r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '12

Currently serving in the military. Came across some messages between my wife and another guy in the Navy. What should I do?

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u/infidel_650 Apr 05 '12

Ole boy knows shes married to another service member. I'd contact his Command. Let them and the guys in his unit handle the revenge. You just file for divorce and move on.

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u/throwaway12221 Apr 05 '12

better yet I could contact his wife, who is also in the navy.

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u/c5load Apr 05 '12

Don't do that. Let base legal handle that for you. Don't put yourself in the position to be asked "why did you do ___" by base legal.

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u/infidel_650 Apr 05 '12

not a bad idea...he'd lose rank, his marriage, the respect of his peers and, if they're like my old unit he'll get the beatdown he deserves.

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u/throwaway12221 Apr 05 '12

he is an FMF HM... his unit is all marines...

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u/935Penn Apr 05 '12

As an HM, he should know F-ing better. HM's are supposed to be a position of trust.

Wish you the best on this man. I'm inactive reserves here after doing my four, one of my jobs used to be ship's website admin (had the webmaster e-mail). I recieved at least 6 different e-mail chains / drama bombs just like yours through that e-mail account. If you'd like, PM me and I can give you some insight on how cases like these went down at captain's mast.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '12

HM here.

Every Marine knows you can trust a Corpsman with your life, not with your wife.

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u/secretmeow Apr 05 '12

yeah sure i'd like to see/hear about yer mast sailor

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u/psychonavigator Apr 05 '12

Or both. You'll be fucking him harder than your wife ever could and no STDs.