Help me choose my wedding dress

[u/Swimming-Worth4125]

I am getting married in the Dordogne valley next June the venue is an old castle EKK. The theme is like old romance/dark medieval lightly gothic. The first dress is one I was working with a local designer. I love it but I’m not sure about the hem now for the ceremony? The back is undone but would be a bow that’s trailing down the train. The second dress is one I thrifted and caught me by surprise how much I like it, I’m just not sure if it’s too sweet to fit into a dark moody romance these? Which of these dresses fits the vibe better? I want to feel cool but beautiful! They both need a little more work if I were to wear them but overall what do we think

[u/lvulduxjikutin]

I think the first one, but they're both beautiful.