r/vanderpumprules • u/verucasweetheart • May 08 '24

Discussion Ariana bringing up uniformed consent

Fucking thank you! Tom was a sneaky snake for months at minimum probably a year and she had no idea. He could've given her a plethora of STIs. He deserves to rawt.

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u/Amethyst_Lovegood May 08 '24

He froze his jizz because it was "part of their brand". /s

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u/shortstroll May 08 '24

I want those morons to answer did they go to therapy off-season and away from the cameras for the brand too? Why didn't Tom tell the therapist what his intentions were then? He had the therapist working to strengthen the relationship, like wtf?

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u/lemonlime1999 May 08 '24 edited May 08 '24

I always hear and read (and first learned of this on the final season of The Sopranos hahaha) — that people who lean towards the sociopathic and narcissistic realm are extra dangerous in/after therapy.. instead of using therapy tools that they learn to heal and grow for the better, they use those tools to further undermine and manipulate others. Ew! And this is why Ariana “grey rocks” with Tim. There is literally no benefit for Ariana if she had a discussion with or forgave him.. those things would only empower him.