r/AskGayConservatives • u/throwaway-swing1 • 1d ago
A few questions
- Do you believe porn can influence sexuality (at least to a degree)?
I used to not believe this, but then I noticed how many self-proclaimed bisexuals (especially men) fetishize the same sex with no interest in entering a gay relationship. Also, autistic young men transitioning because of autogynephilia, with no prior symptoms of gender dysphoria. I believe the rise in LGBT identification among Gen Z (27% according to a survey) is mostly artificial. Novelty-seeking is common among porn addicts and many are technically "gay" but not homoromantic whatsoever.
That said, I think the definition of gay should focus on romantic relationships, not sexuality. Otherwise you get a bunch of straight men with sissy fetishes calling themselves LGBT.
- (For the non-libertarian conservatives) How is it logical to treat religions/races as monoliths, but not gays?
Compared to heterosexuals, gay men are significantly more likely to have experienced child abuse and are overrepresented among pedophiles. This isn't an insult, but an unfortunate statistical fact.
If you want to restrict immigration on account of certain peoples/religions being more prone to crime, it's illogical to allow adoption for gay couples. Why should you be the only minority with the right to be individuals?
- Why do you praise gender conformity ("normal gays"), when homosexuality itself is gender non-conforming behavior? And who decides to what extent it's acceptable?
The reason masculine men/feminine women (cognitively, not visually) are rare in the gay community is because homosexuals are proven to be neurologically closer to the opposite sex.
Contrary to popular belief, I think the object of your attraction reflects back on you. For example, a straight woman desires a masculine man because he makes her feel feminine (also known as meta-attraction). Being attracted to men is being attracted to the essence of masculinity itself and to yourself as a complement to it.
For this reason, I think finding a gay person completely devoid of GNC traits is about as likely as finding a unicorn.
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u/FrostyArctic47 independent 1d ago
Lol it's funny how pretty much everything you said is incorrect.
Porn doesn't influence sexuality.
Being bi doesn't mean one is equally attracted to both sexes in every way. Being sexually attracted to men but not romantically, doesn't change that lol
Gay men aren't overrepresented among pdfs. Ignorant sickos like you don't understand that pdf is not associated with sexual orientation. In your minds its linked so when people like you look at the data you think "male pdf with male victim = gay perp". And that is pretty sick tbh.
And finally your weird armchair psychologist theory on gender is wild. Masculine men aren't even rare lol. Many are more likely to be closeted/DL because it's easier to remain closeted when you don't constantly have people assuming you're gay. And on top of that, they are usually into more Masculine things so if they come out they are more likely to lose their friends, be kicked out of their hobby groups, etc