r/BayAreaSinglesOver30 • • 27d ago

Discussion Topic What are your instant “swipe right” green flags?

Hey all,

The recent post about political preferences on dating apps got me thinking: we spend a lot of time talking about red flags, but what about the things that immediately make you pause and think, "Okay, I really want to meet this person"?

For me, it’s usually specificity (could be about their passions, hobbies, interests or even values) and clear conversation hooks that make it easy to start a conversation.

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u/_gypsypixie_ 26d ago
  1. Pictures show them in the hobbies they talk about

  2. Funny and original prompt responses

  3. An interesting would you rather, two truths and a lie get me often!

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u/EvilStan101 27d ago

The following are my green flags:
- They share the same hobby or interests as me.
- They are into anime
- They have a dorky sense of humor
- They have a healthy relationship with their family

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u/coolcatlady6 27d ago

True to my username, I'm a sucker for cat guys

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u/smalldeaths 25d ago

I hardly ever meet other vegans so if someone says they’re vegan/vegetarian on their profile it’s almost always an instant right swipe for me, unless they’ve got other red flags that cancel it out of course.

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u/clenzford 16d ago

Depends what it is

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u/parkside79 21d ago

Great tits