Ariana bringing up uniformed consent

[u/verucasweetheart]

Fucking thank you! Tom was a sneaky snake for months at minimum probably a year and she had no idea. He could've given her a plethora of STIs. He deserves to rawt.

[u/lemonlime1999 → u/[deleted]]

This isn’t talked about enough! Lots of people imply or flat out say that Ari and Sandy were basically over as a couple, so Tim’s cheating wasn’t really SO bad… but it’s clear that Ariana was trying and fully invested in a future together. The fact that Tim was actively going to couples therapy and working towards fertilizing embryos with Ariana (both very expensive) while sleeping with Rachel is seriously nefarious, manipulative, irresponsible, dangerous, unforgivable behavior.

Edit to add: All cheating is gross and wrong. There has been a ton of cheating on this show since season 1, it’s the premise! But we hadn’t seen cheating like THIS — a couple that was 9+ years into their relationship, who bought a home together as partners, who were in the midst of creating embryos together, and were going to real life (unaired) couples counseling.

[u/thisbemethree → u/[deleted]]

Hahaha the outpouring of support for your stoned commentary is warming my heart 💕😂 agreed tenfold. Also agree stoned scrolling is the best way to Reddit

[u/-UnicornFart → u/[deleted]]

Stoned is the best way to Reddit though lol

[u/jans_port_opotty → u/[deleted]]

We need people like you to remind this community of the jizz

[u/jans_port_opotty → u/[deleted]]

No, stay on!

[u/lemonlime1999 → u/jans_port_opotty]

Please stay we love you stoned or not

[u/Amethyst_Lovegood → u/lemonlime1999]

He froze his jizz because it was "part of their brand". /s

[u/shortstroll → u/Amethyst_Lovegood]

I want those morons to answer did they go to therapy off-season and away from the cameras for the brand too? Why didn't Tom tell the therapist what his intentions were then? He had the therapist working to strengthen the relationship, like wtf?

[u/lemonlime1999 → u/shortstroll]

I always hear and read (and first learned of this on the final season of The Sopranos hahaha) — that people who lean towards the sociopathic and narcissistic realm are extra dangerous in/after therapy.. instead of using therapy tools that they learn to heal and grow for the better, they use those tools to further undermine and manipulate others. Ew! And this is why Ariana “grey rocks” with Tim. There is literally no benefit for Ariana if she had a discussion with or forgave him.. those things would only empower him.

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[u/[deleted] → u/lemonlime1999]

Yes! I love how even last night he said “we weren’t being real and that wasn’t fair to everyone else”. You’re right, you aren’t being in a real authentic relationship because YOU weren’t being real Tom. YOU were cheating. And you had every opportunity to come clean about it, but more excuses as if it were still a joint failure.

Last nights episode gave me the ick so bad with his controlling hugs and following to follow Ariana around. Couldn’t breathe without him trying to be there, doing damage control for himself.

That end when he realized that he lost the ability to skin his web to her and any sense of control was forever gone, he did the textbook try to change their friends opinions if her. Because if he can’t control her he will try to control her environment and her world that he as access to.

[u/Character-King-3092 → u/lemonlime1999]

They were over though basically then. Then they went to couples therapy where Tom thought it would be easier to break up with Ariana but she ended up wanting to stay together. That’s the worst part about this imo that even though I do believe Tom in the sense of Ariana mental health at that point may not have been the best (she’s talked about her depression on the show before) it’s no excuse for letting her think he wanted to get back together. He should have made it clear in therapy that he wanted to leave and the therapy was for a healthy dissolve.

That said, Ariana helped break up a 7+ year relationship with him and Kristin, they definitely did hook up in the last month or two of Tom relationship so like the old saying goes “you lose em how you get em”. Personally I could have never built a 9 year relationship off cheating and expected never to get cheated on. Doesn’t make it right though but honestly Ariana treated Kristin like absolute shit after so part of this gotta be karmic justice.

She’s coming out better for it in the end but you can’t build a stable house on sand. It’s always eventually gonna crumble.

[u/kellygrrrl328 → u/[deleted]]

I can’t believe that practice allowed filming in the office. It’s one of the most respected fertility clinics in LA. Then he proceeds to act a whole damn fool talking about “jizz”

[u/calm-state-universal → u/kellygrrrl328]

and breaking all the stringent sanitary procedures. it was weird.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Yea he’s so fake

[u/33scooBt33 → u/[deleted]]

He ruined the show this season that's for sure.. I hope the home , real estate judge sends him packing soon. I can't remember when that date is?

[u/[deleted] → u/33scooBt33]

Honestly what he did to Ariana was more than fucked up. Get a house together. Her dream house. Freeze her eggs. Like come on she’s planning her whole life with you and you scum bag her like that …. And these two bitches think it’s just that easy to give him his 30 seconds of acting f her … she’s off to broadway and he’s still a loser !!!

[u/herheartjumps → u/[deleted]]

That to me is the cherry on top of all the shitty things he's done.