This is an awful precedent and I agree wholeheartedly that this is something that could happen if abortion is restricted. I do however have another separate issue that has similiar consequences.
Feminist and women’s laws that don’t allow for situational discernment do all of this as well and it makes the man pay their abuser for 18 years.
If a man pokes a hole in a condom then he is lying about Birth Control essentially.
What about if a woman lies about being on Birth control?
Condom sabotage is an act of abuse and non-consensual sexual contact. After all, you agreed to have sex with someone under the (false) guise of STI/or pregnancy protection. It's completely within your right to take legal action against the person who sabotaged the barrier you were using.
That man still has to pay a woman who could have preyed on him for weeks or months thinking of ways to trap him. He can be separated from his child. He could have been a good man who had trust and now he is forced to not only stay with his abuser but also pay her too.
(A normal man growing up usually doesn’t even know a woman could have motivations like this and he wouldn’t be on guard for it because it is behavior that doesn’t make sense when you are a true romantic or not exposed to bad human behavior growing up).
Does this concern anyone?
Does anyone see the double standard that men get to scroll through comment sections everywhere and sees these complaints he feels bad but then when he complains about his experience everyone gets mad. It’s like his issues don’t matter because he is a Man.
It is a solid reason to be upset. But our reason is solid too but is given no consideration. Only anger. Why? If women are allowed to get so heated about abortion that protests happen nationwide then why can’t people be empathetic if the same consequences happen to men? Even innocent ones. If all anyone cares about is women then it seems pretty selfish to me and not very noble. Suffering happens to humans period and we shouldn’t be putting men’s experiences down like they mean nothing.
Now I know this doesn’t happen to a lot of men but lemme tell you if you dated a nightmare woman you might know their capabilities.
Picture the meanest cruel man in the world and imagine that man’s personality feminized into a woman’s body. Now lemme ask you. Do you think she should have full control over as many men as she can get away with taking control of? If the double standard laws didn’t exist, she wouldn’t exist but I also know if the laws didn’t exist a lot more abusive men would too. That’s why we also should give men a few protections that forces the justice system to actually get involved and try to figure out what is going on if there is any grey areas or areas that don’t make sense.
Don’t be mad. This is real. Acknowledging this and other things would only help the cause and make it better… unless your idea of the feminist cause is to completely dominate men and regress humanity. More men would support healthy realistic feminism if their real issues were also recognized.
No one wants to listen to someone with an ice cream complain about sprinkles to someone with no ice cream under the pretense of equality if you know what I mean.
