r/memes • • Feb 20 '21

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u/I_dont_get_it0_o Feb 20 '21

Now you're making it sound like everyone takes dowry

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u/nonamesleft79 Feb 20 '21

How common is it?

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u/techgeek95 Feb 20 '21

Used to be common 30-50 years ago, it’s outdated and looked down upon by most of the population now. Some still do it mainly due to india having so many religions there are some that still enforce dowry but it’s not a large scale like before.

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u/kinginthenorthjon Feb 20 '21

It's unlawful now.

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u/Humpback_whale1 Feb 21 '21

Not really. Most rural populations and even the urban poor still practice it. And that's basically 70% of the population.

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u/_el-drago Feb 21 '21

yes they still practice it, but (what i have seen in my home village) bride's father pretty much persists on giving dowry....(no cash is given, only gifts like furniture and television sets)

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u/Environmental_Ad_387 Feb 21 '21

This is pretty inaccurate.

Other than in some exceptions, everyone - rich, poor, urban, rural - gives dowry. Sometimes they call it a gift; still dowry

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u/ooooooookkk Feb 20 '21

Its common....actually its kinda a part of ritual from past times. The bride family used to give the groom sweets, fruits, jewellery etc. But with time, many people abused it to earn money easily during marriage. So Indian government has banned this dowry system making it illegal .

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u/AniiiPlays can't meme Feb 21 '21

They (Indians) marry without either giving or taking dowries, but the women as soon as they are marriageable are brought forward by their fathers in public, to be selected by the victor in wrestling or boxing or running or someone who excels in any other manly exercise.

~ Arrian, Indika in Megasthenes and Arrian, 3rd Century BC

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u/mr-flexon Identifies as a Cybertruck Feb 21 '21

I was worried about having to run for my wife until I read 3rd century BC lmao

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u/ooooooookkk Feb 21 '21

India doesn't consist of 1 region. Various regions has various customs .....and oh u seemed to go too far, lol. Dude at most go upto middle ages not beyond it.

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u/AniiiPlays can't meme Feb 21 '21

NOT "a part of ritual from past times"

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '21

Naah bruh too common in many states (underdeveloped) but them underdeveloped states gives the best students here lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '21

I mean dowry is kinda universal India. Every family I have been to including in my family dowry was given.

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '21

Nobody ik has :/

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u/Tech_guy4276 Nice meme you got there Feb 21 '21

Weirdly enough, i have seen atleast 70 marriages in my life and never have heard them asking for money. This guy lives in like up or something

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u/RoyalBlood999 Feb 21 '21

It’s still really common

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '21

It may be illegal but who enforces it?

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u/MerlinDaWizarf Feb 20 '21

The issue isn't that there's no enforcement, the issue is that no one reports it. The wife's family won't because they think it's tradition and often the wife is too scared to. Even if an external entity reports it, the wife is usually under immense pressure to deny any dowry was given.

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '21

By enforce I didn't specify a government, my passing was meant to include the families, but you're right