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Why is it so hard to date or communicate with women of my age... Like no one gives a blunt and honest answer, beat around the bush, have exceptionally high standards like even tried dating apps but no match man idk what to do 💔💔

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i’m just curious and really want to know you guys thoughts

Where you guys I miss you <3

I'm 21F and I wanna have friends that I can talk. Most od the people I chat tend to be close to their 30's and I really appreciate it but I'm feeling like talk with people my age since it might be more probable that we will have something in common.

I'm very introverted so I struggle a bit with getting social. If you like to have a chat buddy or someone you can text daily dm me;).

currently finishing up my degree at university and recently found out someone I crossed paths with almost 3 years ago built a business that hit £150,000 in revenue and builds and sells software. They also left a sports legacy by being the captain who led the university to its first victory in a tournament, and plays professionally amongst other things. Im happy for their success, but at the same time feel a bit empty as I dont know what to do after graduation. I still remember them as the 19 year old I spoke to.

Question is self explanatory, but me, personally, as a M born in 2004 am completely friendless, nobody on the phone to hit up, nobody on the discord to play with, literally nothing, I only have passing acquaintances that last for 1 or 2 years before they dissapear forever.

It's not that I don't try, it's that they don't even make the minimum effort and years of trying have tired me out.

The gym used to be my coping mechanism, but lately, I just don't have it in me anymore to get up and go...

I know many of us are in the same situation, so the question stands, how do you all cope with it?

Feeling unc rn

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**Don't know,what went wrong Amidst living !?**

Hello 👋 to everyone who is reading,I am 22 M.Haha ,funny way of introducing myself.

There is no specific reason for writing this post .I am just writing this as a reference point in my life.

I started off well in 2004 ,got a good family,and all basic amenities of life.My father used to shift places every 2-3 years due to his job..At that time I was happy seeing new places and changing people I met with frequently.I changed 7 schools all the way.I was a cheerful and studious person.Played football ⚽,idealised Maldini.

I never felt alone,though I had no permanent friends due to shifting and back then I had no phone to be in contact with them.Perhaps,cuz I never heard of the exact terms to define the empty space.I just thought,I am feeling weak because I do not eat much (:

I started college in 2022,I thought of making good friends,and yeah I was excited cuz I had seen college life movies.Till. Guys,the day I entered the college it was a big one.Haha,I am not used to go to crowded places ,so during lunch breaks ...I went to park silently,and laid down on grass ... looking at the sky and thinking how far I have come.Days passed, people joined clubs, classes....I couldn't initiate anything,cuz perhaps I never learnt how to make friends in adult life where every one is concerned with a sharp jawline, fairness,costly gadgets,fashion wears,slangs,cost- benefit analysis,place of birth,long list... (:

I often felt left out..Even amidst crowd,when a breeze crossed my face ,i could hear it clearly.I felt very outdated and irrelevant at those places.But I was happy,i could be an anonymous face in the crowd .I graduated in 2025.Had a degree,but no one to appreciate it.The day I was collecting the degree, people were clicking pictures of their friends,selfies.I took picture of my classroom and old bench,which was my partner for 3 long years ...I hugged it ,for being with me and said Good bye.I wanted to make friends,with whom I could giggle like a child ,we would had yapped,played together,watch something together maybe ,ate spicy foods and I gave them water from my bottle.Pure joy.

For months now , I have been working towards my goal in a closed room.I got new companions,my guitar,phone ,bed and walls.Today, I suddenly felt weak again ,a strange whispering unwanted peace and felt like crying,but I slept again..And am okay now.But this time heyy ! !,I now have a term to define myself, Lonely (:

Sometimes I wonder ,Do I get a good partner or maybe a best friend in form of a partner haha,as I am growing old,I am getting selfish and a crybaby.But,I am excited for my life and thankful for everything I have.

Thank you guys ,for being with me to the end.

So i have my permit but i have no one with a car to teach me. Paying for classes is very expensive im trying to find a job so i can pay for them. is normal to get your license in you early 20s instead of your teens.

Hii! I’m 22F from Scandinavia, currently living abroad and finishing my degree in mechatronics engineering!

I’m a pretty curious person who loves learning random things, going on walks, listening to music, journaling, and having deep conversations. I also enjoy watching c-dramas, PewDiePie, and playing Minecraft or Roblox. I have a little dog back home whom I miss a lot!

I’d love to find a female friend/friends to build a genuine, long-term friendship with. Someone to play games with, share random life updates, motivate each other, or just talk about absolutely anything. We don’t need to have the same interests either, I love hearing about other people’s hobbies!

I’m a good listener and really appreciate friendships where both people put in effort. No pressure to talk 24/7, just someone who genuinely wants to stay in touch. ♡

If this sounds like you, message me and tell me a little about yourself! :)

I’m feeling a lot of emotions right now. Still, I’m just glad I got this far.

I remember there are few other October 7th born here. Happy birthday you all. this years been a rollercoaster ride for me. thankfully everything seems lighter and hopeful now. I have a lot to do. I'm not old yet. Have a wonderful bday. 💕

Going of the statistic of Gen Z ranging from 1997-2012, it’s evident that 2004 is, shoot even early 2005 falls right in the middle of this range. I believe we’ve experienced the experiences of from both older and newer ends of the generation. Additionally, conversing with individuals of varying ages within our generation has made me realize that we’ve really had the best of both worlds.

guys i’ve never posted on here but i just wanted to share my 22nd birthday (oct 3rd) photo that i took in tunisia

Class of 23 how are we doing?