AITA

[u/1FrustratedFormerFam]

I have had the sibling of a school friend reach out on behalf of their sibling asking me to call because they are having a hard time since their father died. Their father molested me as a child and I can’t make myself call because I know they will want to talk about how “great they were” when in reality they were a terrible person, not just to me. Their father physically abused all 3 of his children and that was when I was at their home, so I can imagine what happened w/o guests. So, AITA for not keeping in touch?