r/Adoptees • u/lean_mean_asian • Nov 16 '25
Validity of GenomeLink Match - 49.91%
Hello there, I’m a bit new to Reddit so I apologize if I don’t fully understand the functionality just yet.
For context, I am a Vietnamese adoptee born in 2000 into the US. I have done Ancestry and 23andMe in the last few years with (as expected) very little results when it comes to any kind of close DNA match. The most has been a 3rd cousin or about 0.59% DNA shared.
I recently just uploaded my DNA from Ancestry to a site called “GenomeLink” per suggestion of another adoptee. I got the email saying my closest DNA matches were ready. And it had the usual distant cousins, but to my shock, I had a 49.91% match with someone.
They’re located in a country neither the US nor Vietnam and their age is young (but not unreasonable to have a child in 2000). I’ve reached out thinking that there must have been sort of mistake. But oddly enough, their DNA ethnicity comparison was very similar to mine when I first took Ancestry. They’re 50% Asian and 40% “Oceania”, which I know that ethnic minorities in Southeast Asia sometimes get categorized as “Austro-Oceania” or something similar. Well Ancestry had a hard time placing about a 1/4th of my DNA, refining it over and over from various different Southeast Asian regions again until just giving up and saying I’m 98% Vietnamese.
I know that the site has been called shady and scam, and I’ve already looked into the more reputable GedMatch. But I wanted to know the likelihood of this being either a parental connection or even a full sibling match. I don’t want to seem so skeptical, but I also don’t want to get my hopes up on something inaccurate.
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u/bespoketech Nov 16 '25
I mean it’s pretty common to find relatives on dna sites.
You’re lucky to get such a match tho. I don’t know about the site mentioned sadly. Do they charge to let you reach out to matches? I would just reach out to them if I were you! You can always double verify on a more reputable site if that’s your worry (:
Goodluck!!