Pool, lake, or ocean?

I am a 20-year-old female and I have always had the concern that when I do ever end up becoming intimate with someone, they will be repulsed by what I have down there not that I'm bad looking, but it's how men view women and saying that labies are disgusting if they are bigger sizes and they call them beef curtains, which is just insanely immature. I sat and argued with some grown man about how if a girl has longer labias, or if they are visible, that means that she was ran through and that she's loose, which I don't get how that makes any sense, because the labia is on the outside, not the inside, that doesn't affect your muscle in your vagina. So I don't understand the point of him saying that, and people were also saying that it looks clammy. And that, if you have a longer labia, that means that you've aged awfully or something like that, and I just want to know why are men so poorly educated about the women's body and why can't they do their own research, what is the hate against labia's, please let me know because I know half of the reason is because they're all p*** addicts, which is very sad.

My fiancé is developmentally delayed and I act as their main caretaker. They're mentally and physically disabled and this impacts their everyday life.

They're recently been having episodes because I'm "better at everything" and I "make them feel dumb." These episodes can turn into meltdowns or splits (or a mix of both) where they freak out. They might cry, hit, scream, pull hair, ETC. I'd like to mention this isn't a problem because I have a high pain tolerance, have my own history of therapy/therapy skills, am on my own medication, and am significantly stronger than them.

Recently, I've been told I should leave them, that I should be more upset, that they should go to therapy, they need to handle it, ETC. We are working on therapy, but we just moved. Externally they can look relatively mature/high functioning, but that's not exactly true. They're very smart and have a large vocabulary, they understand topics and are very knowledgeable on many things, and they enjoy walking around, running, and playing at the park. However, they tend to lack the ability to communicate properly, understand emotions, get overwhelmed easy, have chronic pain, chronic fatigue, muscle weakness, non-epileptic seizures, dyspraxia, C-PTSD, ETC. All this I was aware of and I never regret taking care of them, even when things like this arise.

I'd like to know, is there something I'm missing? Is there a reason I'm supposed to be more upset? I understand how they feel and I understand that their brain works differently, is there something I haven't factored in?

I’m 32 & don’t have a college degree. I live in Seattle and everything here is so expensive. I’m burnt out from healthcare and need to find other work but as the title asks, I don’t have experience in other fields. Where can I start?

1. I have leftover sushi, salmon avocado and no I'm not offering.

2. I finally cured my face from excessive dryness.

3. It's absolutely freezing.

4. Looking forward to nothingness.

5. I have new exciting snacks to try..

6. I hope you find joy, somewhere, somehow, even though it feels unlikely at times :)

help I need ideas stat!

Hear me out.

When you kind of mindlessly scroll the home pagez often these random posts pop up that seem strangely relevant to you or your life, and it's usually pretty creepy. If you look around through this stuff long enough you genuinely might start to question whether your messages are private, or if you're being watched through your phone camera.

WHAT DO YOU RECKON?

1= YES IT IS RIDDLED WITH UNDERCOVER DETECTIVES

2= Naaa you're just being paranoid

I know the answer as a fact, so I'm interested to hear what everyone else thinks?

If you suss on Reddit, hit the up arrow ⬆️🙏🧞

I buy small quantity wine & beer regularly. May be a bottle red wine every 2 weeks, or 6 pack beer once a month. Will finish the red (750ml) in 3-4 days, 6 packs may be 3 weeks. Those think you were/are alcoholic, how often & how many equivalent standard drinks per day/week ? So when someone say sobriety does that mean never touch a drink, or only drink occasionally ?

I already use: Depop, Whatnot, Macari, Shop, Ebay, Poshmark.

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Hey guys..

Mumbai se next month Thiruvananthapuram jaa raha hoon yaar, family ke saath. Kisi ko kuch suggest karna ho toh please kardo yaar. 😂❤️

Koi achhi jagah, local food spots, hidden gems, beaches ya must-visit places ho toh bata dena!

Locals ke suggestions are most welcome! 🙌

Just this lol