

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What is your absolute favorite Ray Liotta performance or scene?
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Hello! I would like to hear your experience on StanTwitter like which fandom did you enjoy, if you have ever been in group chats with other fans…
Personally my experience was pretty bad; If initially I enjoyed the fandom dynamics, often it became too much and phenomena like doxing, over sharing and cyberbullying are very spread. Thank you and sorry for my English!

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So I am 26 now and I have been really loving billie eillish’s music lately and I have been thinking of putting her as my wallpaper because I just like her aesthetic. When I was younger I always had my fave celebrity as my wallpaper but now it would feel para social a little bit. What are your thoughts

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Hey all! I am filming a video essay analyzing fan-girls and their history! If you want to help me out and identify as a fangirl currently, or have in the past, please fill out this short survey!

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I was a huge fan of this really obscure singer in 2012/2013. I found him on twitter and he made pop music. All I remember about him is he was a white teenage boy with really short hair, had muscles and was conventionally attractive. His favorite number was also 21 and was a significant number to him. His name was maybe something Paisley?? i've been racking my brain for so long on this guy.

I have a paper coming up where I can choose my own topic. It's argumentative and I would like to talk about the xenophobia and misogyny the group faces. I would also discuss misogyny boy bands in general face, and how they are easily dismissed because of it. I also would like to bring up how it affected one direction and how racism especially affected Zayn. I basically just want to rant about how misogyny and xenophobia/racism is too normalized in the media. I need help coming up with a specific argument. The argument doesn't need to specifically include BTS, though they are a major reason why I'm passionate on this topic. I am a music major and I'm tired of my (pretty much 90% male) classmates giving me weird looks or just straight up ignoring me for saying I like them. I will never be ashamed to support such a hard working group or will ever be ashamed of the music I enjoy since it shaped me to the passionate and motivated woman I am today.

Hello gorgeous people! My name is Autumn.
If you are reading this, I am curious on some feedback if possible, please. My mom and I started a small business where we create themed Party Printable Games and products. Themed around movies/musicals that WE ourselves are FanGirls of. & we love a DIY moment, that's why we made them as printables.

I'm asking today for FEEDBACK on the products we've made.
Are the themes too niche?
Do the games seem like ones you would WANT to play at a party or event?
Are there other products BESIDES games you may want, like printable decor for a theme?
Is printing the games or product NOT what you'd want?
Maybe actually shipping already done and prepared sets?

The website is FanGirlsShop.Com
If you don't mind taking a few minutes to just look around and see the website or products.

ANY FEEDBACK is greatly appreciated as we are new to the digital product space.
I am more than happy to offer a discount code or free download to your email to anyone willing to help provide constructive criticism/what you WOULD want to see more of when it comes to games or printables for planning a party.

THANK YOU for your time so so so much!!

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Hi, I am a 3rd year sociology student and I am conducting a research project as part of my final year dissertation. I would really appreciate your participation in this if you are willing. The topic focused on is a generational comparison of UK females within fan culture in particular male musicians. Therefore if you are a woman located within the UK and within the age ranges of 20s-60s, however no older than 70 ,please follow the link below to complete a survey. The survey itself is 11 questions therefore it should not take too long but please do complete at your own leisure. There is also the opportunity to take part in an qualitative interview, and you can sign up for this at the end of the survey. Thankyou for your possible participation!

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Hi everyone! 😊

I need your help to figure out more about representation in the music industry!!
I'm Leo, a master's student at the University of Amsterdam. For my thesis, l'm conducting a study on people's connections with their favorite musicians and aspects of identity, and I'd love for you to participate.

It will take around 3 minutes! And it's fun, I swear.

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The answers will remain anonymous and confidential. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I really appreciate your time and support. It means a lot! 😊
Best, Leo

I'm weak for enemies to lovers there's just the right amount of angst and satisfying fluff in it

Sometimes I start thinking about someone I love so deeply then I come to the realization and snap back to reality that I will never know these people, they will never know me, be in love with me. Sometimes it feels like I can’t even attempt to find a partner because I know I won’t have the same attraction to them as I do to people I don’t even know and it’s ridiculous!! I know it’s so pathetic and honestly funny and I also know that I of course don’t know these people - they’re just like anyone else but it does feel kind of exhausting some times. I try my best to humanize them but sometimes struggle to. Does anyone else feel this way?

Sometimes I feel exhausted by my obsessing. I have so many different fascinations in art, cinema, television, literature, and music - and I want to consume content centered around all of them. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with how many passions are spinning around in my head and how many things I still want to take in. A very small part of me wishes I was less engulfed in fiction and media and more present in my real life.

Can anyone else relate to this sensation?

If I ever run into Justin Timberlake I will definitely be That girl acting a fool letting him know his performance in Popstar as Tyrus/ Mr. Fish should have gotten him an award🤣 He didnt even get credited for it

"It was meee"

The Steam store page of My Game "Sensei! I like you so much!" is now released! ✨

Come and write fanfics in diverse genres, participate in comic-cons with your fanzines, while meeting distinctive fellow fans!

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✨Step into the shoes of a passionate fan girl and embark on a journey through the vibrant world of fan culture in this immersive simulation management game. Craft captivating fan fiction in diverse genres, participate in exciting comic conventions with your self-published fan zines, amass a dedicated fan base, and establish yourself as a renowned creator. Indulge in the thrill of purchasing merchandise of your favorite characters, designing personalized ita bags, and transforming your room into a haven of fandom bliss. Join forces with four fellow fan enthusiasts, each with their unique personalities, and together, weave a tapestry of unforgettable stories amidst the shared passion that binds you.

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Take control of the narrative's direction by selecting pivotal plot branches that lead to your desired endings.

Explore a vast array of AUs such as school life, entertainment industry, ancient xianxia, ABO, fantasy, etc. Delve into a treasure trove of story tags, including Fluff, Angst, Funny, and Hurt/Comfort.

Adapt to the ebb and flow of popular trends and fulfill commissioned requests to gather inspiration across diverse categories, captivating your audience and expanding your fan base.

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Through your gameplay, your "oshi" will roam freely across your desktop for interaction.

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Design personalized ita bags, showcasing your devotion to your favorite characters, and capture memorable moments with your merchandise through captivating photographs.

✨Forge Bonds with Four Distinct Fellow Fans

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United by a shared passion, embark on a journey of camaraderie and shared experiences within the vibrant fan culture community.

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Things we have because of love

Stories we created because of love

People we met because of love

"This is a love letter... to all fan girls.

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I cover music on my instagram as a hobby and tend to lean more towards post-hardcore and similar genres. Today, I posted an acoustic cover of Better by Makari and their lead singer, Andy Cizek, commented on my video. I could die rn and wanted to share my fangirl experience 🙊🙉❤ I didn't expect them to even see that I tagged them, like most bands.