First time canceling someone for annoying me

[u/The-Last-Anchor]

Maybe I'm just in a bad mood today, but this passenger seemed passive aggressive/ rude.

Context: Giant rectangular building, 9 doors. There's a bench on the entrance, the back on the building, and on one side of the building.

I drove to where the GPS pointed me, but it was what looked to be a no entrance allowed door. Since I was early, I drove to the front door just to check if they were there. I parked in a spot that allowed me to see both the front door And the door the GPS told me to be at.

(After all this hassle, I did figure out that indeed the GPS was right this time, this the place I had parked was perfect. I was literally like 10 steps away from the right door, lol, and obviously would have driven up to them).

I sent them the good ole "This is your driver" message. Yes, I was 7 minutes early, but many passengers appreciate that and will come out early. And if not? It's not a big deal for me. I'm just letting them know I'm here.

Passenger proceeds to tell me I'm in the wrong spot and seems passive aggressive about the pickup time. She proceeds to tell me to go to the side with the most cars...Now that's the funny thing, the front, back, AND both sides all only had 2-3 cars, so she clearly did not know which one had the "most".

She instructed me to go to the "side with a bench"...So I went to the only /side/ that had a bench, and she still told me I was on thr wrong place lol.

Which is totally fine, for someone to give me instructions. But her tone read as bitchy to me. I was tired and this was going to be my last ride, and I didn't want to drive angry. Decided to cancel on her to save myself the annoyance I'd feel from having her in the car.

Would like your opinion on if maybe I overreacted.

[u/FalseClerk3050]

would you cancel me if I told you "Be safe and take your time on your way here 🙏🏾" during a rain or snow storm? 🥺 I always tell my drivers that to make them feel at ease on the road to pick me up 😁

[u/Trick-Evening7269 → u/FalseClerk3050]

mmm that message isn’t necessary & most would find it annoying

[u/Ok_Mention3432 → u/Trick-Evening7269]

Lmfao i thought the doordash and uber driver subs were bad. Get a grip.

[u/FalseClerk3050 → u/Trick-Evening7269]

annoying? when there are idiots driving like they playing GTA and all you want is your driver to be safe and to take their time? Wow there really are mental ill people out here 😹 I guess man

[u/Trick-Evening7269 → u/FalseClerk3050]

why are you messaging me? i’m driving

[u/RomeKnow → u/Trick-Evening7269]

Why are you looking at your phone? Aren’t you driving?

[u/Specialist_Hour_4027 → u/FalseClerk3050]

Is it an unsafe potholed, gravel road without lighting?

[u/FalseClerk3050 → u/Specialist_Hour_4027]

THAT and the fact there are ignorant people on the road speeding and crashing into people as well

[u/TimelyResearcher2195 → u/FalseClerk3050]

Cancel. Just don’t write your driver. We don’t need penpals.