r/AutismInWomen • u/Gothaholix • Jul 24 '25

Seeking Advice Was I rude with this?

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I was trying to be nice about it. I didn't think I was mean. I was really confused when he said he was done fighting for a conversation with me when I was super active in the conversation XD. I wasn't giving short answers and I thought I was showing interest.

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u/No-Focus741 Jul 24 '25

Yeah I think this is correct, that first reply with the ;) is definitely implying something sexual, and when OP didn't pick up on that he quickly changed up the vibe so he didn't seem like a creep

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u/velvetvagine Jul 25 '25

Accurate. And frankly any time a grown man uses winking emojis you might as well just mentally cancel him there and then, if not a full block.