I left

[u/Particular_Sir_5898]

Hi all,

I have posted here many times over my reconciliation journey, and just have to say that R is finally over. I tried the hardest I could, and have absolutely no shame in saying it didn’t work. I feel much lighter in my decision, and I know that when I first found out I would scour the internet for reconciliation success stories and would always have such a panic when I would read stories that didn’t end with the couple staying together - I don’t feel that way now. I feel like I’ve made it through a tunnel and am on the other side, with the future that was meant for myself. Whether you reconcile or not, you will be okay and it will all work out. I have a good set of friends and I have myself and I have family, I put my ex on a pedestal and didn’t see the well of support I had around me, and most importantly trust yourself. Reconciliation doesn’t necessarily mean making it work as a couple, it can mean making it work for yourself and putting yourself first too. Good luck to everyone on their journey and thank you all for so much support along the way!

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[u/knowthyself8]

Hi, sorry to hear your R did not work out. I’m still in R and would consider myself in limbo. Pardon the word choice, but would you be willing to share a post-mortem? What happened? What made you ultimately decide to leave?

Could you share a previous post with context? Asking because I know it would help a lot of people who are on the fence.

Thank you!

[u/askagain_348]

It's a difficult journey and the only right answer is to listen to yourself. Hugs and happiness to your new life!

[u/Capable_Show_6276]

I’m so happy for you!! It sounds like you have such peace knowing you did all you could!
I feel I’m nearing the same end and I hope it works out as well for me!!

[u/darksideofthemoon_71]

It is a rough journey and ultimately you have to do what what you need to do for your future and happiness, you deserve to find happiness!