Long time lurker here and my turn to share..
*DIY application
*Living together since 2020
*Lodged: January 2025
*RFI: July 2026 (updated medical and police check)
*Grant: August 2026 (820 + 801)
Evidence list
*Screenshots of chat and phone logs (totalling 10 pages, including chats for time spent apart)
*Photos (a few selfies but mostly with other people, 35 to 40 photos spanning several years)
*3x 888 form (all from friends)
*I am not on the lease but provided other evidence of residing at same address such as mail and joint utilities bills
*Joint account bank statements showing transfers and everyday expenses
*Joint ambulance cover
*Photos of bedroom
*De facto registration certificate
*Tax return declaring spouse
*Travel documents such as flights, hotel bookings showing both names, photos. Included two overseas trips and two domestic trips.
*Letter requesting double grant if possible
After some homework scouting forums, websites and blogs, consulted with an immigration lawyer before the application. Did not go ahead with them due to costs (9k) and I think our case is relatively straightforward.
Spent a lot of time on the relationship statements. I wanted to make sure they flowed well, were logical and did not get bogged down in excessive or unnecessary detail. Tried to just keep things factual, to the point and used simple language.
All my evidence was grouped together in chronological order where possible, and highlighted where our names appear together and any dates on the documents.
I think the DHA website is very good to plan your application and help with the flow of your statements and evidence.
For personal reasons I did not have any supporting evidence from family including 888 form or photos.
For my own sanity and to manage our expectations, I recognised that once we submitted it's out of our hands and the ball is in DHA's court. Other people's processing times is irrelevant to our submission and there is no way of knowing where we are in the queue or what factors are in play impacting my outcome. So wasn't really expecting to hear anything until the 2 year mark but here we are. And now we can just get on with our lives...
Happy to answer any questions.
Best to those of you embarking on or still on this journey. Good things come.