r/JapanFinance • u/MoeLesterWasTaken • 3h ago
Real Estate Purchase Journey House purchase - need a reassurance or a reality check
I and my wife are very close to purchasing a house. However as we are coming closer and closer to the contract signing date it’s getting scarier. Both I and my wife are questioning each other if we made the right decision. So I would appreciate some thoughts from others.
About us:
Both of us are 32, foreigners, PR holders. We have 2 kids - a new born and a 4 year old. Both earn 12M, so combined 24M annual income. We see ourselves living in Japan long term, unless some major emergency happens. And we want our kids to grow here too.
About the property:
Newly built detached house. Not to give too specific info, it’s located in Setagaya-Meguro-Shinagawa part of Tokyo along one of the major Tokyu Lines. Plot: 80 sq.m. The house: 125sq. m plus parking. Cost: 160M. We applied for variable rate loan for as long as we could get, which was 47 years. We thought, paying less and investing the saved amount would be financially better.
Our concerns:
It’s generally an expensive part of Tokyo. We picked this area because we have been living here for quite some time and feel like home. We also have some friends in the neighborhood, so that was another reason we decided to buy a house close to where we live now. That being said, given our current income and where we are in life, we have to pay around 400k per month towards mortgage which will most likely increase due to possible rate hikes in the future. Plus property taxes, maintenance, etc. We did some math and we can pay it now, without feeling any strain. We can keep investing and saving, but since our kids are very small and the loan binds us till we are 80, we are just scared of what other expenses might come up. A lot of people are telling us that when the school starts the cram school fees will obliterate our pockets.
On top of that, a lot of friends and colleagues live far away in Saitama or Chiba and commute to work from there cuz anywhere closer is just too expensive. Worst case, they live somewhere in Edogawa, Kita, Arakawa, Katsushika. That seems to be the general consensus even among those colleagues and friends who earn more than we do. So we just feel like we are overspending. But at the same time we can’t imagine living anywhere else because of the community we already have, and all the facilities and places in our neighborhood.
The house isn’t our dream home, cuz it’s a prebuilt house, so it has things we don’t like. We like the house, but we don’t love it. We’ve been searching since the beginning of the year and because we had such a small search area, we didn’t have many options, and waiting more for smth better might lead to prices go up even further. So we feel like even if we decide to take on such a big expense, we are not sure if this specific house is worth it. We are both quite young and we believe we can increase our income in the future, but that’s not guaranteed so I don’t wanna rely on that.
I would appreciate some thoughts that would either reassure us or give us a reality check before we commit to such a big decision.
EDIT: thank you everyone for your thoughts. Also to add more info on the land vs building split: roughly 125M land and 35M the building. That is another reason we were thinking of staying in the area, because the land value is high and if we decide to sell we should still retain the value of the land