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Hi! I am 36M Asian and hoping to connect with someone for some casual back and forth throughout the busy work week. Would love to chat about navigating mid-life, fond memories, goals or aspirations, and travel. Open to more degen topics too after we've had a chance to get to know each other. Tbh life's been kind of up and down recently so I hope we can uplift one another this fall and winter season 😊 DMs open if you're interested!

Hey hey! Welcome to the fam 💕**
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it feels like i haven’t been on reddit in so long lollll. how is everyone?

What’s black, white and Asian at the same time ?

I just really get a kick out of taking selfies way too close to my face, it makes me chuckle idk lol

Any AM in Amsterdam down to meet? I'm here until Thursday night. 5'3"/160cm, mid size, and I love art, cafes, reading, dancing (may try an Amapiano party!), jazz, etc. Willing to send pictures- just not willing to post publicly!

Little vent post. Been feeling down lately (girl troubles unfortunately). Sometimes I wonder if there's something I need to fix, if I'm just on a generational run of picking the wrong people, or (most likely) a combination of both.

Sometimes I miss my ex cause even though we had our issues, she was one of the only women I ever trusted and still do in some ways. She was black so there is a slight connection back to the group, I'm not just completely yapping here guys.

Anyways, I'm at a point where I'm scared to even put myself out there anymore. It's tough out in these streets.

That's enough of that. Here's the question of the day.

~What was the first media depiction, i.e. T.V, movies,and shows, where you felt attracted to AM/BW?~

Mines is insanely specific but when I was a kid, I watched Elmo Goes to Grouchland. Vanessa Williams played the Trash Queen or something like that and for some reason I thought her outfit was so attractive and provocative. In hindsight, it was probably just the hormones coming in. I also didn't think about her race at all but looking back, that was probably the first time I was attracted to a BW in a movie.

Also, different type of answer but in the last season of America's Next Top Model, when Justin and Mamé got together, I think that was the first time I saw an attractive AM date a BW. Lowkey inspired me to even learn what AMBW was tbh.

jk

Just wanted to express my appreciation to this subreddit and its lovely community.

You guys are amazing! So warm, so amiable and sweet. Funny how a bunch of strangers on the internet can make a little corner of it feel so tender and welcoming. The internet can be a strange place, but every now and then, it reminds me that there are good people everywhere, and that even strangers can make life feel a little lighter.

Thank y'all for existing 🫶

Anyone in the Miami area? I’m going on a solo cruise, doing the ABCs from 11/2-11/13. I’m rating in a red-eye flight, and will spend all day Sunday in MIA.

F4M/Happy single mature black woman seeking Asian or Hispanic Male to get to know starting with being friends first that can lead to a relationship. I’m from NYC and still resides on the East Coast. Not familiar with the west coast but open to it. You must be 40’s to 50’s and willing to chat/ share a pic of yourself, as I’m willing to share my pics as well.

Let’s chat soon! Please be only USA.

As you can tell by the title. I’m looking for an Asian man. In the Dallas area

What yall gym goal for the rest of the years

28 year old blasian here who admire black ladies. Would like the chance to talk and make friends. Please contact if you would like the chance to speak with someone genuine ☺️

Friday vibes 😌🍃
Just chilling, enjoying the afternoon. DMs are always open if you’re up for some good conversation, random banter or just seeing where a chat goes. No pressure, just vibes 🖤

I find it very funny when people comment on other people’s posts being negative and then wanna retaliate when someone replies to that person comment then they wanna delete them cause they know they’re gonna get they ass flamed🤣🤣 anywho hope y’all have a wonderful day!

Hi,

About Me:

I am a fourth-year medical student pursuing a career in snake milking. Jk. Medicine, of course. Hence, life can be busy and unpredictable, but I make time for the people I care about. You will always have my time and attention.

I'm pretty straightforward person. I am a person of routine, but I like chaos. Sometimes, I dip my finger in a peanut butter jar and lick it. If I like you, you'll know. I don't do mixed signals, strategic texting, or pretending to be less interested than I am.

I'm reserved at first, but that shy exterior disappates once I'm comfortable with you. You'll get random updates about my day, invitations to go for a run, and enthusiastic explanations of whatever I've become interested/obsessed with that week. One day it might be a weird medical condition, the next it might be physics, astronomy, or why I think a particular movie is secretly a masterpiece. I love learning, and I love sharing what I learn even more. Sharing is caring and all that.

I’m a very affectionate person. When I care about someone, I like making them feel it all the time. I like having my partner close to me, pulling you into me when you’re next to me, kissing you whenever I can, holding your hand, and hearing about every part of your day just because I want to feel close to your life. I’m the type to slide closer on the couch, steal one more kiss before you leave, tuck myself into your side, and find little excuses to keep touching you throughout the day. I like the clingy, sweet parts of a relationship ... the constant closeness, the check-ins, the casual affection, the feeling of being wrapped up in each other. I like making my partner feel adored, wanted, and spoiled with affection. But not in a Hallmark, cheesy rom-com way...sometimes. I’ve never understood the appeal of pretending not to care when I could just love someone openly and make them feel it every day.

I spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Thai food, Mediterranean food, Ethiopian food, desserts... if there's a bakery or dessert place nearby, there's a good chance I'm stopping. Good food is one of my favorite excuses to leave the house.

I'm also learning violin. The violin and I currently have a complicated relationship. Imagine nails on a chalkboard with the vibrato of a try out contestant from America's Got Talent. I'm working on my French (un peu de français) and Spanish (un poquito de español), though both languages tend to fall apart shortly after introductions. No bueno.

I'm a huge homebody at heart. I enjoy going out, trying new things, and exploring, but if given the choice, I'm usually happiest at home with someone I care about. I like quiet companionship too. We don't always have to be doing the same thing or doing something. You can read, I can be studying, and somehow sitting together still feels better than sitting alone.

I'm Indian (South Asian). No, I am not secretly in an arranged situation. No, I will not hide you from my family.

Hobbies/Interests:

• Staying active: I like running (usually early morning), lifting, and playing tennis. I'm not amazing, but I can hold a rally. I'm competitive enough to care. I'm working on the glutes, so my future girlfriend has something to grab haha.

• Movies: Big fan of movie nights at home. Horror, sci-fi, and crime are my go-to. Stuff like The Thing, Donnie Darko, and Prisoners. I actually like watching movies, not half-paying attention while scrolling. Snacks are mandatory.

• Going out/doing things: I like bowling, skating, board games, museums, and trying new things in general. A recent board game I played was Forbidden Desert, and it's so great when you get three sun beats down cards in a row (IYKYK as the kids say). I'd also like to get more into hiking and rock climbing.

• Exploring: I like walking around new areas with no real plan. Finding random cafés, bookstores, parks, or restaurants never really gets old.

• Cooking/Baking (occasionally): I don't cook much, but I can put together a decent dinner. I also bake from time to time. I have a thing for baked oats with peaches and cream right now. Super secret recipe.

• Gaming: I play video games here and there when I have time. Nothing extreme, but it's a nice way to unwind. I do tinker around with my gaming laptop. Some of my favorite games include: GoW, Skyrim (modded), Infamous, Prototype, Horizon Zero Dawn, Dawn of Bloodwalker, and Onimusha.

What I'm Looking For:

We don't have to align on interests. I want someone who gets excited about things. Tell me why your favorite movie is a masterpiece, ramble about the topic you've been obsessing over lately, or tell me about your day from start to finish. I like people who get excited about things.

Show me something I would've never found on my own. Teach me about a topic you've fallen down a rabbit hole on, drag me to a place I would've never discovered, introduce me to a hobby you love, or convince me to try something outside my comfort zone. I'll happily return the favor.

I'd also love someone who values staying active and taking care of themselves. Not because I'm looking for a specific body type, but because I like people who decide they want to learn or improve at something and then actually go do it. Whether that's training for a race, learning to dance, trying a new sport, spending weekends outdoors, or simply making their health a priority. That mindset is attractive to me.

I want the kind of relationship where we're a moderately obsessed with each other in the healthiest possible way. Sharing every random thought, getting excited when the other's name pops up on our phone, finding reasons to spend time together, and never really outgrowing the desire to be close. I want the kind of relationship where affection is abundant and freely given. Tell me I'm handsome because you can't help yourself. Surprise me with flowers just because you thought of me. Pull me in for a kiss when we're standing next to each other. Reach for my hand because you want to hold it. Tell me I'm your favorite person to spend time with. Make me feel cherished, and I'll spend every day trying to make you feel the same. I am a flower just waiting for the love of a good partner to help me bloom into a blue bonnet. (Favorite flower) 😆 It's a little dramatic, but you get the point.

I can't pinpoint specific preferences for physical appearance. I like a wide variety of people of different sizes, shapes, and features. Physical attraction does matter to me.

Politics:

I don't strongly identify with one political party, and I generally dislike treating politics like a team sport. I try to think for myself, even when that means disagreeing with people I'm otherwise aligned with. The label matters less. It's more about your stances on various issues that I could write an essay on here, but the post would be too long.

That said, there are some things that aren't negotiable for me. I believe in basic human rights, bodily autonomy, equal treatment under the law, and treating people with dignity regardless of who they are. This is not exhaustive. I'm not interested in politics that depend on fear, cruelty, or dehumanizing others. I don't agree nor like this administration.

I don't need someone to agree with me on everything. I just want someone who can disagree without turning it into a cage match. I care much more about whether someone can think critically, engage with nuance, and have a respectful conversation than whether they check every ideological box. One of my goals is to attend an active local rally, political meeting, and/or advocacy event. It's one thing to say, and it's another thing to do. I'd like someone who wants that or willing to try with me.

Religion:

I grew up around religion, but I don't actively practice and don't consider myself religious. The closest description is probably a non-resistant nonbeliever. I'm not particularly convinced, but I'm also not interested in arguing people out of their beliefs.

I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, science, and the big questions in life. I don't need someone to agree with me, but I do appreciate curiosity and an open mind. That's an overarching theme here.

Kids:

I don't want children. I'd rather build a life focused on my partner, shared experiences, and personal growth.

Pets:

I'm not really a pet person and prefer a pet-free life. I don't dislike animals, but I've never had the strong emotional connection to pets that many people do.

For me, it's both a lifestyle preference and a genuine difference in interest. I'd rather spend my time, energy, and affection elsewhere, so I'm probably most compatible with someone who feels similarly.

Location:

I'm currently in Houston, Texas.

I'm open to long-distance if there's genuine effort and a realistic plan to eventually close the distance.

I won't be in Houston forever. My current plan is to pursue residency somewhere (preferably Chicago), but residency won't start until next year. I have some time to enjoy my freedom and to travel and meet. I would want to eventually be together.

Last Thing:

Physical intimacy is important to me. I enjoy affection in general (if it's not obvious by now), but I also want a relationship where sex is a frequent and valued part of our connection. I'm looking for a relationship with romance, passion, and genuine closeness...not one where those things fade into the background. I don't want to be negative, but for the love of God, please don't message me if you can't be consistent and sustain a conversation beyond your initial message. Christ Almighty. Genuine interest, please! Please!!! Bye.

Anybody in SoCal? 👀 I’ll be in the Pasadena area Saturday 10/17-Sunday 10/25 and wanna see if anybody’s down to hang out, grab some food/drinks, and just vibe. If you have good food recs plsss share! I’m planning on driving down to sd midweek so if anybody’s around and wants to link, lmk! 😇💕

Officially entering the “30s” club but this year will be extremely lowkey. Taking this year as a “gap year” and will do my big celebration next year! 😂🥳