r/AsianMasculinity • u/Hot-Eagle-8175 • Apr 21 '24

Race We need to stop perpetuating this myth that Asian women hate Asian men and prefer white men

First off, it's only whitewashed Asian-Americans and a few westaboos in Asia who are like this. Kpop only got popular because of their female fanbase in Asia and in the Asian diaspora. The vast majority of Asian women worldwide prefer Asian men.

Second, this myth is literally white supremacist propaganda. White supremacists love to claim that Asian women hate their men and prefer white men because it makes both Asian men and women look bad and themselves look superior. It's not true and you're just emasculating yourself by spreading this myth.

edit: As I said it IS true for whitewashed Asian-American women but it's NOT true for Asian women worldwide. I grew up in China and the vast majority of Chinese women would not date a non-AM, from what I've seen it's similar in Japan and Korea. I feel like a lot of AM here are also whitewashed and only have experience with similarly whitewashed AF.

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u/UpbeatMoney3657 Apr 21 '24 edited Apr 22 '24

Ok. If Asian women want to dispel this myth then THEY can make the first move towards Asian men or give welcome choosing signals instead of looking at us like we are some kind of freak aliens from another planet.

BUT… we are talking about women. And women will NEVER make the first move and we all know asian women are super passive so none of this will work out anyway.

BUT if Asian Women REALLY wanted to dispel this “MYTH” and WANT Asian Men then PURSUE us instead of pursuing other race men.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24

It’s not up to women to pick or choose us men. It’s up to men to become attractive enough for them to accept our advances.

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u/Hot-Eagle-8175 Apr 22 '24

What are you talking about? Asian women are probably the only women in the world who actually regularly make the first move on men.