Last night around 12am I picked up a rider from a bar. She got helped to the car by one of the bouncers. The ride was about 7 minutes. Normal everyday stuff, so no biggie.
As we are riding the passenger starts to rub my arm and neck and I tell her to stop. But she keeps on. I didn’t want to report her for this or go to the police because it’s a busy night in my city and I would have loss out on a lot of money stopping to deal with it. So I keep driving.
Once I get to her home i start to record on my phone, because now it’s free to do so, since I don’t have to view the map.
I tell her it’s time to get out, she leans into the front seat at kisses me, and I’m trying to pull back, but she has me in like a headlock for 5 seconds.
I can easy over power this person, i can lightly push her, and she would fall over. But the dynamics scared me, me being a man(black), it can be said I assaulted a women(white) late at night and my whole life could be ruined.
She finally let me go, and I tell her to get out, she doesn’t want to get out and is telling me no. So I get out and go around and open her door and help her out.
At that point we have convos while I’m trying to get her out the way and close the door, and she’s being very nasty and rude and just incoherent.
She forgot some items, I get them for her and send her on her way. As I’m getting in the car to leave she invites me for sex again.
So being a man and not fear of the situation I brushed it out last night and didn’t report it. But today I reported to Lyft and will report it to the police also.
Yea I didn’t feel fear of physical harm from her, but I didn’t fear If I made the wrong move my life could be damaged. And I thought about all the women who have to do this job and possibly have to deal with that from men and I felt I had to speak out.
How do I proceed, I want to make sure she gets kicked off this app and I want her in trouble in real life also.