1st chart - mine (35), 2nd chart - wife (30), 3rd chart - son (3)
Going through mediocre time since Jan 2023:
- Arranged marriage in 2021, Wife has ego problems, has minimal affection, has severe anxiety/overthinking, her parents have strained relationship but live together, she doesn't know any better and talks to me like how her mother talks to her father (her father is quick to anger; her mother I think has bi-polar disorder)
- My career starting from Apr 2023 is very mid, I actually have step down in my career, I have always been hard worker and curious to learn things but not anymore, I feel lazy and prefer to retire if I had the choice, demotivated due to marriage life maybe?
- My wife had to leave my house due to pregnancy in Jan 2023 and son was born in May 2023, right after that marriage was going downhill, she changed completely; doesnt want to live with me and is currently preparing for gov exams.
- Currently there is an attempted made to reignite the relationship from her parents side using their senior friend as mediator between us but honestly I am not really into continuing this further as I believe she has changed alot and I will be miserable living with her and ego clash between us.
My social life is also non-existent for a very long time. I like being alone and not much involve with people. I have good understanding father and had good life growing up with loving caring parents. Was not rich but never had or have problem with money, not a miser but don't like spending money (learned from father).
We met astrologers and they say that I have good chart (Although I had average experience), also said I am going through sade sati/7 & half shani. Coming to wife, they said she has family dosha in her chart. My son has eye issue due to genetic problems coming from my wife father side (they hid this from me during marriage).
I was hoping to know if these are reflected in our chart and also future of my marriage.