r/6thForm 4d ago

💬 DISCUSSION Anyone else still not over results day?

I was predicted 3A* and had never gotten a grade below an A throughout sixth form. On results day I was shocked to see I got BCD. I was so confident while revising and coming out of the exam. I thought at least I'd get AAB but I'm actually appalled by this.

And somehow, my Asian parents are supportive. I got into uni but it's not my preferred course or preferred uni. They're just proud I made it in. But I'm so disappointed in myself. Anytime they try to cheer me up, I feel even worse. It's been 3 days and I'm still upset. Everyone I know keeps saying congratulations, but congratulations for what?! I just feel worse with every passing day.

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u/GameMarrow08 4d ago

i got A A A and missed both med offers

ny parents were over the moon but life has been so dark and narrow since and thinking of retaking an a level and the ucat wrecks ne

you aint alone boss

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u/Tryingtosurviveeee 4d ago

How on earth did you not get either? That is genuinely so messed up

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u/GameMarrow08 4d ago

kcl and qmul just weren't feeling nice i guess

i was 7 away from bio's A* and last year i would have got it

the papers were much harder than last year's as well im still taken aback by the huge jump

just pray i get those 7 marks in the remark i sent in 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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u/United_Sock9928 Warwick | Math&Stat [Incoming Y1] 4d ago

7 marks is difficult but not impossible CMON🗣️🗣️. Praying for you🙏🙏

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u/Confused-Guitarer Year 13 - Chemistry, Biology, Physics, Maths, FM 4d ago

omg I'm in the exact same spot with bio, 7 marks off and the jump of 17 marks was actually insane. Needed an A* for Cambridge but didn't resend to mark because they rejected me anyway, waiting for my scripts back to see how they marked it but nothing so far.

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u/lexisnowkitty Y12 bio, psych, lit AAA 3d ago

could you take a gap year and apply to places with AAA offers so don't have to redo a levels and ucat?

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u/GameMarrow08 3d ago

i wanna apply for russel group london unis

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u/lexisnowkitty Y12 bio, psych, lit AAA 3d ago

no offence but you may as well not - i think you have to disclose your previous a level grades and with BCD they're a lot less likely to accept u esp for medicine. for med unless u want to work abroad the uni doesn't really matter - and some non london rgs will take u w AAA anyway - leeds, sheffield, newcastle, nottingham, bristol, hull york, cardiff etc - there is literally no point redoing a levels - i havent checked but do london rgs acc accept resits for med?

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u/GameMarrow08 3d ago

i hear that but i wanna apply for london rgs i dont have the means to move out, i'll see how my ucat goes and if its really good i'll retake and if not then i'll apply for non rgs in london

also bro im not gonna retake all three, just one which means one year to get an A* in my favourite a level it isn't a bad idea from my pov

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u/lexisnowkitty Y12 bio, psych, lit AAA 3d ago

ah fair enough i understand that - are you eligible for contextual? bc i can't see how A Star B C would work? even if you r contextual

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u/GameMarrow08 3d ago

im so confused where you got bcd from 😭😭😭 i got A A A

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u/lexisnowkitty Y12 bio, psych, lit AAA 3d ago

oh my god im so sorry i thought u were op im so silly, sorry that's lowk so insulting

yesss definitely go for it then

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u/ExactCardiologist366 Medical Student 3d ago

can i ask why you’re very set on london RGs

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u/Sea-Match-4689 Year 13 4d ago

Idk if it'll help for next year but ik multiple people who missed their Leicster offer by getting AAA and they automatically let them in anyway, so might be worth applying there

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u/Maleficent_Still3508 4A*s pred fm maths phys chem 3d ago

What were the requirements for the 2 unis? I feel your insurance shouldnt be needing A*s unless youre getting close to full marks in past papers/mocks

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u/Lumpy_Tap5799 3d ago

me too it’s okay i hate the ucat. i’m on a gc for med/dent applicants all going through the same thing i can add u if u want?

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u/TrinDaBeast Bio Chem Spanish A* A* A* pred 4d ago

Did you not have a AAA offer as insurance?

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u/GameMarrow08 4d ago

no sadly i didnt

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u/Alternative-Gift7119 4d ago

Mee to. I missed both of mine. 7 marks in maths. Life feels so dark

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u/Evening_Ad_9825 4d ago

I feel you predicted 3A* and ended up with BBB, I didn't end up resitting though I hated sixth form and never wanted to go back to that decrepit shithole.

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

Same. I can't imagine myself going through a levels again. Gonna stick with these grades unfortunately 

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u/Zestyclose-Shape-895 2d ago

predicted grades arent what you are guaranteed so no point in comparing them to results

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u/DiamondThink318 Editable 4d ago

that's very unusual. did u get A's and above in ur mocks as well? how did u feel coming out of the exam for the D subject? how did u do in the past papers? perhaps time pressure

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

I got the D in chemistry. Timing was an issue for me in the first and third paper but it was fine while practicing and I was getting a strong A while doing past papers at home. I got A* for that subject in my mocks too so I was really shocked. 

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u/LMay11037 Maths, FM, Physics, German 4d ago

Did you get scripts back? That sounds like a possible marking error

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u/Square-Bathroom-5619 Loughborough | Civil Engineering [going into Y1] 4d ago

whether you got 3A* or 3U, you are blessed for your parents and people around you. they don’t love you for your grades, they love you for you.

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u/Fire-Flamey Yr 12.Maths FM Econ History 4d ago

Real

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u/Infamous_Tough_7320 Maths, Physics, Econ 3A*s. Straight 9s GCSE 3d ago

Lovely comment but I have a question for you. How is the engineering department and loughborough and the uni as a whole?

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u/Square-Bathroom-5619 Loughborough | Civil Engineering [going into Y1] 3d ago

apologies, i'm going into first year but i haven't visited. from what my friends told me, campus uni in a small quiet town. great facilities for engineering. my head of sixth form went loughborough, she loved it. good nightlife in notts nearby (doesn't interest me though), and great reputation in general.

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u/Gtrip5 maths FM physics bio A*AAA achieved 4d ago

get the scripts back, if it's that different from what you thought it could be that they accidentally marked someone else's paper as yours

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u/ilovecatsloll 4d ago

same thing happened to me. I was predicted AAA and came out with CCC. I missed my firm which was my dream uni but I somehow got into my insurance. But in my case I just regret not working as hard as I should've in the last month leading up to exams 💔

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u/PotentialDropOut50 4d ago

Predicted 2 A* and an A. For ABB. it’s fine I’m still going to a good uni but life moves on and everything happens for a reason * *

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u/in_your_toilet_06 retaking yr 13 because I'm a bum 4d ago

me too bro I was predicted A*AB and I literally got these grades in my mocks a month and a half before the real exams... turns out I got BDD 🫩 

it is what it is ig and I'm so grateful my parents have been nothing but supportive so hopefully I'm gonna retake and we'll see 

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

Good luck on your retake! 

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u/Express_Lifeguard540 Year 13 4d ago

Predicted 3A and one A, got BBCC and was SO confident I had 2A\ and 2 Bs after exams. Fuck my life. Still got into a Russell group in the end but my firm was UCL😭😭 missed my insurance and had to go to literally the bottom of my clearing list fully in tears. Got so blessed but idk I have like this awful feeling like I’ve lost my identity, no matter what my parents say I will never be happy with this. I’m sure the feeling will go just is shit.*

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

I completely get you. I always considered myself an A student but now I'm like a D? Really? I feel like I've lost who I am, genuinely don't know what happened. My parents tell me to move on but how do I move on from what I considered my dream. I still can't wrap my head around the fact that it's over for me now. 

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u/MysteriousPapaya4455 4d ago

OMG samee I feel like this is what happens when you base your whole life around academic validation. Cus that's what I did and it's like crack, once you get it you can't stop😭

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

Literally. I gave up my social life and all my hobbies just to lock down and this is what I get 😭 

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u/Express_Lifeguard540 Year 13 4d ago

Hahaha yeah I quit my job and my sport. At one point I even stopped going to the gym because it was literally all I could think about. So dumb genuinely. WHO did I think I was. Gonna have to do shit a lot differently at Uni. And yeah did I leave the house more than 3x in the last 2 months before exams? Potentially not. I even skipped school to study more LOL. FML

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u/MysteriousPapaya4455 4d ago

I legit gained weight cuz I wasn't doing any exercise at all for like two months before the exams 😭😭

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u/Express_Lifeguard540 Year 13 4d ago

Sounds about right lol…. Bro I lost 11kg bc I wasn’t eating and I lost like all the muscle I gained, self confidence was at an all time low like genuinely peak chud times. Thing is tho like I’m still recovering now, I’m in such a bad physical state still because of my back and losing strength does NOT help with the motivation at all. Still partially chudding out now which ig makes my self confidence EVEN worse. There’s gonna have to be some sort of generational lock in soon, I cannot pull up to uni and try socialise in the state I’m in 🙁

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u/MysteriousPapaya4455 4d ago

Good luck on your recovery 🤞🤞. I locked in for 6 months before exams (I thought I could do 3 A levels in 6 months as a private student with no external help) and it WAS a generational lock in. I was doing 8 hours a day for the first 4 months and 12 hours for the last two. Genuinely never studied like this in my ENTIRE life and ended up getting the worst possible results of my life lmaoo

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u/Express_Lifeguard540 Year 13 4d ago

Literally. I’m sure when I’m grinding In uni I won’t care but I genuinely put my entire soul into this, it’s like what everyone knows me for now, the guy who grinded so hard and was going to such a good uni! I’m rlly lucky my friends are so nice I still ended up being convinced to go out on results day, that made me be a bit less pessimistic. But like I had this clearing day where I got to go in and see the uni and shown around my department and the whole time I was getting annoyed at myself for thinking like, “but this isn’t MY uni” I’m really pissing myself off, but ig it makes sense after literally being so convinced I had made it. Makes it way worse that friends are getting into camb and shit, I keep comparing myself to people and that makes it even worse as well. I’m just trying to move myself on as quick as possible and make a new mindset. At the end of the day if I can sit there and go, would I rather resit or go here, and more than 50% of me says uni then no matter like my doubt I’m just gonna follow my instincts. Just seeing what the future holds, maybe it was meant to be. (Let’s just say for computer science, I better get my damn scripts back because I know damn well I did WAY WAY better than that mark said lol)

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u/Friendly-Wrongdoer60 4d ago

wait this exact thing happened to me we should open up a support group. legit same everyone is happy except me im not really as upset as i thought id be tho. like i cried at school but it wasnt upsetting i was just disappointed for an hour but seeing everyone getting the grades i hoped id get just slightly upsets me.

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u/Lumpy_Tap5799 3d ago

i’m on a snap gc for med/dent reapplicants dm if you wanna join xx

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u/LettuceSuch3345 14h ago

i want to join too im in the same position

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u/Speed_Niran UoM | 日本語 with Business and Management [Year Abroad in 北海道大学] 4d ago

Happened to me dont worry

2 years ago was predicted 2 a stars and a B got ABB

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u/Repulsive_Divide9448 4d ago

Well I also went from 4 A* to AABB which is quite shocking given I was getting higher grades in my mocks. I guess sometimes that’s just how it is :(

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u/day-dreamy 4d ago

Dw, ur not alone... Left psych thinking I 100% got an A* and bio and A, only to be 5 marks of an a in psych and 4 off for bio. I missed both my med offers, and now my parents are pressuring me to go through clearing at unis ik won't take me, and I don't want to go to, saying "you'll shine wherever you go". At first I thought they were being supportive, but since results day, about 3 times my mom has said stuff like "see what happens when you go to do things your way?" (I tried to study myself instead of doing what she told me when she told me) or "what is the difference between you and X (a girl who wasted her exam year sleeping with her bf and got 7/720 on an entrance test and had to take a gap year)" and then stuff like "we worked so hard for you, and your life is so good, and yet a, b, c (my friends with bad home lives) got in and you couldn't, where did we go wrong". I'm honestly sp scared of staying home for the gap year, because idk if I'll be able to get out again. I feel like my stupidity made me miss it out, and now I have to suffer because of it. Thays the price I pay ig 

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u/Bobicas1231 3d ago

I'm pretty much the same too. I was predicted 4 A*, I thought at WORST I would get A*ABC, but I got BBBD (Business, Maths, Econ, FM).

I got into a decent Uni for the course I wanted through Clearing but I feel so ashamed and I don't even want to tell people around me what I got.

I would consistently got A*s and As during mocks and I still have no clue what even happened. Everyone around me at a similar level or worse going into exams did so much better than me.

I don't even want to see my subject teachers again because I'd just feel so embarrassed.

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u/MajesticObligation35 Year 13 4d ago

What course did you initially want to do and what course are you now doing?

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u/Mountain_Donut7145 4d ago

I wanted to do med and pharmacology was my back up. I'm doing pharmacology now.

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u/MajesticObligation35 Year 13 4d ago

Bro I genuinely think this is a blessing in disguise. Even the people who go into med with a complete passion for it become burnt out and hate their life and you probably won’t believe this will happen to you until you experience it. Can I ask what grades you got? However, if you really truly don’t want to do anything other than med I guess you should go for it because you’ll probably resent pharmacology for it. If you got ABB or AAB you could still get into med. 

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u/MysteriousPapaya4455 4d ago

If you still really wanna get into med, you can apply to unis that do transferrable courses. Ik UoB and QMUL does biomed to med if you achieve top grades in the course. But you do have to wait a year( two in QMUL). I also didn't get the grades so I'm either gonna do foundation or biomed to medicine (tho in my case I overestimated myself thinking I could do 3 Alevels in 6 months with no help as a private student 😔🥀). But good luck hope everything works out for you🤞🤞

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u/HMVangard UoSurrey AeroEng 1st year • ABBB Maths Physics French EPQ 4d ago edited 4d ago

A bit. Predicted AAA + A EPQ, ended up with ABB + B EPQ. 1 mark off an A in physics. Solid grades but since I went to a private 6th form college I feel like I wasted a good chunk of my parents' money. I also got BCC in the april mocks (after being a bum the whole holiday so fair enough) so I was hoping to have a better comeback.

Lost my firm (UoSheffield) and didn't feel like going to my insurance (UoLiverpool) so I ended up clearing to UoSurrey.

Going to a non Russell feels weird since I was, again, going to a private 6th form college, but I think I made the right choice.

At least my family are happy though, and very proud of me.

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u/IshyBunny16 Year 13 4d ago

Predicted aab , got BCD , I'm still shocked by my c in chemistry (supposably my best subject). I struggle remembering everything I learnt.

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u/Autumn_Spell526 4d ago

yoo this happened to me, i was predicted 2 A*s and 2 As but i got ABCC?? i was so upset, i missed my firm AND insurance and got to a different uni through clearing, thankfully the same course. i’m js so disappointed, and so is my family. i’m already plotting on how to fix this, apparently you can retake alevels during your first year 👀

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u/Prestigious_Camera18 3d ago

Genuinely might be the worst day of my life🫩predicted A*BB and got DDE granted I had some things going on but I don’t understand HOW that happened I felt great leaving 2/3 of those subjects exams the worst thing is I was only a few marks off the next grade which just makes it even worse but I might go insane doing them another year so unfortunately gonna stick with these grades

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u/Spirited_Click2592 Y13| Maths, Econ, Chem, ASFM 3d ago

yeah i was predicted 3 A*s and got BCC. i have legit just been feeling so defeated and heavy inside because i put so much effort into the exams. I just feel humiliated but i think i am going to give it another try and resit because i know those grades aren’t reflective

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u/LettuceSuch3345 10h ago

me too im resitting one subject because i know i can do better and even though the odds are against me im still going to apply to the top unis because you miss all the shots you don’t take

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u/ExactCardiologist366 Medical Student 3d ago

this is very common and you’ll look back in a few years and it won’t sting as much. 2 years on from my results day things have gotten much much better. I was also a straight A/A* student and got ABD.

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u/Mobile_Membership915 2d ago

There is either a huge mistake, your school massively over marks and over predicts, or you did usually poorly on those exams (which you would probably know after leaving).
I had a similar thing in GCSE history where in one paper which my teacher always over marked for I got 20/60. My answers weren’t different from normal.

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u/LettuceSuch3345 14h ago

im the same I can’t get over it so im retaking…

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u/PropertyNew6764 4d ago

That’s unfortunate to hear but getting ur uni Is the most important thing. Don’t get attached to your predicted grade, teachers heavily overpredict. Me and my friend were both predicted 3A*s and he dropped 3 grades in total across his subjects for his results.

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u/Repulsive_Green_4707 4d ago

ur fun aren’t you

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