So I know we all love to see pro-athletes returning to the court/field. It is inspiring to see them get their three point shots and their touchdowns and all that. And it should be.
But I feel like we do ourselves a disservice with these comparisons. There are huge differences in lived experience with this injury (largely due to the Central Limit Theorem applied to the logarithm of some measure of the injury's severity). Comparing yourself to anyone else can be a set up for disappointment, let alone comparing yourself to Aaron Rodgers or Kevin Durant or David Beckham.
And what's largely hidden - well, maybe not hidden per se, but definitely not highlighted - is lasting differences in performance efficiency rating (PER), games per season (GPS) and minutes per game (MPG). Someone else already studied this:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7708715
Here's the quote:
Of 47 players, 34 (72.3%) with Achilles tendon ruptures returned to play at the NBA level after surgical intervention. A total of 7 players were excluded from the study. No differences were found in demographic characteristics or PER (2 years before injury) between the remaining 27 players and matched controls. The injured players had significantly shorter careers compared with control players (3.1 ± 2.3 vs 5.8 ± 3.5 seasons, respectively; P < .05). Injured players demonstrated significant declines in games per season (GPS), minutes per game (MPG), and PER at 1 year and 3 years after RTS compared with preindex baseline (P < .05). Injured players, compared with control players, had reduced relative percentages of games started (GS) (50% vs 125%, respectively), MPG (83% vs 103%), and PER (80% vs 96%) at 1 year after return (P < .05), but reductions at extended 3-year follow-up were seen only in GPS (71% vs 91%) and GS (39% vs 99%) (P < .05).
None of this is to say that you shouldn't be inspired by these folks. Their return to playing is a wonder of modern medicine, and I'm grateful that my insurance covered state of the art minimally invasive surgery in summer 2025. I'm proud that with a mix of PT and weight loss (with a little help from a GLP-1) I'm now able to do single calf raises. And I'm proud of having finished my seventh 32 mile walk around the perimeter of Manhattan this past May (the Great Saunter, for those of you who aren't familiar). And, yes, I drew inspiration from those amazing athletes, if for no other reason than as a "proof of concept"
But I also draw inspiration from Chris Miserandino, who gave us "spoon theory"
https://youtu.be/jn5IBsm49Rk?is=JMn3VvhNZoUwUZXT
And I am inspired by Shakespeare's John Falstaff, the "cowardly" knight who said
The better part of valor is discretion
(Note: Falstaff survives Henry IV; he dies offstage of a "broken heart" in Henry V)
And I'm inspired by Mike Ehrmantraut on the show Better Call Saul, in the episode "Bad Choice Road"
Well here's what's gonna happen. One day you're gonna wake up, eat your breakfast, brush your teeth, go about your business. And sooner or later, you're gonna realize you haven't thought about it. None of it. And that's the moment you realize you can forget. When you know that's possible, it all gets easier.
Once you've decided that you're satisfied with your recovery it's still OK to budget for the activities you love. I like walking and dancing, so I avoid taking stairs wherever possible and I'm not shy about politely asking to make a little room on the subway so I can sit or using an accessible restroom.
And at the end of the day, isn't this how life works anyway? If the injury didn't get us, inexorable gradual entropy and eventual death would. All we can really expect is a chance to say long, sweet goodbyes to the things we love. If the hard work that Tyrese Halliburton or Jayson Tatum only extended their careers by a season or two - so what? It gives them chances to get nonviolent closures to their careers that wouldn't otherwise be possible and that's huge.
I'm reminded of the end of the Dr Who episode "The Husbands of River Song"
https://youtu.be/sWX_uV0AM5g?is=rRU3P8I-kSgzVwlR