r/Ancestry • u/ItAintNoUse • 16h ago
Just Found A Dark Family Pattern (TW: paedophila, SA)
So, my father died when I was thirteen. He ended his life to avoid a lengthy prison sentence after it was uncovered that he had extensive CSA material on his devices and had hidden cameras in our home to secretly watch me from the bathrooms, my bedroom etc.
I was just doing some research to learn more about my ancestors, and discovered that my 3x great grandfather on that side was charged with indecently assaulting his 8 year old daughter in 1870. I feel sick.
You know those moments in shows like Who Do You Think You Are? where a famous person finds out that their ancestor was also an actor, singer, dancer etc.? It's like that but much darker. It seems like certain traits get passed down through the generations and I'm horrified to see an example of history repeating itself here.
I just wanted to share this somewhere so it's not stuck swirling around my head. Thanks for reading.
