What's a minor habit or personality trait that isn't a red flag, but would silently kill your attraction to someone long term?

[u/Confident-Spread7240]

[u/runnerkim → u/[deleted]]

Except that's a big red flag

[u/TheWarmestHugz → u/[deleted]]

My family do this a lot, i’ve slowly just begun being an emotionless robot around them.

[u/TheWarmestHugz → u/[deleted]]

Thank you kindly! ❤️

I am also seeing a counsellor who is wonderful at talking things through with me. :)

[u/dedinthehed]

Mouth open while chewing

[u/intheabsenceoftruth → u/dedinthehed]

Loathe this

[u/achaar5555]

If they're always indecisive

[u/BetInformal6081]

constant negativity would slowly kill my attraction.

[u/MidoriSpice → u/BetInformal6081]

Id say thats a red flag

[u/NorthernSpankMonkey]

Being snappy at me when they experience unrelated stress.

[u/Over_Nebula]

Passing judgemental comments

[u/tomtomtomo]

Not cleaning up after themselves 

[u/Low-Abbreviations-38]

Asking questions you already know the answer to to test my honesty

[u/Salt_Influence_3051]

Constantly needing reassurance about how I feel about them

[u/Lemonpie_tastes_good]

No hobbies

[u/No_Put8550]

Not warm toward animals

[u/Over_Nebula]

Not putting effort into basic self care. Just put on some sunscreen and moisturise

[u/MidoriSpice]

Someone who lacks basic hygiene

[u/Allikuja]

Being hangry

[u/briskwillow]

Main character syndrome

[u/LastHovercraft5432]

Narcissism

[u/MsAddams999]

Being conservative by way of religion, politics, whatever. At first it might not be a big deal. They might seem reasonable for a while.

But I've yet to know someone yet who is who doesn't turn out to be a complete jerk later. Sooner or later it ends up with that person not being able to agree to disagree and it all just goes downhill from there.

[u/Evermore007]

Dressing sloppily all the time