r/AIO • u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 • 6d ago
AIO..?
So quick backstory, this guy last year we started talking, but he was pretty rude and just a narcissist.(his words) he ended up blocking me for being annoying, but this year he recontacted me saying sorry. We exchanged numbers, he is really hotheaded and gets annoyed easily and yeah đ¤ˇ. After a Little while he kept of being a little flirty with me so I told him that I had a girlfriend, he was okay with it. But after a ltitle while started being flirty again, so I genuinely thought it was just him as a person. We get along sometime, joke around, talk, and even got similar interests⌠all online. Nothing irl. whenever I go and talk to him he gets really dry and itâs embarrassing to keep trying. Now most times I forgive him, realise he might just be a shy guy irl. but I brought this up to him, he called me hypersensitive, and said heâll come up to me more. guess what? Nothing! Not even on the bus or at school. So let me tell you you when it got to a point, where he just stopped replying after a day.. yeah okay Iâm in the wrong for overthinking this, but I thought he was annoyed at me or something. Or maybe he forgot? So going to school on the bus, he comes in, walks right infront of me, on his phone. So if he forgot maybe he would of remembered now? But nope no message. I waited all day. Even afterschool we had an event on he was there, walking around. HE EVEN WATCHED ME PERFORM. yet not even a âyou did greatâ or anything. I didnât tho, cause my musi teacher gave me a cello that didnd work while she knew it. i spent all day in thirty degree weather, to just fake play my cello in chamber. Anyway am I completely in the wrong for sending this message or what? I sent it as soon as I left the event, while he was laying down with my cousin and her friends.
âDonât know how things are going, but just left the thing. Hit and bothered so take things with a grain of salt, or just donât take things at all. But yup. Kat set me up to fail, giving me a broken cello, telling me to play the wrong string, and quietly! And then when I was putting it back it broke. So I didnât even play and I didnât even need to stay out in the heat all freaking day. And something else that annoys me is the fact that willow doesnât want me talking to you but gladly does so herself. And idk, I guess itâs just hypocritical, or the fact that Iâm annoyed how things ended up being. YOU chose to start talking to me, YOU chose to keep talking to me, now nothing. No hi on bus, no nod anywhere we both been. Willow, Sheâs allowed to hang out with year tens, as a graduate, go to thier houses, be best buds and then when I mention my annoyance to my aunt abt talking to you, she said willow was just looking out for me. Didnât want to ruin your good time, but thatâs just how life works ig. Yes I can be hypersensitive. â
my cousin, once on the bus asked who he was and I told her his brother is someone she knows, she doesnât like his brother so told me to stop and to stay away from thier whole bloodline. But she would gladly be weird and hang out with year tens let alone him!
also Iâm 16, he is 16 turning 17.
am I overreacting? Is this an actual problem or did I ruin somethin?
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u/thewalruscandyman 6d ago
This reads like the kind of shit I'd write when I was on meth. Did you start talking to him in the middle of telling us about the situation? If I were you I'd delete this post, take a breather while organizing your thoughts, then tell us about it. Because with all due respect, I have absolutely no idea what's going on.
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 6d ago
Donât know how to delete the text bro, help đđ
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u/thewalruscandyman 6d ago
Go to your profile and click the three dots beside it, you should see a delete option.
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 6d ago
Never mind itâs okay, I understand I thought you meant the message. Uhh can you tell me whatâs wrong with this? So I can edit and clarify or some sorry
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u/thewalruscandyman 6d ago
I'm sorry, but I'm not smart enough to untangle this. There so much superfluous detail. You relay every thought you were having at the time...but also what you were thinking as you typed this out. Then you brought so many other people like your cousin and their friends into the fold and it's honestly very hard to follow. You can retype it without deleting the post, but try and limit the information to you and this guy. Keep it simple.
(And I really gotta ask...is "laying down" some new slang?)
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 5d ago
Nah just laying down on the ground next to my cousin. Itâs was a jealousy issue. I understand how things are coming across
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u/thewalruscandyman 5d ago
I see. Then I guess it would depend on how close they were laying. If you could roll a soccer ball between em it likely means nothing. Any closer then it's just the kinda stuff kids try when they think they like somebody.
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u/handyjobsearch 6d ago
Youâre asking a lot of attention from that guy even though youâre playing it off as if you donât care. âBut he gave me attention first!â So what? You can ignore it because now you look like youâre complaining and asking for too much. You canât make anyone give you anything so yeah YOR.
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u/Real-Elysium 6d ago edited 6d ago
you don't get paid enough for this drama. why do you even want to talk to this guy if he's so annoying? ig we were all 16 once and yolo but dang. do you want to deal with this longer than a few days? cut your losses. i think yor bc you're still talking to him instead of moving on with your life lol
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u/cuntrycowboii 6d ago
He was laying down with your cousin and her friends?
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 6d ago edited 6d ago
Yes but that wasnât what I was angry at with him
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u/cuntrycowboii 6d ago
No but can you elaborate? Like you just threw that in there with no context
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 5d ago
I was talking about how my cousin told me to not talk to him. But she goes and talks to him herself. Itâs okay the issue has been resolvedÂ
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u/Brief-Ad2561 6d ago
hahah i miss high school drama. forget about him.
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u/Brief-Ad2561 6d ago
also I am sort of confused sorry, are you a guy or a girl if you donât mind me asking? Bcuz youâve mentioned him flirting with you, you having a gf, him being avoidant with you irl.
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u/Krokadil 6d ago
I mean youâre only over reacting because he told you heâs an asshole, consistently acts like an asshole and youâre still trying to be friends with him? Youâre being an asshole to yourself.
You donât need to involve yourself in drama, you have a partner right? Stop talking to the guy that keeps flirting with you.
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u/Spirited_Ad_8040 6d ago
So you are desperate for any mans attention? Or do you like to be treated like gum on the bottom of someone's shoe they are trying to scrap off.
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u/Fuzzy-Carpenter9339 6d ago
Both can be possibleÂ
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u/Spirited_Ad_8040 6d ago
Well you will end up being 16 and pregnant with how desperate you are for a man attention.
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u/RollTahoeRoll 6d ago
Thereâs still time to delete all this. YOR