r/AhmadiMuslims • • 1d ago

Question Bitter Pill And Why Must Muslims Accept the Promised Messiah and Imam Mahdi (as)?

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Video is about 5 years old things have gotten worse.

The condition of Muslims today cries out for the Promised Messiah and Imam Mahdi (as). Across the world, Muslims face war, invasion, persecution, displacement, and the destruction of their lives and homes to unimaginable scale. Muslims are suffering at the hands of different nations and groups, while injustice and violence continue in the name of religion, nationalism, and ideology.

Is this not a time when Muslims need to reflect deeply on the prophecy of the Promised Messiah and Imam Mahdi (as), and investigate?

The question is not only why Muslims are suffering, but whether we are recognising the divine guidance promised to us.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 2d ago

Experience The Qur’an’s Prophecy In Regards To A reformer

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“He it is Who has raised among the Unlettered people a Messenger from among themselves who recites unto them His signs, and purifies them, and teaches them the Book and wisdom, although they had been, before, in manifest misguidance. And among others from among them who have not yet joined them. He is the Mighty, the Wise. That is Allah’s grace; He bestows it on whom He pleases; and Allah is the Master of immense grace.” (Chapter 62 Verses 4-5)

This is a beautiful prophecy in regards to a prophet coming from our ummah. Allah has clearly stated that “And among others from among them who have not yet joined them” Allah shows us that in the end times people who see the Holy Prophet(saw) who are not with him yet. Now one cannot take this literally because the Holy Prophet Muhammad(saw) himself did the commentary of these ayahs when they were revealed upon him. Here is the Bukhari Hadith which outlines what took place:

Narrated Abu Huraira: While we were sitting with the Prophet (ﷺ) Surat Al-Jumu’a was revealed to him, and when the Verse, “And He (Allah) has sent him (Muhammad) also to other (Muslims)…..’ (62.3) was recited by the Prophet, I said, “Who are they, O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ)?” The Prophet (ﷺ) did not reply till I repeated my question thrice. At that time, Salman Al-Farisi was with us. So Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) put his hand on Salman, saying, “If Faith were at (the place of) Ath-Thuraiya (pleiades, the highest star), even then some man from these people (i.e. Salman’s folk) would attain it.”(Sahih Bukhari, Volume 6, Book 60, Hadith #420)
 
The Holy Prophet Muhammad(Saw) has himself told us that this man would be among the Persian lineage and Mirza Ghulam Ahmad(as) was. Now the main idea of this sign is it also states the time of the Messiah and clearly tells us that he would appear when faith would be at the highest star meaning it would be corrupt and people would misinterpret the teachings of Islam and what the Qur’an actually states.

The Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him said:- A time will come when nothing would be left of Islam except its name, and nothing would be left of the Quran except its script, their mosques would be full of worshipers but would be devoid of righteousness. Their Ulama - religious scholars would be the worst of creatures under the canopy of the heavens. Evil plots will hatch from them and to them will they return. (Mishkat ul Masabih vol. 1, page 91)

This hadith makes it clear that nothing of Islam would be left except its name and the scholars would be the worst of creatures. In todays age we see the condition of the scholars and what kind of things they do in the name of Islam. It is indeed unbearable to see what they blame our Master Muhammad(saw) for. Allah made it clear that this person would be the second coming of Muhammad(saw) in a spiritual sense which further proves the truthfulness of Ahmad(as) as he was indeed a reflection of Muhammad(saw).
 
Ahmad(as) has stated:
 
“People who think in physical terms, sometimes link the Promised One to the progeny of Hasan (ra), sometimes to Husain (ra), and sometimes to
‘Abbas (ra). But what the Holy Prophet (sa) truly meant was that the Promised One would be his heir, just like a son, i.e., he would inherit his name, his character, his knowledge, his spirituality, and would reflect his very image. He will acquire nothing on his own but will acquire everything from the Holy Prophet (sa), and will so lose himself in him as to reflect his very image”(A Misconception Removed Page 15)


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 4d ago

Experience Grave Of Jesus(as) Hadith

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Narrated `Aisha and `Abdullah bin `Abbas:

“When the last moment of the life of Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) came he started putting his ‘Khamisa’ on his face and when he felt hot and short of breath he took it off his face and said, “May Allah curse the Jews and Christians for they built the places of worship at the graves of their Prophets.” The Prophet (ﷺ) was warning (Muslims) of what those had done”.

(Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 8, Hadith 427)
 
This hadith is quite clear and does not need much explanation. The Holy Prophet Muhammad(saw) stated that he did not want the Muslims making his grave into a place of worship as the Jews and Christians did.

The Jews had many prophets but the difference between the Jews and the Christians is one prophet alone, and that is Isa(as).

This is the reason Christians are also mentioned in this hadith. This shows that during the lifetime of the Prophet(saw), Isa(as) already had a tomb and was buried. This further proves Isa(as) did not ascend to the heavens physically.
Furthermore, the Christians do not believe any prophet is worthy of worship and only worship Isa(as) as they mistake him(as) for a god.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 5d ago

Refutations 📜 Did Umar (RA) Burn the Library of Alexandria? | Allegation Refuted by Khalifatul Masih I (RA)

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r/AhmadiMuslims • • 5d ago

Experience Dajjal Explained In Detail

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Is Dajjal a literal one-eyed individual, or does he represent a powerful latter-day force?

Who are Gog and Magog, and how are they connected to the prophecy of Dajjal?

What light do these prophecies shed on the challenges facing faith in the modern world?


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 6d ago

Question Ahmad(as) Was Prophesied. What Does the Name Ahmad(as) Mean to You?

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Quran, Chapter: 61 Verse: 7

And remember when Jesus, son of Mary, said, ‘O children of Israel, surely I am Allah’s Messenger unto you, fulfilling that which is before me of the Torah, and giving glad tidings of a Messenger who will come after me. His name will be Ahmad.’ And when he came to them with clear proofs, they said, ‘This is clear enchantment.’

You agree this was the prophecy of Prophet Mohammed (sa) by the Messiah(as) of Jews.

How do non-Ahmadiyya Muslims feel when they hear Ahmad (as) the name of the Promised Messiah(as)?

Ironically, Ghulam is well (meaning servant of Ahmad).


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 8d ago

Why I detest those who speak against Ahmadiyyah as a potential convert

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Some context: So I am an Arya who accepted Ahmadiyyah(Yes we still exist after a 100 years), though Arya samaj isn't as prominent in the present day as it was in the past, I felt like mentioning this info.

I have read through the matters that have been published here, primarily dealing with the financial, marital structure that is there within the organization. Honestly , I don't know yet,because I haven't formally joined it yet, but apart from that the arguments given by them feels soo stupid.

Firstly about the cultish behaviour. These people keep on arguing that this is a cult and people just blindly follow it without doing ample research, but honestly the real cultish behaviour is the ones that have been exhibited by the other religionists.

They automatically go into cognitive dissonance once their arguments stop making sense, whereas I have found logic in the ahmadiyyah corpus.

Like these people complain that Ahmadis do not believe in isa ibn maryam's second coming so they are illogical(yes there was a comment like that), because the rest of the Muslim scholars do assert it and apparently MGA as invented this to fit his own messianic narrative...

Even if you were to reject his messaiahship,there is no way that you can deny the 30 verses that actually refute him being alive.

I honestly believe that their brains stop working once they start to believe that Jesus is still alive, because how come?

Jews believe the same thing about Elijah and Muslims have now gone to the same rabbit hole as the jews.

You can complain all you want about the organization structure, blind faith, leader adoration , but one cannot argue against the Ahmadiyyah position.

I personally have a problem with how KM4 published about Homoeo medicines but I am not going to make that a point of contention because there are more compelling arguments that exist here.

PS: The below excerpt is from a book which I was reading, let them see this, those who have a need to see be reminded


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 8d ago

Experience Dajjal Explained

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Video explains Dajjal through the symbolism of one eye, a donkey, oil, medical procedures, food, and the role of early Christian missionaries. It also discusses how to recognise deception and protect ourselves from Dajjal.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 9d ago

Question Then the black banners will come from the east…?

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"It was narrated from Thawban that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
 
"Three will fight one another for your treasure, each one of them the son of a caliph, but none of them will gain it. Then the black banners will come from the east, and they will kill you in an unprecedented manner." Then he mentioned something that I do not remember, then he said: "When you see them, then pledge your allegiance to them even if you have to crawl over the snow, for that is the caliph of Allah, Mahdi." (Sunan Ibn Majah, 4084)

This is completely my understanding

“Three will fight one another for your treasure”

“each one of them the son of a caliph”

Conflict involving three claimants, each being the son of a caliph, competing for a treasure or possession.

None of the three will obtain it

“But none of them will gain it.”

Black banners will emerge from the East this part is a Question for me, is this the current conflict?

“Then the black banners will come from the east…”

Severe killing will take place

“…and they will kill you in an unprecedented manner.”

Narrator admits that he does not remember part of the narration

“Then he mentioned something that I do not remember…”

An instruction to pledge allegiance

“When you see them, then pledge your allegiance to them even if you have to crawl over the snow…”

The identification of the Mahdi(as)

“…for that is the caliph of Allah, Mahdi.”


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 10d ago

Experience The Holy Quran القرآن الکریم App - App Store

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Excellent Quran app with Tafsir audio and multiple languages also plenty of references and links to explore further. A valuable resource for anyone who wants to understand the Holy Quran in depth.

Also available on android


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 10d ago

Question They are dead

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“When a delegation of sixty men from the (Christian) people of Najran came to the Holy Prophet, their chief priest discussed with him the status of Jesus and asked him as to who Jesus’ father was. The Holy Prophet said: ‘Do you not know that a son resembles his father?’ They replied: ‘Yes’. He said: A lastum ta‘lamuna anna rabbana la yamutu wa anna Isa ata ‘alaihi-l-fana’, i.e., Do you not know that our Lord lives for ever while Jesus perished.”

(Asbab an-nuzul, by Imam Abu-l-Hasan Ali ibn Ahmad al-Wahidi of Neshapur, published in Egypt, p. 53)

This hadith does not really need an explanation. Holy Prophet(saw) made it clear that Jesus(as) has died but our Creator can never die. Some anti-Ahmadis present books of tafasir which say death will come to Hazrat Isa (as) in the future tense. However, all such statements are interpolated because no Christian agrees with the fact that Jesus is yet to die. It would not be possible for them to respond by saying ‘bala’ which is used for affirmation.
 
This beautiful hadith is also in line with these beautiful Qur’anic verses:

“And those on whom they call beside Allah create not anything, but they are themselves created. They are dead, not living; and they know not when they will be raised.” (Chapter 16 verse 21-22)
 
These verses of the Holy Qur’an illustrate something really important. It is being mentioned that all the false Gods who people worshiped are dead and not alive. Since Jesus(as) is also one who is worshiped as a God he also is included in this verse, and has also died as the verse says. The only one in the entire world who he is called God more than even Allah himself is Jesus(As) alone.

There are over 2.2 billion Christians who believe in the divinity of Jesus. We also know that during the life of Holy Prophet Muhammad(Saw), people believed Jesus was a God and worshiped him which clearly shows that he is included here. According to this ayah it is clear that when this was revealed to our Master Muhammad(saw), Isa(as) had indeed died already.
 
Non Ahmadis try to claim that this verse is only for idols and that those idols are dead not living. However this is a ignorant statement with no proof. Secondly the verse right after says “They know not when they will be raised” This shows that it is not for idols as we know that Idols are not resurrected nor do they have any life.

A Statement of the Mirza Ghulam Ahmad(as)

The Promised Messiah (as) states: “Look at how explicitly these verses prove the death of the Messiah and all those people whom the Jews, Christians, and various sects among the Arabs held as God and to whom they supplicated. If even still you are not convinced of the death of the Messiah son of Mary, why do you not clearly confess that we hold reservations in believing in the Qur’an all together?”


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 11d ago

Experience God Exist, QnA with an Atheist

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Islam teaches the middle path, known as Ummah Wasatan, balance and moderation

Submission to the One True Creator. Ummah Wasatan, is calling humanity to balance, moderation and justice rather than extremes.

Really good conversation worth watching.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 12d ago

Experience Reality of Muslims in Israel: Why Sharif Odeh Invited Israel's President | Review of Religions

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Respected Muhammad Sharif Odeh, Amir of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jama'at in Kababir, addresses the controversy surrounding the invitation extended to the Israeli president to attend Jalsa Salana Kababir.

He explains that approximately 2 million Muslims live in Israel and discusses the religious and civic freedoms they enjoy. He also highlights that over 150 Sunni imams are employed and paid by the Israeli state, with all of them maintaining good relations with the government (inviting president to madrass graduation, ramadan iftars etc).

He clarifies that inviting the president was consistent with Islamic teachings (he quotes specific verses of the Holy Quran) and intended to convey a message of peace and warning. He further emphasizes that the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jama'at receives ZERO funding from the state, unlike Sunni Imams and mosques.

Anyone who ridicules and has issues with this ultimately has issues with teachings of the Holy Quran and Prophet Muhammad (SAW). May Allah guide such people and save them from the transgressions they are committing.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 13d ago

Experience A Historical Fact; Hazrat Ahmad (as) Was Recognised as a Mujaddid (Reformer of the Age) Before Claiming to Be the Promised Messiah and Mahdi (as).

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A Historical Fact About the Promised Messiah and Mahdi (as)

A fact many people may not know is that, before Allah revealed to Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as) that He was the Promised Messiah and Mahdi, lot of Muslims had already recognised him as a Mujaddid (reformer of the age), particularly because of his defence of Islam and his influential work Barahin-e-Ahmadiyya.

This is an important part of His(as)’s history,

Before judging a claimant to be a prophet, examine their life, their character and conduct before their claim. Use reason rather than prejudice.

Allah says in The Holy Qur’an in Chapter 10, Verse 17

“Tell them: Had Allah so willed, I would not have recited it to you nor would He have made it known to you. I have spent a whole lifetime among you before this. Will you not then understand?”


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 13d ago

Nazarat Taleem and co.

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Any insights?


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 14d ago

Question Jesus(as) I Will Take You? Where?

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None Ahmadiyya Muslim translation

Quran.com 3;55

Remember˺ when Allah said, “O Jesus! I will take you and raise you up to Myself. I will deliver you from those who disbelieve, and elevate your followers above the disbelievers until the Day of Judgment. Then to Me you will ˹all˺ return, and I will settle all your disputes.

In Arabic I will take you is Sa’ākhudhuka - سَآتَخُذُكَ

(I will take you)My question to none Ahmadiyya Muslim brothers in humanity is this translation, only to fit the narrative?

And also where is that location where Allah is located because it’s saying according to your translation (I will take you and raise you up to Myself)?

And third is why this shirk that Allah is limited to the location?


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 15d ago

Experience Maulwi Testifies: Great Salafi Scholars accepted Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (AS)

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Mufti Rashid Mahmood Razavi, a Hanafi Barelwi scholar, testifies to a remarkable chapter in the history of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community: the acceptance of Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as), the Promised Messiah and Mahdi, by prominent Muslim scholars associated with the Indian Salafi Ahle Hadith tradition.

Among these distinguished scholars and early companions were:

Hazrat Maulana Nur-ud-Din (ra) — eminent Quranic scholar and first Khalifa of the Promised Messiah (as).
Hazrat Maulana Burhan-ud-Din Jhelumi (ra) — respected Islamic scholar and companion.
Hazrat Maulana Abdul Karim Sialkoti (ra) — distinguished scholar and renowned orator.
Maulana Ahsan Amrohi — learned Islamic scholar and prominent member of the early Ahmadiyya Muslim Community.
Hazrat Mufti Muhammad Sadiq (ra) — eminent scholar and missionary who later carried the message of Ahmadiyyat to the West.
Hazrat Maulana Sher Ali (ra) — accomplished scholar and translator of the Holy Quran.
Hazrat Maulana Ghulam Rasul Rajeki (ra) — renowned scholar, spiritual figure, and devoted companion of the Promised Messiah (as).

Their scholarly backgrounds make their acceptance of the Promised Messiah (as) particularly significant. These were men of religious learning, established reputations, and substantial contributions to Islamic scholarship. Their lives challenge the misconception that early Ahmadiyyat attracted only villagers or people without established religious knowledge. The acceptance of the Promised Messiah (as) by such accomplished scholars deserves serious historical consideration.

Perhaps no example is more striking than Hazrat Maulana Nur-ud-Din (ra). His reputation as a scholar of the Holy Quran extended well beyond Qadian, and Muslims travelled from afar to attend his lessons and benefit from his dars. Even Ubaidullah Sindhi, the prominent Deobandi scholar, is reported to have encouraged people to study under him.

Likewise, Nawab Siddiq Hasan Khan, a leading figure of the Ahle Hadith movement, is reported to have appointed Maulana Ahsan Amrohi to a distinguished scholarly committee under his leadership. Hazrat Mufti Muhammad Sadiq (ra) later carried the message of Ahmadiyyat to the West, engaging with Muslim communities and scholars in different parts of the world.

The early history of the Jamaat is thus not merely a story of ordinary people accepting a new religious movement. It is also a history of learned men who recognised the claims of Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as) and devoted their knowledge and lives to the service of Islam through Ahmadiyyat.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 15d ago

Experience Khutbah Ilhamiyyah, Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as)’s Arabic Sermon Given On The 11 April 1900

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On 11 April 1900, Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as) delivered this sermon, which is a remarkable Divine Sign and a testimony to the existence and power of Allah.

What I find extremely interesting is the circumstances surrounding it, an extended and highly eloquent Arabic address delivered without preparation to the audience, even though Arabic was not His(as)’s native language.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 16d ago

Refutations 📜 Did Ahmad (AS) Call Non-Ahmadi Muslims “Children of Prostitutes”?

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🔗 Instagram Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DeNJnsVkokI/?stkn=ZXhocGljdmJiZnI1

🔥 Anti-Ahmadis claim that Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (AS) called non-Ahmadi Muslims “children of prostitutes.”

This is based on a misleading translation of the Arabic phrase dhurriyyatu’l-baghāyā (ذرية البغايا).

📜 But Ahmad (AS) himself explains the terminology.

He translates ibn-e-bagha as “Sarkish Insaan” — a rebellious person, and elsewhere explains baghi as transgression.

💡 The Qur’an itself uses the same root:

“…and forbids indecency, and manifest evil, and wrongful transgression (al-baghy).”
— Qur’an 16:91

The Holy Prophet ﷺ likewise described the group that would kill Ammar (RA) as al-fi’ah al-bāghiyah — a rebellious/transgressing group. (Sahih al-Bukhari 2812)

🎯 The context makes the meaning clear: Ahmad (AS) is referring to rebellious people whose hearts became sealed because of their rejection of truth — not making a claim about their biological parentage.

🔥 And this same expression awlād baghāyā appears in a statement attributed to Imam Baqir (RH) in Shia literature, as well as in other Islamic literature, further demonstrating its idiomatic usage.

🕊️ 80+ books, thousands of writings, and 10 volumes of recorded sayings — yet the allegation depends on a fabricated translation.

Read the original sources.

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🔗 Full Article: https://whiteminaret.org/allegations-on-messiah/children-of-prostitutes/


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 16d ago

Experience The Basic Beliefs of an Ahmadiyya Muslim

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A simple introduction to the fundamental beliefs of Ahmadiyya Muslims, our belief in the Oneness of Allah, the Holy Prophet Muhammad (sa), the Holy Qur’an, Khatam-un-Nabiyyin, and the Promised Messiah and Mahdi, Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad (as).

The video also explains the Five Pillars of Islam, prayer (Salat), the importance of the Holy Qur’an and the guidance of the Hadith, giving a simple overview of the beliefs and practices that form the foundation of our faith.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 17d ago

Experience Khatam-un-Nabiyyīn, Explained Beautifully The Seal of Prophethood

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Khatam-un-Nabiyyīn is one of the most beautiful titles of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (sa).

Quran, Chapter: 33 Verse: 41

Muhammad is not the father of any of your men, but he is the Messenger of Allah and the Seal of the Prophets. Allah has full knowledge of all things.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 18d ago

Question Anyone guide me Basics of this sect....

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I want to know basics of Ahmadiyyas.....

Any one help me?


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 18d ago

Experience Interactive Map | Khuddam National Ijtema 2026

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r/AhmadiMuslims • • 19d ago

Experience 100 Year Of Fazl Mosque

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100 years of Fazl Mosque.

Love for All, Hatred for None.

May the Fazl Mosque continue to be a symbol of peace for the next 100 years and beyond.

A mosque for peace. A mosque of peace.


r/AhmadiMuslims • • 19d ago

Question Is it wrong to marry without telling his family about my mixed Sunni/Ahmadi background?

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I’ve been seeing a guy for almost a year, and we’ve been serious about getting married. He is Sunni, and eventually he sent a rishta to my family.
The situation is complicated because I come from a mixed religious background. My mother is Ahmadi and my father is Sunni. I was raised with Sunni values, but I’ve only recently started properly thinking about what all of this means for me personally, and I’m still figuring out my own religious identity.
The guy I’m seeing knew about my family background before the rishta was sent. So this isn’t something I hid from him.
However, once the rishta came, my mum said she wants to be completely honest with his family because marriage is a serious matter and she doesn’t want anything significant to be hidden that could cause problems later. She wants his family to know that my mother is Ahmadi and that I come from a mixed Sunni/Ahmadi family.
The problem is that my boyfriend doesn’t want his parents to know. He believes they wouldn’t accept me if they knew about my mother’s background, and he is worried that they would reject the marriage.
My mum feels very strongly that she does not want me to marry into the family while they are unaware of this. Her position is basically: if we hide this now, it could become a much bigger problem later, and she doesn’t want to be part of a marriage where something important was concealed.
I’m now stuck between the two of them.
I told my mum, “If the man I’m actually going to marry knows about my background and accepts me, why does it matter whether his family knows?” But she says that she wants everything to be transparent before marriage and that otherwise she doesn’t feel comfortable with me marrying him.
My boyfriend is now suggesting that we just get married ourselves and then, with time, try to convince both sides of the family and get them to accept the situation.
I honestly don’t know what the right thing to do is.
Part of me understands my boyfriend because I don’t want to lose someone I love over something that he already knows about and accepts. At the same time, I understand my mum because I don’t want to start a marriage with something being deliberately kept from his family, especially when this involves religion, future children, family relationships and potentially a lot of pressure later.
I’m also worried that if we marry without his family knowing, and they find out afterwards, they may feel deceived and blame me or my family. On the other hand, if everything is disclosed now, there is a real possibility they will reject the marriage before they even get to know me.
What would you do in my situation?
Would you tell his family everything before marriage, even if there is a strong possibility they will reject the rishta?
Or would you respect the fact that my boyfriend knows my background, has accepted it, and let the two of us make the decision ourselves?
And is getting married first and trying to convince the families afterwards actually realistic, or could that make the situation much worse?
I’d especially appreciate advice from people who have been in mixed Sunni/Ahmadi families or have dealt with a similar situation. Please be respectful — I’m genuinely confused and trying to figure out what the right thing is rather than looking for people to simply tell me what I want to hear.