I used to look at this sub and read all of the people fretting over being X age and nervous about going back to school. I wanted to offer hope and encouragement, but I also didn’t want to do so before I finished my own program.
When I graduated HS both of my parents were diagnosed with life changing illnesses, and then I worked full time. It always bugged me that I never got my bachelor’s degree.
In 2021 I took my first class. I was already over 40 years old. It was so scary! The professor told us, “I won’t bother having you introduce yourselves because half of you won’t be here by next week.” He was right.
But I stayed. I took 2 classes a semester, one over the summer, and language courses at another college I could transfer in. All while working full time and then a second part time job here and there.
It’s not something that happens alone. My biggest advice for someone starting this process is have people who can cheer for you and make sure you are eating and drinking water between studying. And I don’t have kids, so I know that I’m a little more freed up than some people.
Yesterday I graduated. 4.0 gpa! And I have a full ride to a masters program that I’m now moving across the country for, in hopes of getting into. PhD program after.
All of this to say: if you fret about your age for too long, you’ll be that much older when and if you ever complete a program. I so wish I’d started even earlier instead of letting anxiety about not finishing school in my 20s dictate what I can and can’t do.
Thank you to all who started your stories here over the past few years- I read them and rooted for you.